attraction to wife: Qn for the brothers

[yusuf18]

the sisters are the foundation if they are bad the brothers are so we need to build a stronger foundation its like starting from the top when the bottom is broken

 

[Ar-RaYYan]

what i mean is evey man has urge for multipal wives thats common sence the only reason is the cost of liveing ect at the time of the profhet polagamny was widely practised and the reason why some men get violent to his wife mite come down to his needs not being met just my opoinon.

Ahh so you finally admitted that it was just your opinion not a fact! Well done!

 

[Muezzin]

Let's calm down.

As for the topic, blokes should remember:

The prettier the woman, the longer the receipt.

 

[Danah]

the sisters are the foundation if they are bad the brothers are so we need to build a stronger foundation its like starting from the top when the bottom is broken

I disagree,
why you are throwing the responsibility on the sisters only?
each one will be questioned to what s/he did, both genders have to lower their gazes, holding their desires as much as they can:


كُلُّ نَفۡسِۭ بِمَا كَسَبَتۡ رَهِينَةٌ
Every soul is a pledge for its own deeds
[74:38]



قُل لِّلۡمُؤۡمِنِينَ يَغُضُّواْ مِنۡ أَبۡصَـٰرِهِمۡ وَيَحۡفَظُواْ فُرُوجَهُمۡۚ ذَٲلِكَ أَزۡكَىٰ لَهُمۡ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ خَبِيرُۢ بِمَا يَصۡنَعُونَ (٣٠) وَقُل لِّلۡمُؤۡمِنَـٰتِ يَغۡضُضۡنَ مِنۡ أَبۡصَـٰرِهِنَّ وَيَحۡفَظۡنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبۡدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنۡهَاۖ وَلۡيَضۡرِبۡنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِہِنَّ

Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be modest. That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is aware of what they do. (30) And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms.....
[24:30-31]

sorry, but really I cant understand your theory brother!!

 

[yusuf18]

I disagree,
why you are throwing the responsibility on the sisters only?
each one will be questioned to what he did, both genders have to lower their gazes, holding their desires as much as they can:


كُلُّ نَفۡسِۭ بِمَا كَسَبَتۡ رَهِينَةٌ
Every soul is a pledge for its own deeds
[74:38]



قُل لِّلۡمُؤۡمِنِينَ يَغُضُّواْ مِنۡ أَبۡصَـٰرِهِمۡ وَيَحۡفَظُواْ فُرُوجَهُمۡۚ ذَٲلِكَ أَزۡكَىٰ لَهُمۡ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ خَبِيرُۢ بِمَا يَصۡنَعُونَ (٣٠) وَقُل لِّلۡمُؤۡمِنَـٰتِ يَغۡضُضۡنَ مِنۡ أَبۡصَـٰرِهِنَّ وَيَحۡفَظۡنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبۡدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنۡهَاۖ وَلۡيَضۡرِبۡنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِہِنَّ

Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be modest. That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is aware of what they do. (30) And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms.....
[24:30-31]

sorry, but really I cant understand your theory brother!!

not only lowering the gaze and why didnt allah tell men to wear hijab aswell allah knows women the are cause thats why he told them to wear a veil/allah taked more detail on sisters covering up./and also sisters are the foundation becouse they will bring up the next scholar of islam and the next mayrty we need to be able to trust them and bring them up right ect if our sisters end up corupt allah mustan what hope have we got

 

[The Ruler]

This is probably off-topic, but so are the posts in the last 2 pages... But could you quote the hadiths that specify women as the ones to "bring up the next scholar of islam and the next mayrty"?

I don't think that a man is responsible only for his sperm and his money.

 

[Ar-RaYYan]

yea and ......

well as far as i remember you were the one that stated that 'Most husband would never be satisfied with their first wife' and i told you to stop making generalisation! and you keep arguing that most men are this and that and now you've have finally admitted it was just your opinion! we wouldnt have three extra pages on this thread if you could have stated that before.

 

[Danah]

not only lowering the gaze and why didnt allah tell men to wear hijab aswell allah knows women the are cause thats why he told them to wear a veil/allah taked more detail on sisters covering up./and also sisters are the foundation becouse they will bring up the next scholar of islam and the next mayrty we need to be able to trust them and bring them up right ect if our sisters end up corupt allah mustan what hope have we got

and who told you that men are not ordered to wear hijab?

why people think about woman when they hear the word hijb:?

men have their awrah from navel to knee, aren't they? so each one his his/her own hijab my brother....so don't mix up things please