Forum addictions

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:sl: to our Muslims members, Peace to our non-Muslim members,

I notice that we have some members that spend a considerable length of time here daily.

I wonder if it is healthy for a person to spend that much time on the PC? How much internet per day is too much? Is there any harm in being addicted to a forum? Do some people hide from life by building up an artificial cyber-life on the PC?

I have holidays...got nothing better to do. >_>

I rarely socialise due to my Asperger syndrome. The only exercise I get is going to the gym. The only way I pass my time is by surfing the net, playing games, and learning a bit of French. Maybe I'll start on Farsi also... that language is so difficult to pronounce!
 
:sl: Honestly, life is just too hectic for me to spend more than 2 hours straight online. I hop in and hop out really. I'm working, going to school, and in the midst just trying to balance a family life. Juggling all of that is a very hard task!

Being addicted to the internet is never good, go to the park, read a book, read the Quran, just get offline otherwise you'll just be extremely lazy. And laziness is never good, especially laziness in regards to obedience to Allaah. Be active, and try to spend only a necessary amount of time online as possible inshaaAllaah.
 
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Not addicted as I used to be. I wouldn't miss the internet if I weren't to come on for a few days. I'd only miss the Haram salaah. Oh, and I'll miss deadlines on my online class. :p Seriously, life without the internet is awesome, it's reallly nice to take the forced break every now and then...

I wonder if it is healthy for a person to spend that much time on the PC?
The computer is the alternative to the TV. TV is so yesterday, and computer replaced it. Go figure if it's good for us.

How much internet per day is too much?
Depends on the person and what their job / education is. If they're computer science peeps, it makes sense of for them to be on all day. Otherwise...that's bad.

Do some people hide from life by building up an artificial cyber-life on the PC?
I think that most people do, and that's natural. For starters, most of the members here are outgoing, and it's only easy to be that outgoing with strangers behind a screen. But going too far and creating a whole new identity that is completely different from reality is harmful more to yourself, cuz you're escaping the problems in your real life and not finding a solution. If people are on LI to escape, fine, I understand that. We all need to escapes life's harshness at times. But we cannot live in an escape, because then it ain't an escape anymore. At some point the escape will also become harsh, and then you escape again to...?

But I also think quite a few members are multi tasking, and are working on their homework and projects while they're on LI, so it seems like they're on forever, but that's only cause their work is taking forever. I know, that doesn't sound like a brilliant idea, but the distraction is helpful to avoid a headache or getting overwhelmed by the work.
 
LI is gunna kill my eyes some day. I really need a break

Some days my assignments etc and stuff take soo long that I literally feel as though I'm having to scrape my contacts off of my eyeballs at the end of the day...eww I know that sounds nasty but they get really dry and painful :-[

Real life is busy and hectic, and with uni and siblings that are constantly demanding attention, I guess I neednt be on as much. But the internet hasnt really been an escape as such, the only other reason I'm on it so much is that I can eat, work, browse LI and manage to have a decent conversation with my mum at the same time :-[

So yah..
 
people should use forum for limited time only!! like my older brother uses it for work and i use it when he isnt using it like that,you should share the time out within the people in the house
 
I was a pure addict on msn chat when it was open. I mean like wasting time talking and chatting until i join the forum. Im kinda addict. But i can surf on mobile not only PC which saves the harm plus with the work i can come on anytime.
But like truemuslim said i still say this is better than music and chatting on msn.
I dont go out with friends at all. Never thought of it. Never been brought up that way.
 
I dont go out with friends at all. Never thought of it. Never been brought up that way.

You dont socialise? Go for a run in the park? Take Umayr out to get some fresh air? Stuff like that to get a break from the PC?
 
LI is gunna kill my eyes some day. I really need a break

Some days my assignments etc and stuff take soo long that I literally feel as though I'm having to scrape my contacts off of my eyeballs at the end of the day...eww I know that sounds nasty but they get really dry and painful :-[

Which contacts you use anyway? I had the same problem and they gave me the air optix ones. Let more oxygen in my eyes
 
Which contacts you use anyway? I had the same problem and they gave me the air optix ones. Let more oxygen in my eyes

Yeah I dont use them, I've heard of them but keep forgetting to ask since mine are monthly disposables and the next set come through the post so there's no need for me to go instore anymore. JazakAllah khayr for reminding me about it though.

You know, sometimes I find that if I spend less time on the PC....I have more time for other things (Duhh obviously :-[ :rollseyes) but by that I mean that say Ima go home in a while insha'Allah, if I get off of here sooner, then I have time to walk slowly and look at whats going on around, appreciate the beauty of this place ... etc etc....
 
You dont socialise? Go for a run in the park? Take Umayr out to get some fresh air? Stuff like that to get a break from the PC?

I do that. But i meant to say to go out with friends and stay late night. You know bad company. I socialise, go out with wife and kid yeah lol
 
I do that. But i meant to say to go out with friends and stay late night. You know bad company. I socialise, go out with wife and kid yeah lol

Oh...I guess then yeh PC and Forum saves people from doing silly other stuff. I get you now :)
 
I'm not addicted ahamdulilah.
I dont stay here more then 1hr maximum for me is 2 hrs.
 
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Its weird how time flies when your on the net..but i guess we are all seeking knowledge and gettin advise to make our lives better...better to be here than on some other random forum...got a list of things to do and insha allah will get them done..and keep checkin on u guys..:D

way to cold to be going out..

i kinda like this addiction:coolious:
 
I was wondering if the 'Li old timer' has changed to 'Li addict'
But I only see it under mine and czgibson's name... Hmm

I wonder if you chaged it akhi.

I am addicted to everything I do more than once, right now I am addicted to spying on ma neighbours cat! :-\

Is that legal? :exhausted
 
I work at a computer all day so I have no choice!!

I only joined this forum lastnight, and I have learnt so much just from reading everyones past posts on threads, its really refreshing knowing that there is so much to learn, it gets more and more interesting as I read!!

does anyone know where i can ask a question about a name meaning, I have met a muslim guy and I am interested in the meaning of his name.

QUESTIONS QUESTIONS QUESTIONS!!! :)
 
This is my first day posting and I got like 20 something already? I dont know if thats big or anything? believe me you guys will notice when ever you get on you will see the user name INsearch down their all the time lol. I am really bored and have nothing to do anyway :)
 
your addicted then!!! me too!! I dont think I have that many but im getting there, slowly but surely!! I only joined lastnight, but went to bed soon after and was at work all day so i don think i have done to badly!!! :D
 
hehe what can I say? I like forums :) plus in a town that just lost its only source of entertainment (bowling ally) This is the best I can do :) besides work.... but who wants to do that?
 
ok i just had to delete about 30 posts ^o)

PLZ STAY ON TOPIC!
 

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