Coping with Depression, stress and anger

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Re: im stressing, upset,anoyed and need someone to talk too

Salam,

Sorry brother iqnore these above sites, these where put in by my stupid friend.
 
Re: im stressing, upset,anoyed and need someone to talk too

Salam

I am different user, as i brother i would also sujjest you the translation of the Qur' an read it Insha-Allah, Wallahi brother currentlty i am going through huge problems and fitnah after reading some verses of the qur' an it helps me and also make dua to Allah.

Try to visit some relaible sheikh for advise and help.

currently i am also taking this procedure

Make dua for me brother and for All.

Wassalam
 
Re: im stressing, upset,anoyed and need someone to talk too

i know.... hijra.net ....

it's not about hijra only!!
 
I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

Salam brothers and sisters i am really sad :(
I am upset because of our Ummah, muslims themselves are being in denial most are going astray i know that people should worry for themself like i have been told but it really makes me sad! I am upset when i try to preach sisters but all i get is the cold shoulder or just nothing from them they say Insh`Allah i change but they never :(
I am so sad and feel like crying when i think about all the muslims that are suffering around the world! Why isnt our Ummah strong we know the future we know what is going to happen why are muslims denying the word of Allah swt why are they so naive to think they will live forever?
I am sad that i cant wear my niqab in this country because of University policy :(
I am so very sad i make Dua to Allah swt i wish i could do more this is really upsetting brothers and sisters
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

:sl:

Mash'Allah sis those feelings are from a good level of iman I wish you the best, find good pious sisters and befriend them and continue to spread the word of allah to those who neglect their deen may allah reward you sis.
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

And I suppose that you are living in Turkey?

I have heard of this...and if you want an education and practice your religion at the same time, then you must emmigrate for the Sake of Allah...

Allah says in the Quraan, chapter number 5, verse number 100:

"And whoever emigrates for the sake of Allah will find on Earth many dwelling places and plenty to live by. And whoever leaves his home as an emigrant unto Allah and his Messenger (SAW) and death over takes him, his reward is Surely incumbent upon Allah. And Allah is most forgiving, most merciful" :)
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

Salam brothers iqram i wish i could :( I live in England i cant immigrate because my whole family lives in England i am 18 years old they will not let me marry now and i cant leave even though i would love too.
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

Do you HAVE to go to that uni?

If you live in London, there are many Diverse Unis down here, especially in East London.
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

Brother i am not in Uni yet i will apply soon but many sisters dont get in especially those with the niqab :(
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

:sl:

id do anything to help u sis....i understand ur peoblems and i think that the best thing to do now is focus on ur studies and urself....in skul i tried to tell my friend too but she acted lyk a total wimp n i go forgeddit....i dnt really care....she makes me steam up sumtyms n i do n start givin sarcastic comments dat i kno hurt a lot but oh well....i dnt really care bout er anyway....but i do plan to do loads for islam insha'allah when i have the capability in the future :)

:w:
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

the thing is i know where you are coming from, but dont get all emotional about it as i know you sometimes want too, however try to be stronger and remember to never give up! good luck!
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

:sl: sister, i know how you're feeling as i too, feel the same way. i go to a Muslim college, all girls and an Islamic dress code. yet i feel that there is so much fitnah at college and the fact that upsets me is that dawah should be easy in such a place but its quite the opposite :heated:

this is my opinion...if you get the cold shoulder when you try to preach to the sisters you've got to remember that you've done your duty in trying to guide them. the rest is up to Allah swt. He will guide them when the time is right Insha'Allah.

the only thing for you to do now is concentrate on your deen and keep your Imaan high :sister: hope that helps :w:
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

Salam brothers iqram i wish i could :( I live in England i cant immigrate because my whole family lives in England i am 18 years old they will not let me marry now and i cant leave even though i would love too.

Pray to Allah and have patience. Then surely He will do for you what is best inshallah.
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

:salamext:


Why Have They Been Called "Strangers"?

Allah says in the Qur’an,

"If only there had been, in the generations preceding you, people having wisdom, prohibiting others from evil in the earth; except a few of those whom we have saved from among them." (Qur'an Hud 116).


This verse speaks of the few people on earth, the "strangers", who prohibit mankind from evil. These are the same people the Prophet (saws) spoke about when he said,

"Islam began as something strange, and it shall return to being something strange, so give glad tidings [ar. Tooba. This is a tree in Paradise. So the Prophet (saws) is giving the good news of Paradise to these strangers.] to the strangers." It was asked, "Who are those strangers, O Messenger of Allah?" He replied, "Those that correct the people when they become corrupt." [Reported by Abu Amr al-Dani, from the hadith of ibn Masoud. It is authentic according to al-Albani. Another narration says, "Those that correct my Sunnah which has been corrupted by the people after me."

In another narration he said in response to the same question,

"They are a small group of people among a large evil population. Those who oppose them are more than those who follow them."​
[Reported by ibn Asaakir. It is authentic according to al-Albani.]​


These praiseworthy people are called strangers since they are a small minority among mankind. Thus, Muslims are strangers among mankind; the true believers are strangers among Muslims; and the scholars are strangers among the true believers. And the followers of the Sunnah, those that clear themselves from all peoples of innovation, are likewise strangers.

In reality, however, their strangeness is only because they are the minority and it is not because their actions and beliefs are strange. This is what Allah says in surah al-Anaam,

"And if you obey most of the people on Earth, they will lead you astray" (Qur'an al-Anaam 116).

Allah also says,

"And most of mankind will not believe, even if you (O Muhammad) desire it eagerly" (Qur'an Yusuf 103);

"And truly, most of mankind are rebellious and disobedient (to Allah)." (Qur'an al-Maidah 49)

"But nay, most of mankind are ungrateful" (Qur'an Yusuf 38).


Therefore, Allah, the All-Knowing Creator, knows the most of mankind will not follow the truth. Instead, only a small group of people will be set apart that truly and correctly believe in Him, the strangers from among mankind.


continued:
http://www.islamicboard.com/basics-islam/20880-strangeness-strangers.html?highlight=ghuraba
 
Re: I am really sad brothers and sisters :(

Asalaamu Alaikum Uhkti,
Sometimes when our prayers are answere, we do not relise it because it is not what we expected.

Perhaps, there is a reason that the Unis you seem to want to attend are not the ones for you. Perhaps, there is a reason you are being directed to seek a Uni where you may wear the Hijab. Perhaps, that is what you need to find to discover the tools that are best for your de'en.
 

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