I think I'm becoming a misogynist

[Paprika]

then, why do you generalize it?Learn to respect the women. I love and respect them whether they're mothers, sisters or daughters or my wife. Generally they're more supportive than Man.

I understand you situation and position, perhaps someday, you will understand mine sigh...

 

[Paprika]

r u scared of womz

scared??? pffttt, not at all, just very irritated and angry, well some times

 

[Kiro]

scared??? pffttt, not at all, just very irritated and angry, well some times

well if you ever get mawied, u might get scared of your wifes temper, wives are scary apparently

 

[Paprika]

well if you ever get mawied, u might get scared of your wifes temper, wives are scary apparently

yes, they scream and shout at you for trivial reasons, so disrespectful, then they say we human.

 

[The-Deist]

I understand you situation and position, perhaps someday, you will understand mine sigh...

What's yours?

 

[azc]

I understand you situation and position, perhaps someday, you will understand mine sigh...

if you've bitter experience with any girl, then brother, all girls are not equal, moreover, one girl or a few girls is/are not the end of the world.This is not valid reason of hating the women

 

[Paprika]

What's yours?

its complicated

 

[Paprika]

if you've bitter experience with any girl, then brother, all girls are not equal, moreover, one girl or a few girls is/are not the end of the world.This is not valid reason of hating the women

technically, really deep down inside, they are all pretty much the same, even muslim vs non-muslim, ultimately they still are the same in terms of relationships etc. same expectations, same insecurities, similar complaints.

Anyway who revived this thread?????

 

[azc]

technically, really deep down inside, they are all pretty much the same, even muslim vs non-muslim, ultimately they still are the same in terms of relationships etc. same expectations, same insecurities, similar complaints.Anyway who revived this thread?????

It proves that your an experienced hunter of girls. From Islamic point of view, this game isn't allowed

 

[Serinity]

technically, really deep down inside, they are all pretty much the same, even muslim vs non-muslim, ultimately they still are the same in terms of relationships etc. same expectations, same insecurities, similar complaints.

Anyway who revived this thread?????

there you have it. You know the game! Now come back with a new strategy.

I understand, I get it, it is just like math.. eh. Soo predictable. So boring... Tho, for math, I find it fun.

 

[Paprika]

It proves that your an experienced hunter of girls. From Islamic point of view, this game isn't allowed

girls are easy game, I like a challenge. I'm not playing that game anymore btw.

 

[Paprika]

there you have it. You know the game! Now come back with a new strategy.

I understand, I get it, it is just like math.. eh. Soo predictable. So boring... Tho, for math, I find it fun.

every strategy always requires us guys to bend over backwards and accepting their demands, gets tiring and boring, you are right about that.

 

[greenhill]

I think I understand what you are trying to say. I believe that is true too, and contribute to the complexity of a relationship, making it harder still.

I have much to say but not about to start now.. maybe later..

....if I remember...


eace:

Well I'm the same way and at 32 marriage is about out of the question for me and I will not go into details why. I could not understand this as a way for the original poster to confirm not liking women. Just because we have our faults as men we should not project that on women. I do feel that women in relationships are becoming much worse than in other times but we are at just as much fault. Dealing with the reality you are is uncommon not many men face being alone. The claim they are but are dating or just "talking" to women. That is not being single. So in our rare cases we are the minority. I don't understand how disliking women as original poster is contemplating fits into being single. Trust me I wish many times I was born into an accepting Muslim society. I am sure I would have been married by now. I think our dilemma comes with the women we live with in our society and the way the have become in it not the actual nature of women themselves.

 

[Serinity]

every strategy always requires us guys to bend over backwards and accepting their demands, gets tiring and boring, you are right about that.

Why so focused on women. I don't get it lol.

 

[Paprika]

Why so focused on women. I don't get it lol.

I'm trying not to, don't know who revived this, the more you think about women the more they consume you, they will drive you insane, I try to totally disregard them

 

[greenhill]

You're just too head strong, almost uncompromising, opinionated chauvinist, know too much and seriously seeking answers, no time for frilly things (am I way off the mark?) hence, it might be just a tad difficult.

You got to open up and untrained that self.. don't be afraid to get hurt. Everyone survives. It's how much 'drama' they make..

eace:

My heart has been trained to feel indifferent to women. I just don't understand them

I'm used to being alone, sad as that is, I don't think marriage is in my destiny.

So this is why I feel sad. Allahu Alam.

Scimi

 

[Paprika]

ever heard a woman angry and the words that come out of her mouth, it can hurt to the bone, the surprising bit is they will later tell you the didn't mean any of it, she was just angry, how stupid, you must just accept, forgive and forget. I would be embarrassed even to ask for forgiveness after that outbreak:embarrass

What do they take us for????

 

[Serinity]

ever heard a woman angry and the words that come out of her mouth, it can hurt to the bone, the surprising bit is they will later tell you the didn't mean any of it, she was just angry, how stupid, you must just accept, forgive and forget. I would be embarrassed even to ask for forgiveness after that outbreak:embarrass

What do they take us for????

So.. they scream at us, and we ask for forgiveness.. Ok.. makes sense. sarcasm

 

[Paprika]

So.. they scream at us, and we ask for forgiveness.. Ok.. makes sense. sarcasm

brutal bro, bruuuuutal....I don't understand how some people are so madly in love, must have big hearts or she must be doping his drink with something lol

 

[Serinity]

brutal bro, bruuuuutal....I don't understand how some people are so madly in love, must have big hearts or she must be doping his drink with something lol

Well, in my country, the tradition is, they make the tea.



But I'd get very annoyed if someone would scream at me for no apparrent reason.. Like, at least tell me. lol.