is this suicide? please please help!

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Sis, how old are you? Try and busy yourself in gaining Islamic knowledge - honestly, once you get deep into the knowledge of Islam, it is soooooooooo interesting :ma:, you will not want to stop gaining knowledge.

Would you like a friend to talk to? PM me x
 
~ Sabr ~ said:
:salamext:

Sis, how old are you? Try and busy yourself in gaining Islamic knowledge - honestly, once you get deep into the knowledge of Islam, it is soooooooooo interesting :ma:, you will not want to stop gaining knowledge.

Would you like a friend to talk to? PM me x
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*you asked me that before* i'm 14 .

islam already is interesting to me, its the only reason why i'm living..
 
ramen-thelegend said:
*you asked me that before* i'm 14 .

islam already is interesting to me, its the only reason why i'm living..
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Apologies, we've had many young members on the forum recently.

May Allaah grant you relief from your hardship, Ameen x
 
everything is really confusing and over my head...i have no idea what's going on or what i should be doing... but i talked to my grandmother instead.

my mom started crying and then they're both speaking in spanish and blah blah blah( i have no idea what they were talking about) i understood some of it...i guess they're trying to get rid of me or i guess handing the responsibilities to my grandmother or something. she cancelled her flight and is taking me for some tests.........

i still dont know what is going on...........
 
Sabr . . . :ia: - Recite Darood Shareef when you are stressed.


"On no soul does Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear."
[Qur'aan, Chapter 2, Verse 286]
 
...........i got to go for the tests! salam!
be right back!
 
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OP, please this lady is ignorant, go see her posts on the polygamy thread. what an excuse for a human being.
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If you have problem about polygamy with sister sabr, you should argue her in polygamy thread, not in this thread.

[MENTION=24284]Moderator[/MENTION] Please delete all off-topic posts.
 
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i was so not ready to go for it but i did so...and turns out i've been diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia. the doctors said i have to be hospitalised asap. a bone marrow transplant could work( i dont want prolonged chemotherapy and stuff) for now. and maybe after the surgery i'll have to keep visiting the hospital after a fortnight or so.

i dont remember the details...as i'm writing this , my mom and my grandma are arguing about the surgery. my grandmother wants to get it done in wales and get proper treatment while my mom wants to get rid of it in pakistan. i cant really do it in pakistan because my brother is giving his o'level exam on wednesday..........

i dont know what i should be doing...
 
:salam: @ramen-thelegend

Bismillahi rahmani raheem

when did you notice you had cancer? Cause I read on Wiki that

"As an acute leukemia, AML progresses rapidly and is typically fatal within weeks or months if left untreated."

Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acute_myeloid_leukemia

May Allah SWT, The Most Merciful, Cure you. Ameen. And May Allah SWT protect us from any disease. Ameen.
 
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Oh dear sister. May Allah be with you and help you to recover. imsad But anyways good that you met a doctor. The sooner your treatment can begin, that´s better for you.

I´ll make duas for you - and a lot.
 
That was a very speedy diagnosis.. Especially if you consider the fact that it doesn't just require a simple blood test.
 
I doubt you will be allowed to fly to Pakistan if it as serious as it sounds. When my Dad was really poorly, he wanted to go and see his sisters back home in India but the consultant told him no.

Get it treated here as soon as you can dear. And never give up hope.

Please feel free to pm me if you want to chat to someone. A few others have also offered this to you.

And please stop worrying about your brothers exams. Your health is more important at this moment in time. We need to get you healthy again so you can grow up to be a lovely pious Muslimah.
 
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ramen-thelegend said:
so the famous quid-e-azam....committed suicide?

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to my knowledge , he was under house arrest . Did not have power to take decision of his own . So , if he could not go hospital , it was not suicide but a kind of murder . And Allah knows Best.

sis , don't waste time , tell ur parents . Do the necessary actions and keep praying dua to Allah .



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Salam again ramen. Didnt the doctor tell you whether you need to get the treatment asap or you can wait until you go to wales?
 
My niece Ramen,

I understand if you are so shocked by diagnose result. But you should not lose your hope. There are many people who cured from this illness, and reach their dream. This is what you have to become, stay strong, and reach your dream in the future.

I am not doctor. So I can't give medical advice. The only thing that I can do for you is giving you spirit, and make dua for you, like I have done after I performed salah. I am sure people around you do the same thing too. It's because they want you stay strong, reach your future dream, and become the legend. So, don't disappoint them. Don't lose your hope.

We love you, Ramen. :)
 
May i ask what the symptoms you experienced were that made your uncle diagnose you of a possible cancer?
I'm sorry to hear about the official diagnosis :( , insha'allah you'll be able to recover with the surgery. Remember that Allah willed this to happen so if Allah wills you can get cured too. To think about Allah's horrific power and meditate on these things leaves one in absolute fear.It just proves that we don't control anything and can't help but surrender and just pray for the best things to happen. We can only pray and hope, but to allah belongs the true power.
May allah grant you good health and patience.
 
ramen-thelegend said:
thank you so much @Eric H @noraina @~sabr~ @ardianto @anatolian @hisnameiszzz @*charisma* @Muhaba @Serinity @Hamza :) @Aisha @sister herb @sam789 @Souljette

i was so not ready to go for it but i did so...and turns out i've been diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia. the doctors said i have to be hospitalised asap. a bone marrow transplant could work( i dont want prolonged chemotherapy and stuff) for now. and maybe after the surgery i'll have to keep visiting the hospital after a fortnight or so.

i dont remember the details...as i'm writing this , my mom and my grandma are arguing about the surgery. my grandmother wants to get it done in wales and get proper treatment while my mom wants to get rid of it in pakistan. i cant really do it in pakistan because my brother is giving his o'level exam on wednesday..........

i dont know what i should be doing...
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may Allah ease your affairs
 
May Allah cure you. Yeah, get treatment asap . Don't wait. And read ruqya too. A lot. Because it can finish the cancer. Cancer is an awful disease that is life threatening at times and if the disease by itself doesn't kill you, then the treatment can because chemotherapy can badly damage the body. And ruqya and the power of dua I greatly believe in.
 

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