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Selam aleykum,
Brother islamirama, I must say, those links kinda confused me and I gotta point out some things. So here are some links I recommend you to read:
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/...h-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503547498
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/...h-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503545080
http://www.askimam.org/fatwa/fatwa.php?askid=1d8b550f1b336f117c15ed3a9a01c69a
Wa'alaikum as'salaam,
thank you for the reply however, here's my take on the matter.
I dont' trust islamonline as they don't have a strong knowledge based backing to for their answers and if i'm not mistaken, they are not 100% authentic in their info.
As for askimam, i don't even bother wasting my time with that site. The guy just gives his short answer and you just have to take it at face value.
I like islamqa because the sheikh gives the answer with quranic and hadith proof to back it up. And he also includes fatwas from other scholars on the matter. So over all he give a much more comprehensive answer than the sites you have listed.
lastly, i don't know is sitting behind those sites nor do i know the qualifications. This shiekh howerver has studied under shiekh uthaymneen, bin baaz and many other well known scholars of our time.
Firstly this piece from link one:
I find this statement to almost force a woman to think 'further education' is not necessary, 'cause it's totally haram if there's any male there. Some people don't have a choice, there are no just female schools, for example here where I live. Of course if there is, one should consider why you don't attend it, as it's way better to go there Islamically thinking.. Is it money that stops you? Or simply don't wanting to go? The intention plays a big role here.
In this time of life, people cannot go uneducated or their lives will be very hard, uneccessary hard, especially for a woman who is not really suited to do physically demanding jobs like males can do, and I'm thinking
What you think of this statement is because of your lack of islamic knowledge. Islam encourages education so much that it is made obligatory on Muslims to seek knowledge, both men and women. But at the same time Islam has set guidelines and limits in everything, including education, for us to adhere to. The person asked what is the Islamic stand on guy teaching female students, well the Islamic stand is just that what i've posted.
Now what about people like you who have no girls only school available and what not. Islamically you can't touch a non-mahram, but medically you have given some permission. See first you find a doctor of same gender, but if you can't and you need medical attention then out of due necessity, Islam allows you to be treated by opposite gender. Now i'm not saying you can go to mixed gender school out of due necessity, but i'm also not saying that you can sit home and remain uneducated. Everyone's situation is different.
Also, like you said. It's hard to be uneducated and get far much in life in this day and age. There are sisters who do university from home, do islamic studies from home. You can get any degree of secular education from online universities, you can get islamic degrees from online as well. As for younger grades, many people are homeschooling their kids. Many americans are doing that these days as well because of the indecent exposer their kids can get from going to school. So yea the opportunities are there and more so today then before to even do your whole education from K-university.
And then in the second link it said the following:
I beg you pardon, but the majority of scholars do not say niqaab, or covering the whole face + eyes, as obligatory, and that covering the hair and body with loose clothing which does not sexually attract, is the full hijab. Face and hands can be visible.
You can beg my pardon all you want, but can you please bring proof of these "majority scholars" that say niqaab is not obligatory? Many scholars will say that it is obligatory based on plenty of evidence from Sunnah. ( here's one - [FONT=Verdana, Arial]Niqab[/FONT] ) And many scholars will not say its obligatory but will say its good/better if they do it.
I highly recommend you (and everyone else here) watch the 3 part video below. It is a different sheikh talking on the issue of niqaab. I very highly recommend listening to part 3 for the hijabis only as it talks about the proper hijab compared the hijabi fashion "models" we see today.
The Niqab -
Part 1 http://www.youtube.com/v/RZe44SX0EBo&rel=1
Part 2 http://www.youtube.com/v/7_jpPYcX60Q&rel=1
Part 3 http://www.youtube.com/v/i-lW7Qb3mQM&rel=1
Now I'm not saying that everyone has to do niqaab or they are going to hell. Everyone is at different level of emaan in their life and every one will do as much as they have courage to do. I"m strictly speaking of Islamically what is to be covered and how much and what not.
As for those who made remarks of "harshness" and "strict", you (bros & sis) should think twice before uttering such statments. Many things are direct command from Allah and His Messenger. And HE has said in the Quran those who obey the Messenger HAS obeyed Allah. And the Messenger has left us an example of what true Islam is and how to follow it. These "harsh" scholars have stated only the hadeeth showing what was done in those days and what Islam says. If that is too harsh for you, perhaps you need to reassess your life and knowledge and see on what basis are you passing such a judgment on scholars and on islamic rulings.
There are people who say shaking hands it ok. How would you like it if i struck a nail in your head with a hammer? would that hurt? i bet it'll hurt like hell! but guess what, the Prophet (saws) said it is BETTER that you be stuck in the head with a nail THEN to touch a palm of a woman. And those who do, they will have a hot burning coal placed in their hand. And the fire of hell is 70 times stronger than the fire of this duniya. So you tell me, is islam harsh or are these people weak in practice?