Re: What to Look for in partner
please also refer to:-
http://www.islamicboard.com/marriage-islam/43692-compatible-not.html
please also refer to:-
http://www.islamicboard.com/marriage-islam/43692-compatible-not.html
Choosing the Desired Companion
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Re: What to Look for in partner
Also these are rather handy:
1) Someone who will cook different dishes for me everyday.
2) Someone who eventually will live with 3 other different nationaly sisters.
3) Someone who will dress real nice
4) Someone who will sleep on the sofa when she makes me angry
5) Someone who does not speak arabic, urdru, punjabi
6) Someone that will take care of herself by not putting on weight and become like an obese whale.
7) Someone who does not want kids.
8) Someone who likes having a 'kept' partner.
9) Somoeone who works.
10) Someone who does not have links with KSA, Pakistan, india, bangladesh especially Yemen
11) Someone who respects your private space.
12) Someone who loves sci-fi.
etc...hehe.
Also these are rather handy:
1) Someone who will cook different dishes for me everyday.
2) Someone who eventually will live with 3 other different nationaly sisters.
3) Someone who will dress real nice
4) Someone who will sleep on the sofa when she makes me angry
5) Someone who does not speak arabic, urdru, punjabi
6) Someone that will take care of herself by not putting on weight and become like an obese whale.
7) Someone who does not want kids.
8) Someone who likes having a 'kept' partner.
9) Somoeone who works.
10) Someone who does not have links with KSA, Pakistan, india, bangladesh especially Yemen
11) Someone who respects your private space.
12) Someone who loves sci-fi.
etc...hehe.
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Re: What to Look for in partner
Hbot 5000 lol
me....
1. Someone who will do all the chores around the house so I can put my feet up, do my nails and pamper myself for them ofcourse
2. Someone who is understanding and trustworthy and who wouldn't do anything to hurt me, or my feelings.
3. Someone who wants plenty of children
4. Someone who is only for me no other women...i wont share NO
5. Someone who is well educated and who will raise our kids in a good manner (P.S. educated but not a snob lol)
6. Someone who can get on with my family and friends
7. Someone who is honest, loving and good looking :X
8. Someone who always let me win the debates we have (i'm always right lol)
9. Someone who puts me first...infront of all his other responsibilities, whethers it work or football match.
10. Someone who will stay home and comfort me when I'm unwell....(and it doesn't end there lol) :thumbs_up
Hbot 5000 lol
me....
1. Someone who will do all the chores around the house so I can put my feet up, do my nails and pamper myself for them ofcourse
2. Someone who is understanding and trustworthy and who wouldn't do anything to hurt me, or my feelings.
3. Someone who wants plenty of children
4. Someone who is only for me no other women...i wont share NO
5. Someone who is well educated and who will raise our kids in a good manner (P.S. educated but not a snob lol)
6. Someone who can get on with my family and friends
7. Someone who is honest, loving and good looking :X
8. Someone who always let me win the debates we have (i'm always right lol)
9. Someone who puts me first...infront of all his other responsibilities, whethers it work or football match.
10. Someone who will stay home and comfort me when I'm unwell....(and it doesn't end there lol) :thumbs_up
Re: What to Look for in partner
plz brothers stop encouraging each other.. It is meant to be a serious thread...
Now would we really see you guyz going to propose and asking these question.. i mean, really?
I dont think so!
wsalamaleykum
p.s. as for kids, Allah gives some plenty, some one, some none.. so what you want is the expectations u r setting for urself.. isnt there a chance of disappointment there... avoid it!
plz brothers stop encouraging each other.. It is meant to be a serious thread...
Now would we really see you guyz going to propose and asking these question.. i mean, really?
I dont think so!
wsalamaleykum
p.s. as for kids, Allah gives some plenty, some one, some none.. so what you want is the expectations u r setting for urself.. isnt there a chance of disappointment there... avoid it!
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Re: What to Look for in partner
jazakallah khair for the first post
jazakallah khair for the first post
Re: What to Look for in partner
yes brothers please this was supposed to be serious to help us better ourselves and for us to go into marriage with an understanding. i hope it helps and please read carefullyt and think about each point.
may allah make us all pious muslims, may allah help all those with health/wealth issues, and may allah halp all muslims being picked on.
ameen
yes brothers please this was supposed to be serious to help us better ourselves and for us to go into marriage with an understanding. i hope it helps and please read carefullyt and think about each point.
may allah make us all pious muslims, may allah help all those with health/wealth issues, and may allah halp all muslims being picked on.
ameen
Re: What to Look for in partner
I wish you the best of luck on finding your perfect wife (if she exists)
Also these are rather handy:
1) Someone who will cook different dishes for me everyday.
2) Someone who eventually will live with 3 other different nationaly sisters.
