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If your body type is a certain way hereditary then don't you think it would be unhealthy to dump fattening unhealthy food in the body just to look a certain way? Consider it a blessing honestly unless you're declared an anorexic by a medical doctor and have all the features including that baby fine hair called lanugo and your menstrual cycle has stopped due to malnutrition. Gaining weight is done in the opposite way you lose it .. just pack on the calories and become sedentary. :hmm:
 
لميس;1522131 said:
If your body type is a certain way hereditary then don't you think it would be unhealthy to dump fattening unhealthy food in the body just to look a certain way? Consider it a blessing honestly unless you're declared an anorexic by a medical doctor and have all the features including that baby fine hair called lanugo and your menstrual cycle has stopped due to malnutrition. Gaining weight is done in the same way you lose it .. just pack on the calories and become sedentary.
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I am happy with it I consider it blessings from allah (swt).
MY mom ........
Every time she keep on taunting me,You are not eating properly,you are choosy in eating food.Specially if any guest come to my house .She thinks,they consider her that she is not taking care of me.Not paying attention to me,she got upset.
 
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My experience with mothers including my own is that they're never happy with the way you turn out. You could be a neuro-surgeon astronaut with 11 perfectly gorgeous Hitler's dream type boys, juggling job, career a husband and house all immaculately and they'll still find something to criticize or some perfect other kid in the family with which to compare you to & highlight to all your shortcomings .. If you're pleasing Allah swt then that is all that matters.. all the other stuff doesn't matter. I don't advocate being unhealthy or anorexic but people who are usually unhealthy are overweight and usually due to their weight from DM to HBP to GERD all brought on by their life style.. why make such a trade?
 
I think ectomorphs are pretty lucky you guys can eat without worrying about gaining weight! (but doesn't mean unhealthy food won't affect your insides).
 
لميس;1522133 said:
My experience with mothers including my own is that they're never happy with the way you turn out. You could be a neuro-surgeon astronaut with 11 perfectly gorgeous Hitler's dream type boys, juggling job, career a husband and house all immaculately and they'll still find something to criticize or some perfect other kid in the family with which to compare you to & highlight to all your shortcomings .. If you're pleasing Allah swt then that is all that matters.. all the other stuff doesn't matter. I don't advocate being unhealthy or anorexic but people who are usually unhealthy are overweight and usually due to their weight from DM to HBP to GERD all brought on by their life style.. why make such a trade?
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No sis,my mother is happy what I am.
Only when listen to other women(relatives,neighbors) she got upset for few days.After that every thing is normal.
 
Pure Purple said:

No sis,my mother is happy what I am.
Only when listen to other women(relatives,neighbors) she got upset for few days.After that every thing is normal.
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:lol: then please forgive the crude term 'to hell with the neighbors' -- You can't please everybody so you might as well please yourself.
I am 5'5 and 123 lbs al7mdullilah trying to go down to 115 lbs.. When women get pregnant they gain an average of 25lbs some more but recommended is 25lbs many of them are unable to take that weight off and with subsequent pregnancies in a row and not breastfeeding they balloon to something so unhealthy. I know so many sisters with that problem and it is really sad because they're always sick or getting surgery for something.. Mostly because their bones and ligaments can't support their weight and end up with complications from the surgery itself including collapsed lungs.. A person really needs to look ahead.. We can't decide whether or not we'll have kids but if you decide to and Allah swt blesses/gifts you with them then why risk all those complications?
 
لميس;1522136 said:
When women get pregnant they gain an average of 25lbs some more but recommended is 25lbs many of them are unable to take that weight off and with subsequent pregnancies in a row and not breastfeeding they balloon to something so unhealthy. I know so many sisters with that problem and it is really sad because they're always sick or getting surgery for something.. Mostly because their bones and ligaments can't support their weight and end up with complications from the surgery itself including collapsed lungs.. A person really needs to look ahead.. We can't decide whether or not we'll have kids but if you decide to and Allah swt blesses/gifts you with them then why risk all those complications?
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Sister don't talk about these crap things atleast infront of me.I hate marriage.I don't want to end up with marriage phobia.:hmm:
 
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this is a marriage free thread as most of my threads are .. Yes I know that feeling of impending doom been dodging it for a good long while myself..
 
Pure Purple said:
which banana you eat ?
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Pure Purple said:
I eat biggest one.......
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;D

That actually sounds like a low calorie plan to me, but its good that you managed to benefit from it. I think its also good that your nafs is not directed towards food. I think there is a hadith referring to it, while I think it is mainly referring to what one says I it is also related to nafs related to consumption.

Allah's Apostle said, "Whoever can guarantee (the chastity of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs (i.e. his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him."
 
Hulk said:
Allah's Apostle said, "Whoever can guarantee (the chastity of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs (i.e. his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him."
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jazakallah for quoting this hadith.......
Next time I will read it infront of my mother.:statisfie
 
I believe that hadith refers to what the mouth utters, which will spill people a great fall in hell 70 years..
but there indeed many ahadiths about the ills of overeating:

9. In Muslim and Bukhari: “The believer eats with one stomach while the kafir eats with seven stomachs.” Meaning: The believer eats with the manners of Islam and in moderation, while the kafir eats based on desires and gluttony and so he eats with seven stomachs.

From Abi Barza that the Prophet (sas) said: “My greatest fear for you is the appetites of transgression with regard to your stomachs and your privates and the inclinations which lead astray”. (Ahmad)

Ibn Umar(RA): A man said to Ibn Umar(RA): Shouldn’t I bring you some jawarish? Ibn Umar(RA) said: What is that? He said: Something which aids in digesting your food after you eat. Ibn Umar(RA) said: I have not eaten to being full for four months. That is not because I am not able to do so, but I was with a group of people who were hungry more than they were full.

http://myummah.co.za/site/2008/06/30/the-ills-of-overeating-obesity/

there's another about ills entering mankind through his stomach.. but my lids are getting too heavy to do any further search..
so I bid you all a gnight..
 
Thank u for sharing sis and goodnight!

There are quite a few more hadiths relating to consumption(i think about heavy stomach), though I can't remember word for word.

Of course it doesn't mean that if we see a big person we should think they are inferior, we are all different some are blessed with fast metabolism some not so fast. We also have our own nafs we need to deal with, I once saw an overweight brother who had injured his leg and he was carrying a portable chair around so that he can pray easily. It made me wonder whether I would have the heart to do what he does or whether my pride would get in the way.
 
sisلميس I am more interested in knowing fact"How many calories burn when a person get angry?"
 
Don't know :) depends I guess on intensity and duration you can always google that I don't know how accurate they'd be ... It's Friday though better to smile than get angry?
 
For Hulk.. he probably burns 3500 calories in five minutes.
 

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