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thank you for the very detailed reply - Pretty much addressed a lot of things I was looking for clarity about - and I really appreciate your openness to further questions ! . I suppose what I was referring to around the individualism was in relation to my difficulty with how literal I experience Islam . I'm a bit of a perfectionist , and I feel that it would be a great difficulty for me to commit to something unless it was perfect. Also , with the literal aspect of things , where does it leave choice ? And not just choice for what is good or bad - but I suppose , choice in following healthy desire . . . hopefully this opens it up a bit ....
You are absolutely welcome! I think it's great that you have both an open heart and critical eye, I'm the same way. I was raised Muslim, but my family wasn't necessarily religious, so I had to do a bit of soul searching when I came to the realization that I was just blindly following something I didn't know much about. However, on my own I began to research different religions, but the more I learned about Islam, the more I fell in love with it. I didn't know how to read or write Arabic, I didn't know how to pray, I didn't even wear hijab, but the more I fell in love with it and the more knowledge I gained, Allah alhemdulilah made it so easy for me to be able to adhere to these things, and also made me stronger to accept how different I would be amongst my peers (I was the only Muslim female in my entire high school). With regards to choice, I think that one of the things we have to build is a taqwa, which means "God consciousness." It's basically knowing that God is always there and we have to strive to live the best way we can and accept any hardships that come our way. We always have the choice to do whatever we want, but we have to be able to understand which will be the best for us and our hereafter. When it comes to desires, there's a right way and a wrong way to fulfill them, and rarely it can be more complicated than that, but for the most part, it's easy to figure out what to do, we just have to commit to actually doing it. I don't know if that answers your question
