If someone insults your wife

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tomtomsmom said:
Bro it depends on your wife. We can't really answer that question. Some women would want you to step up and say something, some women would want you to remain silent. That is something you and your future wife should talk about.
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True a lot of things should be discussed with the wife. But because the man is the protector of the family it should be up to him, no?

There's been a lot of varied responses. I've been trying to find a relevant hadith but to no avail. If someone has one please share it with us!
 
jimbo123 said:
True a lot of things should be discussed with the wife. But because the man is the protector of the family it should be up to him, no?

There's been a lot of varied responses. I've been trying to find a relevant hadith but to no avail. If someone has one please share it with us!
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In a way, yes, it is up to him. But if you saying something will make you wife even more upset or get you into a physical fight and you end up dying is that protecting your family? I personally don't think so.
 
maryam11 said:
no offence, but a lady should feel secure with the expectation that her husband will defend her, without her having to butt in.
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Kind of like a child who expects to be safe with his/her parents.
 
If your future wife is anything like my wife, she'll tell you to be patient and that Allah (swt) will reward you justly for your patience.
 
MadeenJibreel said:
I prefer my wife to be a gentle woman, not like a man - in looks or behaviour - what do you think?
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BTW, did not Allah put us men in charge over our families? We are responsible for them rite? So it's not really a wife's duty to defend herself. Now why should a man be like a woman and a woman like a man???
 
Sallam all

seriously i would NEVER EVER want my hubby to get into a fight because some looser said sumink silly to me:heated: i would draaaaaaaag my hubby away;D (how am i ment to look at him when he gets a black eye) and lol what if my hubby looses the fight WHAT, AM I MENT TO JUMP IN:giggling:

i'm not married yet, when InshAllah i am ^thats what i'll do^
 
man i wud knock the guy out if he did that to my future wife....but i would make sure she wont get harmed first
 
or if its too dangerous then i will make sure i remember the person and when not wid the wifeyy i would then ask him what he said when im dangling off a bridge by his feet
 
the whole chivalrous thing is all wonderful, and fairy tale like.. but I think most women agree, they'd rather have a live doting husband than take their chance on one that answers the call of every dog that barks and possibly come home with a racoon face every so often..

Besides that, I don't think it is wise to take your lady to an area that doesn't suit you both demographically..
men being flirtatious of harassing usually happens in poor neighborhoods, Italy, and the baltimore grayhound station :eek:.. I'd say go shopping uptown instead of downtown, avoid Italy unless on tour, and take the train instead of the bus and you won't find yourself wondering what to do in such a hypothetical situation, since you simply won't be faced with them :D

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yeh good point...i would not take her to such places but sometimes the scum appear in places you never expect
 
SirZubair said:
If your future wife is anything like my wife, she'll tell you to be patient and that Allah (swt) will reward you justly for your patience.
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yeah, but still. i would kill my husband if i were insulted and he said nothing.
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Isambard said:
So you're saying women are helpless?
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i dont think he is. i think wahat he is saying, is that women should feel protected by their husbands. it does not negate that she can speak up for herself. i know i am able to speak up for myself, but if i were married, i would prefer my husband to take over.
 
maryam11 said:
i dont think he is. i think wahat he is saying, is that women should feel protected by their husbands. it does not negate that she can speak up for herself. i know i am able to speak up for myself, but if i were married, i would prefer my husband to take over.
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Why? You cant come up with a cheeky remark on your own?:P

That said, here is an excellent reason not to pick fights for silly reasons

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8MMP7S7E3g&NR=1:D
 
Isambard said:
So you're saying women are helpless?
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She would be if there weren't other people around and was being harassed by a male stranger who is most likely much stronger than her! Not an idea situation to be in, at all.
 
Isambard said:
Why? You cant come up with a cheeky remark on your own?:P

That said, here is an excellent reason not to pick fights for silly reasons

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8MMP7S7E3g&NR=1:D
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me!! nope, if someone where to insult me for wearing the hijaab, than i'll take over thanks. give them a piece of my mind.
but otherwise, my husband will be taking over, inshallah. he better!!! or else.....
 
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