Hijab

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ok sis i will add you as soon as i can don't worri :)
but i suggess u delete it now if you understand why...

take care
 
I am agonising about this isuue too. I am sorry to admit I don't see myself wearing it any time soon. I only put it (actually cover my head with a shawl) for prayer. I would stand out on the streets and at my work and attract so much attention. Whom am I fooling? There's no way I can put it on and go to work. Just no way. I will never be able to do it.
I know one day I can wear scarf or a shawl, when I go out, visit my friends etc. The loosely draped one. But real hijab, the one with under cap...It just scares me how much people will be looking at me all the time. The whole idea of covering is to be modest and not to attract attention, and it will be completely opposite, I will be standing out like only stork among hundreds of chicken. Can you imagine you go to the mall and walk down the street and EVERYBODY is looking at you and thinking something?
And I am sorry I am sorry I am sorry but I can't think about it - I look so ugly in it. I know I shouldn't be thinking this way and shouldn't even want be attractive for strangers, but how I can help stop thinking it? I look just awful. Like a frog.
Please don't take me wrong. I am trying to change as much as I can. Gave away my skirts and shorts adn tight clothes, long sleeves and long skirts or pants for summer (which is really hard to find here too)
 
Islamgyal, Mother Theresa (and nuns for that matter) wore something very closely resembling the hijaab.
 
but sis at the end of the day who are you attracting? and when you stand up to your lord what are you going to say? are you going to say i can't stand it and i look ugly in it?

alright i've started to wear it now even tho i do wear jeans and stuff but atleast i fear my lord and at least i'm covering ma self...
at the end of the day remember your going to stand up towards ur lord!

sis i'm sorry if i'm being to harsh but it's true most of you forget that god the one is looking at you and can see you...

sis i'm really really really really sorry if i've said sumet bad my intention is NOT to make you upset or to offend you k :)

i hope you understand what i mean?

take care :)
 
Muezzin said:
Islamgyal, Mother Theresa (and nuns for that matter) wore something very closely resembling the hijaab.
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yes brova i do know that nuns cover there head thanks ever so much :thankyou:

take care
 
Trine said:
but how do i delete it from this tread?? :)
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i think you can't delete it sis cause i think you haven't got 50 posts sis :rollseyes

if you just let one of the admins know am sure they will delete it for you :rollseyes

take care
 
islamgyal said:
sista i have converted two years ago and am practising islam and becuming a gud muzlim i know where your coming from cause it's hard to explain to your family when they are NOT asians/converted. like same here my mum is a christian whereas i've converted but i'm just praying all the time to god that he the one leads me family to the right path and also me that's all i worri about sis. i know it's hard to where a scarf but i do wear it well i've started to wear it recently,there for at times i do wana take it off and i do tho to be honest but i be brave and always pray to god that he leads me to thre right path that's all i care about me religion....and i ONLY fear the one lord and no one else!

i hope you understand what i mean :)

take care
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i really respect your lingo here, easily understood everyword

peace be upon u sis :sl: ;D... :) :)
 
Trine said:
I understand sister, i can give you my msn, here on this tread: *************
thank you:thankyou: :thankyou:

Salam Aleikum :statisfie
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Salam sister.
And NO dont do that lol :heated:
I suggest you edit the message because you never know who will see this thread. I mean it is best to be safe.
Regarding your Hijab, I think if you feel you are strong enough in iman then you should try to wear it. It is good that you are wearing it at home at least so you can get use to it a little. But remember that we never know when our last day will come so the sooner the better. If you can at least cover everything else according to Islam then it would be a good start.
Peace.
 
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Oh right she cant edit yet.
Well a little help from the Mods will be appreciated ;)
 
Trine said:
Well i want to show the world that i am a muslim, but it is hard, there are so many things! hope you understand!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!
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I think it is so easy to them who believes and so heard to them whose belief is not complete ! May Allah grant you the will to overcome the false fear in your mind !
 
Ok I edited my reply. I will ask one of the mods to edit yours.
 
Cheb said:
Salam sister.
And NO dont do that lol :heated:
I suggest you edit the message because you never know who will see this thread. I mean it is best to be safe.
Regarding your Hijab, I think if you feel you are strong enough in iman then you should try to wear it. It is good that you are wearing it at home at least so you can get use to it a little. But remember that we never know when our last day will come so the sooner the better. If you can at least cover everything else according to Islam then it would be a good start.
Peace.
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brova the sista can not delete it for some reason:rollseyes
is it cause she hasn't got 50posts:?


take care brova
 
I know. Unfortunately none of the moderaters and Admin are online. we have to wait till they come on.
 
Pr4sE said:
ye thats exactly why, tell her to go spam some posts lol ;D
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brova come on we should let this sis post where ever she likes :giggling: :giggling:
and am sure she will get 50posts by today (i hope so)

t5ake care bro:happy:
 

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