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The love Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) had for Ummul Mumineen Hazrat Aaishah bint Abi Bakr (رضي الله عنه).

Hazrat Amr bin Al-As (رضي الله عنه) narrates: I came to Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) and said, “Who is the most
beloved person to you?” He said, “Aisha.” I asked, “Among the men?” He said, “Her father.” I said, “Who then?” He said, “Then Umar bin Al-Khattab.” He then named other men [Bukhari].

“Rasoolullah (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ)'s wives were in two groups. One group with Hazrat Aaishah (رضي الله عنها), Hazrat Hafsah (رضي الله عنها) and Hazrat Saudah (رضي الله عنها) and the other with Hazrat Umme-Salmah (رضي الله عنها) and the rest of them (رضي الله عنهن).

All the Muslims knew how much Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) loves Aaishah (رضي الله عنها). So if anyone wanted to send a gift for Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ), he would delay it until it was the day for Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) to be with Hazrat Aaishah (رضي الله عنها). Hazrat Umme-Salmah (رضي الله عنها)'s group came to her and asked her to talk to Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) to tell the Muslims that they do not have to wait for the day Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) would be with Hazrat Aaishah (رضي الله عنها). So she spoke to Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) about the issue and He (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) replied,

“Don’t hurt (talk to) me regarding Aaishah. The revelation does not come to me when I am with any of my wives except Aaishah.”

Hazrat Umme-Salmah (رضي الله عنها) said,

“I repent to Allah from giving you grief.”

The wives of Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) then came to Hazrat Fatimah (رضي الله عنها) to ask her to talk to Nabi (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) and he (ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ) said to her,

“O my beloved daughter! Do you not love the woman I love?”

She (Fatimah (رضي الله عنها)) replied,

“Indeed.”… (Bukhari)
 
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True.

"Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or not to do.

DO NOT give commands or instructions like he/she is your servant......"
 
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When Imam Ahmed Bin Hanbal's wife passed away he said "Wallahi i lived with her for 40 years and we didnt argue once."

He was asked how?

He said "Whenever she gets upset and tries to argue, I stay quiet. And whenever im upset and try to argue, she stays quiet."

May Allah grant us the ability to be such spouses. Ameen.
 
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"He's praying for her. She's praying for him. Little do they know, Allah sealed their fate with each other before they were born"
 
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Ali ibn Abi Talib and Fatima Az-Zahra

Love Ali and Fatimah amazingly beautiful, maintained confidentiality in attitude, expression, and said, until God brought them together in a marriage. It is said that it was so secret, only demons do not know anything about the love between them. Subhan Allah.

Fatimah Ali bowled in a long time, due to politeness, worship, work dexterity, and paras beloved daughter of the Prophet. it. He never tertohok twice when Abu Bakr and Umar ibn Khattab apply Fatimah while he was not ready to do so. But patience sweet fruit, cover both the friends who no doubt was rejected kesholehannya the Prophet. Ali finally ventured. And it turns out that only a proposal to Fatimah armor capital received.

On the other hand, appeared to have harbored Fatimah Ali's love for a long time. In a story is told that one day after the second marriage, Fatimah said to Ali: "I'm sorry, because before marrying you. I never once felt in love with a boy and I want to marry him ". Ali was asked why he still wanted to marry him, and if Fatimah regret marry him. Smiling Fatima replied, "That person is you"


Abdurrahman ibn Abu Bakr

Abdurrahman ibn Abu Bakr Siddiq and his wife, Atika, very loving one another so that Abu Bakr was worried and finally asked Abdurrahman divorce his wife for fear of love they both neglect of jihad and worship. Abdurrahman was to obey his father, despite his love for his wife so great.

But of course, Abdurrahman could never forget her. For days he was late in grief even though he had tried my best to toughen up. Abdurrahman feeling it gave birth to a beautiful love poem of all time:

By Allah, it is not I forget you
Although the sun was rising rising
And it is not biodegradable tear the pigeon
Except share heart
Never I found people like me
Divorced people like him
And not people like him because of his sin dithalaq
He berakhlaq noble, religious, and bernabikan Muhammad
High virtuous character, is shy and smooth-spoken

Finally the father heart melted. They were allowed to refer back.


Umm Sulaym and Abu Talha

Umm Sulaym was the widow of Malik ibn Nadir. Abu Talha who harbored a sense of love and admiration finally decided to marry Umm Sulaym without much consideration. But unexpectedly, the answer Umm Sulaym make his tongue be silenced and her disappointment was so oppressive, though Umm Sulaym said with courtesy and respect,

"Actually, I do not deserve reject people who like you, O Abu Talha. Just a pity you are a heathen and I am a Muslim. So it is not appropriate for me to marry you. Try to guess what I desire?"

"You want the dinar and enjoyment," said Abu Talha.

"The least I do not want the dinar and enjoyment. All I want is you immediately converted to Islam," said Umm Sualim said.

"But I do not know who is going to be my mentor?" asked Abu Talha.

"Of course pembimbingmu is Rasululah own," said Umm Sulaym.

So Abu Talha was rushed went to see the Prophet. which at that time was sitting with his companions. Saw the arrival of Abu Talha, the Prophet. exclaimed, "Abu Talha came to you, and the light of Islam appear in both eyes."

Umm Sulaym sincerity really feels touching the recesses of the heart of Abu Talha. Umm Sulaym would only want to marry with his Islam without the slightest tegiur by pleasure that he promised. Where women could be more fit to be a wife and mother custody of her children in addition to Umm Sulaym? Until unnoticed in the presence of the Prophet. Abu Talha wet oral repeat the phrase, "I follow your teachings, Messenger of Allah. I testify that there is no god but Allah has the right diibadahi and I testify that Muhammad is His messenger."

Marry Umm Sulaym with Abu Talha, while her husband's dowry is Islamic. Until -a Thabit narrated from Anas hadits- narrators, "Altogether I have never heard of a woman whose dowry nobler than Umm Sulaym, namely Islamic her husband." Furthermore, they live a life of domestic peace and prosperity in a light shade of Islam.


Umar bin Abdul Aziz

Umar bin Abdul Aziz, the Umayyad caliph famous, once fell in love with a girl, but his wife, Fatimah bint Abdul Malik never allow him to marry again. One moment narrated that Umar experiencing pain due to exhaustion in regulating the affairs of government. Fatima came to bring surprises to entertain her husband. He presented a girl who has long loved Umar, so did the girl loves Umar. But instead Umar said: "No! It should not happen. I really did not change myself if I go back to the world such feelings,"

Umar win the love of others, because there is love on top of love. Eventually he married the girl with another youth. No love die here. Because before leaving home Umar, the girl asked, "Umar, once you've loved me. But where do love it now?" Umar quiver of emotion, but he later said, "Love is still there, even now it feels deeper!"

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And this was before his (pbuh) prophethood as well subhanAllah, ma'sha'Allah :)
 

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