She is my life ppl.....all this hard work at college is for her. If she leaves me....Ill be a no one!!!!
Assalamu alaikum
May Allah have mercy on your "nanny" and grant you sabr.
I know many of us aim to please either our parents or other family relatives, and we see ourselves striving to please them. However our ultimate goal should be to strive to please Allah. And if we wish to please someone, we do it for the sake of Allah. That way, if we suffer a loss of any sort, we can reassure ourselves, Allah is still there, and our actions will not go un-rewarded.
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Ameen to the dua.JazakAllah brother Far7an.![]()
Yes, brother. That is what my aim has been; to make her happy. She has always made me happy when I was young, even now. The last time I saw her (a week ago), she was knitting me a jumper for me, I told her not to but she said:'Raiyhana, I may not live to see another day...I need to leave you something.' She only thinks about others....and that is what is making it harder for me to come to terms....she may leave me.
My nanny has done everything (as a person) to make her children happy. I know I dont have to be a doctor for her to see me in the white coat (I wish to be a scientist or gynocologist)...but for my nanny to see me in the white coat will be ONE of her many dreams come true!
I am also doing this as I know....that if you make those older than you happy....then Allah too is happy with you!
Only, I wish I can make her happy whilst she is still here....with me!Ameen.
An adi'ya request of my own: Please make du'aa that my university assignments go well, and also my wife's visa application gets processed with minimal difficulty.
Brother Far7an...you will inshAllah pass your university assignments and your wife will also get her visa. Ameen.Ameen.Ameen.
And jazakAllah once again brother Far7an![]()
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