Well what do you consider a child? These people are talking about instilling this in children. If you are an adult and want to go off and fight in your perception of jihad that's fine but this is too much for a child.
When a person is mature, so when a guy has a wet dream or a girl gets her periods. That's when they are adults because this signifies adulthood. Not a number [i.e. 18 etc.]
If these people are telling the children to fight right now while the child is so weak and small, thats not right. If they are telling kids about fighting for their beliefs and for their own rights, then the children have a right to learn that. The same way the children within the west are instilled to believe that all muslims are terrorists.
What is wrong with believing that there is One God, who sends messengers with clear signs [i.e. Noah, Moses, Jesus, Muhammad (peace be upon them all)], so we obey God over the creation and any man-made law. And in the end we will return to God to be judged on all that we did, and be either rewarded for obeying God or be punished for rejecting God?
God has allowed the muslims to fight back those who fight them, why is that so bad? Are muslims supposed to be killed and tortured and not do anything about it? Why is the US fighting and oppressing the muslims even though these innocents never did nothing?
Your a good person Joan, and you know that harming the innocents isn't the right thing to do. So these people have the right to fight back, the same way the US chooses to defend itself.
Peace.