Hijab or no hijab?

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Could it be called Islamic Hijaab if only the faces were uncovered? Yes, IMO.

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Wa7abiScientist said:
beautiful. May Allah give ajar to these sisters for following the sahaabiyaat and the mothers of believers.
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Ameen. Those who mock our sisters that wear niqaab are out of the fold of Islam and are hypocrites. How can anyone mock what the Sahaabiyaat and the mothers of believers wore? These people have until their souls have reached their throats to ask for forgiveness and change their ways!

May Allah give all of our sisters to follow the example of the sahaabiyaat and the mothers of believers! Ameen
 
I personally have nothing against the Hijab, so long as it's the personal choice of the female who's wearing it to wear it. As far as I see it, it's just another head covering such the one used by nuns or the one popular with African women. As long as it isn't enforced by a controlling husband or father.
 
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Italianguy said:
your to young to marry? ...dude my great grandparents were arranged in marriage at 16 or 17....and met at the alter!
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Really? I had no idea there was such an arranged marriage culture among Italians. Is it common? :ooh:
 
Wa7abiScientist said:
The poem in my signature? No, that is related to my personal and social experiences with life. When people's hands are tied and they are thrown in ice cold rivers and streams in Swat (Pakistan) and they drown helplessly, I do not think life offers any colors to enjoy. Then when I hug my mothers feet while she talks about some daily things she did and I listen to her and then think one day she will die or I will die before her, I do not see any colors in life anymore. Then when I look at my dad and see how he works for maintaining and providing us and then I think one day it will be all gone ... then I dont see any colors in life. Sorry, off topic.
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Can you explain a litte more? Interesting
 
Alpha Dude said:
Really? I had no idea there was such an arranged marriage culture among Italians. Is it common? :ooh:
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Ummmmmm..... Not much anymore, it is outside of the big cities. My family still does it....we don't say much about it, people think it's weird in the USA. :( and they think it's oppressive towards women
 
Italianguy said:
Ummmmmm..... Not much anymore, it is outside of the big cities. My family still does it....we don't say much about it, people think it's weird in the USA. :( and they think it's oppressive towards women
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What a load of rubbish, it's oppressive to both the man and the woman in the marriage.
 
sure what bout the men?? i also see loads of muslim guys not dressing modest just the other day i saw a muslim guy at the mosque and his muscles were bulging out of his PINK t-shirt! yes it was pink would u believe that :raging: i mean not that i was looking or anything but it was a bit hard not to notice as i was walking out :exhausted
 
I know Italians are big on family etc, but I didn't realise they were so close to Islamic or even indian culture. No wonder you married a desi. :D

It's not really oppressive toward women though, men of course would be in the same situation.
 
cat eyes said:
sure what bout the men?? i also see loads of muslim guys not dressing modest just the other day i saw a muslim guy at the mosque and his muscles were bulging out of his PINK t-shirt! yes it was pink would u believe that :raging: i mean not that i was looking or anything but it was a bit hard not to notice as i was walking out :exhausted
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LOL! Have you ever seen a guy with glitter in his hair? :giggling:
 
Supreme said:
What a load of rubbish, it's oppressive to both the man and the woman in the marriage.
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No it's not! How would you know? Did yours fail? All my family members arranged marriage were %100 successful:D

May I ask? do you even know what an Arranged marriage is?
 
Alpha Dude said:
I know Italians are big on family etc, but I didn't realise they were so close to Islamic or even indian culture. No wonder you married a desi. :D

It's not really oppressive toward women though, men of course would be in the same situation.
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I know, i told him it wasn't oppressive either?:hmm: He is the reason we don't talk about it much! They all think the men are some kind of caveman that beats the woman over the head with a club and drags her to his cave:hmm:;D.

And yes i married a desi girl.lol;D Yeah, her mother was really suprised to see how close our cultures are too:D
 
Supreme said:
What a load of rubbish, it's oppressive to both the man and the woman in the marriage.
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Oh really ?! :raging: So then it is less oppressive for guys to spend the night with the woman (I'd rather not use more impolite description of their deeds, even though I can) and then throw her away and get a new sock?

An COUNTLESS cases come into my mind! So then that ways better?

Come on, how often does those kinda relationships end so that the guy just sends a stupid textmessage to the girl "sorry, it's over" "we're too different" etc. after having the five mins of enjoyment <_<


EDIT: What an arrogant statement!
 
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_muslim_ said:
Oh really ?! :raging: So then it is less oppressive for guys to spend the night with the woman (I'd rather not use more impolite description of their deeds, even though I can) and then throw her away and get a new sock?

An COUNTLESS cases come into my mind! So then that ways better?

Come on, how often does those kinda relationships end so that the guy just sends a stupid textmessage to the girl "sorry, it's over" "we're too different" etc. after having the five mins of enjoyment <_<
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Thank you sister!
 
Italianguy said:
No it's not! How would you know? Did yours fail? All my family members arranged marriage were %100 successful:D

May I ask? do you even know what an Arranged marriage is?
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true, I agree 100%. Good question.
All my family's arranged marriage were also 100% successful,

Indeed, it is alots more successful comparing to Supremes' "50-dates"-marriage
 
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Guestfellow said:
Do you even know how arrange marriages work?
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NO he doesn't, or he wouldn't have said that. I have seen a poll that said 9 out of 10 arranged marriages are successful, where 3 out of 10 of the so called "normal way" are successful........3 out of 10! ....It's probably less nowimsad
 
Italianguy said:
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I guess i do have to say.....it was nice of that family to take the time to care:D
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Sure. They were kindly and caring people when they (of they mind found lonely missing child...). Hopely they will make same again... but not with same "missing child".

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_muslim_ said:
true, I agree 100%. Good question
All my family's arranged marriage were also 100% successful,

Indeed, it is alots more successful comparing to Supremes' "50-dates"-marriage
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What? he went on 50 dates before marriage?:hmm:

I met my wife for 5 minutes once.....then asked her dad if we could have a lunch...ummmm..... meeting:p Her parents came.....Then a family sit down....then married:D

It took a realistic time of about ............1 day(thats time together) before we were married.

Its probably different for others.
 

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