3) Someone who will dress real nice
4) Someone who will sleep on the sofa when she makes me angry
5) Someone who does not speak arabic, urdru, punjabi
6) Someone that will take care of herself by not putting on weight and become like an obese whale.
7) Someone who does not want kids.
8) Someone who likes having a 'kept' partner.
9) Somoeone who works.
10) Someone who does not have links with KSA, Pakistan, india, bangladesh especially Yemen
11) Someone who respects your private space.
12) Someone who loves sci-fi.
etc...hehe.
I wish you the best of luck on finding your perfect wife (if she exists)
Re: What to Look for in partner
lol! r u being seriouse?
lol! r u being seriouse?
Also these are rather handy:
1) Someone who will cook different dishes for me everyday.
2) Someone who eventually will live with 3 other different nationaly sisters.
3) Someone who will dress real nice
4) Someone who will sleep on the sofa when she makes me angry
5) Someone who does not speak arabic, urdru, punjabi
6) Someone that will take care of herself by not putting on weight and become like an obese whale.
7) Someone who does not want kids.
8) Someone who likes having a 'kept' partner.
9) Somoeone who works.
10) Someone who does not have links with KSA, Pakistan, india, bangladesh especially Yemen
11) Someone who respects your private space.
12) Someone who loves sci-fi.
etc...hehe.
Re: What to Look for in partner
Clearly the Hbot 5000 pressure chamber is having some effet on ya brain....
The only thing that needs to be thrown out the window is your notion of a so called 'wife' ....
What to look for in a partner? ...well if your Hbot 5000 a Brazilain lady who is a millionaire Delia smith type SPECIALISING IN SEA FOOD AND OWNS AN OCEAN, who looks like Niomi Cambell, likes DFS ( a sofa store)who doesnt want to be a to fuflil her natural right as a mother...keeps to herself and works so will therefore be away from him as much as possible giving hime his so called private space as others dont like HAVING A SO CALLED 'private space', wil spend hiS money on looking perfect (plastic surgery INCLUDED ) and might even encourage him to do it as she thinkS her beauty shoudl be matched..someone who thinks hes 'kept' Ahemmmm...someone who loves sci fi......:? ?ooohhh i get it..u want AN ALIEn WIFE!!!!
hew
Clearly the Hbot 5000 pressure chamber is having some effet on ya brain....
The only thing that needs to be thrown out the window is your notion of a so called 'wife' ....
What to look for in a partner? ...well if your Hbot 5000 a Brazilain lady who is a millionaire Delia smith type SPECIALISING IN SEA FOOD AND OWNS AN OCEAN, who looks like Niomi Cambell, likes DFS ( a sofa store)who doesnt want to be a to fuflil her natural right as a mother...keeps to herself and works so will therefore be away from him as much as possible giving hime his so called private space as others dont like HAVING A SO CALLED 'private space', wil spend hiS money on looking perfect (plastic surgery INCLUDED ) and might even encourage him to do it as she thinkS her beauty shoudl be matched..someone who thinks hes 'kept' Ahemmmm...someone who loves sci fi......:? ?ooohhh i get it..u want AN ALIEn WIFE!!!!
hew 
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Re: What to Look for in partner
how much weight should we give to appearance when searching? seriously?
how much weight should we give to appearance when searching? seriously?
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I dont think appearance is a big deal well atleast to me ..as long as da person is MashAllah religoius and abides by the rules of Allah and lives by it n oh with a job!!!
I dont think appearance is a big deal well atleast to me ..as long as da person is MashAllah religoius and abides by the rules of Allah and lives by it n oh with a job!!!
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exactly
i wanted to actually hear from some brothers lol. what do the brothers think? should we go for someone who we think is very religious and forget about the looks?
ive never tried it so wouldnt know anything about it :hiding:
exactly
i wanted to actually hear from some brothers lol. what do the brothers think? should we go for someone who we think is very religious and forget about the looks?
ive never tried it so wouldnt know anything about it :hiding:
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Re: What to Look for in partner
naa its good to keep in mind what sisters think, this way i can understand my own sisters better.
but i want to know if i will be doing something wrong if i care about appearance because its a family thing (well in my family) that going for a good looking girl is shameful.. for example say a girl was proposed and we rejected even tho shes religious becoz we feel nothing then we wud be looked down at etc so i was wondering islamically are we wrong in rejecting someone based on appearance? :?
naa its good to keep in mind what sisters think, this way i can understand my own sisters better.
but i want to know if i will be doing something wrong if i care about appearance because its a family thing (well in my family) that going for a good looking girl is shameful.. for example say a girl was proposed and we rejected even tho shes religious becoz we feel nothing then we wud be looked down at etc so i was wondering islamically are we wrong in rejecting someone based on appearance? :?