Quick one:
------If Islam tells its followers how to live , what to do in certain conditions , what's wrong with that ?
Some of the ways are immoral and unethical.
---In Islam , it's not compulsory for a husband to re-marry . If he wants to take care of wife & can stay like bachelor , he can do it. But what if he can't ?
Why not be faithful to his first wife in good and bad times?
Man made law is forcing him to divorce his sick wife or go for adultery . Islam is giving here a logical solution. If he fears that he can't act justly , then he won't take another wife.
Man-made laws of what country are forcing someone to divorce? Or is it the immoral man forcing himself?
Taking another wife does not mean that he will ignore his sick wife......it will be his compulsory duty to take care of her. If his 2nd wife looks after the elder sis ( husband's 1st wife ) , she will get rewards from God Almighty.
How about the husband? Does he get rewarded by God or does he get cursed for having multiple sex partners?
Don't u think , it's a very selfish act for a sick wife to prevent her husband from enjoying a normal life ? If she does not allow her husband to re-marry & he commits adultery , then who will be responsible for that sin ? Agains , i m saying that it's not a must for any man to re-marry ......it's an option for those who can't control desires & want to enjoy the matter lawfully.
No, it's selfish for the man to have another woman in his life and commit adultery if he does so.
--why he is not a Sikh ? I read in his book that when his son decided to cut hair , he was extremely shocked , his wife decided not to talk to her own son anymore etc , etc. Who decides who is a Sikh or not ?
A Sikh is someone who seek the ultimate truth. If he commits immoral acts, he is not a Sikh by character. Maybe he looks like a Sikh.
---there are thousands & thousands men who have illegal affairs , many of them have '' love childs'' ......one of the reasons is man made law prohibits polygamy , make divorce very hard. In India , divorce law is very strict.......do u know , how many hindu wives are burnt alive there each year?
The bottom line here is there is no excuse for immoral and unethical behavior, legal or illegal. Wife burning isn't legal in India and there is no excuse for it either.
---LOL. Be practical , pl. Are u saying that all Sikhs men are excellent & they don't cheat wives ?
A cheater should be punished not rewarded by allowing to have many wives.
---- It's absurd that all men will treat other men's daughters as own daughters who already had puberty & ready for
marriage . So , it's allowed for men to send marriage proposals to a parent .
So there you go again. If someone doesn't treat someone young enough to be his daughter like his daughter, you want to reward him by letting him marry her. What kind of justice is this?
No one can force a Muslim woman in to marriage but it's open for a man to send proposal to her parent. Thousands & thousands
so-called minor girls are having abortions ..........that's a result of man made laws ----- No to legal marriage , yes to unlimited illegal relationships.
But how does a nine years old kid know whether the marriage is right for her?
U r living in a dream world ........may be , u don't need a Do's & Dont's guide but many people need.
Let's make this dream come true.

Only then we can trust each other with our kids. Now this is a major issue. Based upon what I have learned on this site, I can't even trust a Muslim. When I do have kids, especially I have girls, I will have to make sure that they stay away from Muslims families even if they are the best Muslim someone could ever be. This is because I know that if a Muslim will not be treating a girl young to be his daughter as his daughter as if he got crush on her, he thinks he has right to marry her or at least propose to marry her. Don't you guys feel disgusting if someone of about your age is asking to marry your daughter?
Islam is for those who wants to have a guide line set by God Almighty. There is a verse in holy Quran that says ( not the exact words ) if choice was given to human being to decide what to do , surely they will make chaos.
I for sure not convinced at all that it's from God. God doesn't encourage older adults to marry little children.
Now a days , we believe human laws are better than the commands of God Almighty & that's the problem.
Sorry to tell you this but yes man-made laws, in America for example, are much better than man-made laws what you refer to as God-made laws.