Finding your fiance has a boyfriend???

[Kawlah]

..i hate to be intrusive but you should find ways to occupy your time.. if you are not doing so already.

Find ways to change your perspective of yourself.

Get a job is the first thing that comes to mind.. Although im often wrong.

Sorry..

Salaam bro, not sure if you are talking to me or bro Scimi.

In case you are talking to me, I have a job. And I am studying at the same time. I have fine self worth.

But I have a physical illness that has almost killed me twice these past two years, and having a job and fine self worth doesn't change a deadly illness. Would you tell someone with cancer to get a job? Because that's how serious my illness is. Sorry bro, may Allah forgive me if I just misunderstood you.

 

[M.I.A.]

Well yeah, i was asking you..

Whatever it is that your going through i hope you get through it.

..maybe you should save up and go on holiday.

Its ok dont worry, iv had about 5 surgeries myself in the last 3-4 years..although i was asleep for most of them.

Time away does wonders..

..im just runnin my mouth sorry.. Although not irl.

Dont dwell on it.. if that is possible.

I had about a 5 or 6cm stone in my kidney lol.. too much work, not enough water..

I suppose thats what they wanted to see.

 

[Kawlah]

Well yeah, i was asking you..

Whatever it is that your going through i hope you get through it.

..maybe you should save up and go on holiday.

Its ok dont worry, iv had about 5 surgeries myself in the last 3-4 years..although i was asleep for most of them.

Time away does wonders..

..im just runnin my mouth sorry.. Although not irl.

Dont dwell on it.. if that is possible.

Salaam Ale3koem bro,

I apologize again if I misunderstood.

I am not down or anything, I consider this illness a blessing despite the hardship. However, it has practical consequences that cannot be denied which is why I don't think I am fit for marriage. Maybe after surgery I will be, I hope so Insha'Allah because I am only 30. I would like to marry some day.

Sorry to hear you went through so much yourself. I need no holiday, despite the impression I apparently gave you I am very happy with my life. I just do need to be real about my disability and it's consequences, that is all. A spouse has rights I should fulfill as a wife.