Have any kids?

[Hijaabi22]

suppose she dont liek pink? ;D :giggling:

well then TOUGH init, her mummy likez pink so shes gna have to like it 2! Lol

 

[Mawaddah]

Salaams, very noble intention, but they still wont be your kids. they would be ure brothers/ sisters in islam.


033.004 Allah has not made for any man two hearts in his (one) body: nor has He made your wives whom ye divorce by Zihar your mothers: nor has He made your adopted sons your sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the Truth, and He shows the (right) Way.

033.005 Call them by (the names of) their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if ye know not their father's (names, call them) your Brothers in faith, or your maulas. But there is no blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful.

Al-Qur'an, 033.004-005 (Al-Ahzab [The Clans, the Coalition, the Combined Forces])

Maybe someone can post the tafsir of these verses to be sure?

Brother this Ayah is in reference to adopted children, not your own children by birth

Your kids are your Kids

 

[sameer]

lol ok

 

[Hijaabi22]

:haha:^

 

[sameer]

Brother this Ayah is in reference to adopted children, not your own children by birth

Your kids are your Kids

oops i think i quoted the wrong person on this one...i was suppose to quote the person who wanted to adopt..........:hiding: *embaraased* :hiding: :hiding: :hiding: :hiding:

 

[Hijaabi22]

^:haha:

 

[sameer]

lol ok i fixed it..thanks for the heads up though..... but i still feel embarrased enough to hide :hiding: :hiding: :hiding:

 

[Umm Khalid06]

I only went 2 kids one kid that I have already and some day soon I went one more kid girl her name Sara

 

[afriend]

LOL!!

Kids? pfffttt!!!

:heated: I hate it when they cry....

 

[Umm Khalid06]

LOL!!

Kids? pfffttt!!!

:heated: I hate it when they cry....

you just get used to it i hated at first but now its easy kids are blessing form allah;D

 

[IceQueen~]

aww :wub: kids only cry for a reason maybe they're scared of your face! LOL just kidding

 

[Mawaddah]

^ :haha:

I get annoyed when kids cry without a reason. Not infant cries though :wub: . YOu know, those spoilt bratty kids who just scream and yell and act all nasty? They deserve to be picked up and dropped into the garbage I'm serious

Maybe I might just try that one day.......drop my neighbours kid into the dumpster :giggling:

 

[afriend]

:mmokay:

LOL Nah I'm kidding....Like the sister said, you do actually get used to it after like a few days...

But other than that I can take care of a baby except for the diaper/nappy bit :heated:

I get annoyed when kids cry without a reason. Not infant cries though . YOu know, those spoilt bratty kids who just scream and yell and act all nasty? They deserve to be picked up and dropped into the garbage I'm serious

Maybe I might just try that one day.......drop my neighbours kid into the dumpster

EXACTLY!! You get what I mean ;D :happy:

 

[Umm Khalid06]

^ :haha:

I get annoyed when kids cry without a reason. Not infant cries though :wub: . YOu know, those spoilt bratty kids who just scream and yell and act all nasty? They deserve to be picked up and dropped into the garbage I'm serious

Maybe I might just try that one day.......drop my neighbours kid into the dumpster :giggling:

that how i First felt all the crying at night time but now he only cries when he see’s someone he does not know;D

 

[IceQueen~]

yeah i suppose but I think its the parents/or whoever brought the kids up like that -is to blame.
the prophet (saw) was always gentle kind and patient with kids. whatever they learn in this world -its our responsibility. they are not responsible for their actions till adolescence.

 

[bint_muhammed]

when my nieces and nephew start crying i just get up and leave the room suppose you cant with your own. its really hard to dicipline them, when i'm mad at my nephew he always can make me laugh and i have to have a seriouse face on, but in the end i crack up. i think you should have when you know you will able to handle them, because kids are what you teach them and if your aint ready you can make a big mess.

 

[Woodrow]

For those of you who are new parents. Just remember one day you will be grandparents and have a house full of grand kids. Remember, grandparents and grand kids are strong allies. We team up together and drive their parents crazy. Grand kids are great to have. Kids always seem to think that their parents are dumb, but the little rug rats always believe that grandpa is the smartest man on earth and is indestructable. Plus grand parents get to play with the rug rats and then get to turn them back over to their parents when they get obnoxious.

 

[Mawaddah]

For those of you who are new parents. Just remember one day you will be grandparents and have a house full of grand kids. Remember, grandparents and grand kids are strong allies. We team up together and drive their parents crazy. Grand kids are great to have. Kids always seem to think that their parents are dumb, but the little rug rats always believe that grandpa is the smartest man on earth and is indestructable. Plus grand parents get to play with the rug rats and then get to turn them back over to their parents when they get obnoxious.

That's how Grandparents are supposed To be........

But what if you have Grandparents Who Dont know how to be Grandparents?
For example like mine....They treat me and my cousins like their employees.....and they never do any 'grandparenty' stuff, the only concern with them is whether their company is bringing in a haul......:uhwhat

Sometimes I get envious when I see people with 'real' grandparents

 

[Woodrow]

That's how Grandparents are supposed To be........

But what if you have Grandparents Who Dont know how to be Grandparents?
For example like mine....They treat me and my cousins like their employees.....and they never do any 'grandparenty' stuff, the only concern with them is whether their company is bringing in a haul......:uhwhat

Sometimes I get envious when I see people with 'real' grandparents

Please make Du'a for your Grandparents. They do not know that they are missing one of the greatest Earthly gifts Allah(swt) has given us. They need to realise that the only reason people have kids is so that they can be grandparents one day. They are missing all of the value of getting old enough to have grandkids. Grandkids are our second chance to amend all of the errors we made raising our kids. as parents we never get to truly enjoy our kids, but as grandparents, it is our own fault if we miss every chance to enjoy their company.

 

[afriend]

For those of you who are new parents. Just remember one day you will be grandparents and have a house full of grand kids. Remember, grandparents and grand kids are strong allies. We team up together and drive their parents crazy. Grand kids are great to have. Kids always seem to think that their parents are dumb, but the little rug rats always believe that grandpa is the smartest man on earth and is indestructable. Plus grand parents get to play with the rug rats and then get to turn them back over to their parents when they get obnoxious.

ROFL!!!!!!!!!!

MAN THAT WAS FUNNY!!!