Well, I didn't write the bold part by themselves. Read the whole message.
Again how can you want to be good without God's grace in the first place?
God's grace is not a forcing...that's why it comes with free will.
Let alone being good, you can't even exist without God's grace and mercy. The way Christians believe that God loves all because He rises the sun over everyone, gushes rain over everyone and allows everyone to breath does not in any way say that God adores the sinner too. Your claim only portrays that if God did hate sinners then He wouldn't allow them to have a share of His grace. In other words, God would have instantly ruined the sinners by giving the most grievous chastisement. Well, the Qur'an does have an answer as to why their punishment is not instantaneous.
وَلَوْلَا كَلِمَةٌ سَبَقَتْ مِن رَّبِّكَ لَكَانَ لِزَامًا وَأَجَلٌ مُّسَمًّى
Had it not been for a Word that went forth before from thy Lord, (their punishment) must necessarily have come; but there is a Term appointed (for respite).
Surah # 20 - Ta Ha - Verse 129
Sinners live a carefree and reckless life thinking that they will never have to account for their deeds. This ignorance of theirs is the most easy route to their doom.
Allah allows them to live not because He loves them but because He wants to establish justice. Allah lets every man live his entire course and the door of repentance for man is open for all his life. The eternal punishment from Allah is not instantaneous so that the sinners don't cry in the hereafter that they were unjustly robbed of their lives and if they had lived all of it, they would've believed.
وَلَوْ أَنَّا أَهْلَكْنَاهُم بِعَذَابٍ مِّن قَبْلِهِ لَقَالُوا رَبَّنَا لَوْلَا أَرْسَلْتَ إِلَيْنَا رَسُولًا فَنَتَّبِعَ آيَاتِكَ مِن قَبْلِ أَن نَّذِلَّ وَنَخْزَىٰ
And if We had inflicted on them a penalty before this, they would have said: "Our Lord! If only Thou hadst sent us a messenger, we should certainly have followed Thy Signs before we were humbled and put to shame."
Surah # 20 - Ta Ha - Verse 134
وَلَوْلَا أَن تُصِيبَهُم مُّصِيبَةٌ بِمَا قَدَّمَتْ أَيْدِيهِمْ فَيَقُولُوا رَبَّنَا لَوْلَا أَرْسَلْتَ إِلَيْنَا رَسُولًا فَنَتَّبِعَ آيَاتِكَ وَنَكُونَ مِنَ الْمُؤْمِنِي
If (We had) not (sent thee to the Quraish),- in case a calamity should seize them for (the deeds) that their hands have sent forth, they might say: "Our Lord! why didst Thou not sent us a messenger? We should then have followed Thy Signs and been amongst those who believe!"
Surah # 28 - Al-Qasas - Verse 47
Our entire life is a series of numerous chances given to us to return to God and every time the call is rejected, the heart gets darker and darker. Adding only to the eternal punishment in the hereafter. Allah's love is dependent on the response to His calls. If a man believes, Allah loves him and if he rejects it, Allah hates him.
Allah's call reaches all. It does not have anything to do with affection, it has more to do with justice. Just appearing for a test does not make you qualify to the next level, passing the test does. Similarly, just witnessing the truth does not make you Allah's beloved, accepting it does.
P.S. - I recently found verse(s) from the Bible that dictate God's hatred for the sinners. I know others have also quoted such verses before and I'm just adding to it.
01. The word of the LORD came again unto me, saying,
02. Son of man, set thy face against the Ammonites, and prophesy against them;
03. And say unto the Ammonites, Hear the word of the Lord GOD; Thus saith the Lord GOD; Because thou saidst, Aha, against my sanctuary, when it was profaned; and against the land of Israel, when it was desolate; and against the house of Judah, when they went into captivity;
04. Behold, therefore I will deliver thee to the men of the east for a possession, and they shall set their palaces in thee, and make their dwellings in thee: they shall eat thy fruit, and they shall drink thy milk.
05. And I will make Rabbah a stable for camels, and the Ammonites a couching place for flocks: and ye shall know that I am the LORD.
06. For thus saith the Lord GOD; Because thou hast clapped thine hands, and stamped with the feet, and rejoiced in heart with all thy despite against the land of Israel;
07. Behold, therefore I will stretch out mine hand upon thee, and will deliver thee for a spoil to the heathen; and I will cut thee off from the people, and I will cause thee to perish out of the countries: I will destroy thee; and thou shalt know that I am the LORD.
08. Thus saith the Lord GOD; Because that Moab and Seir do say, Behold, the house of Judah is like unto all the heathen;
09. Therefore, behold, I will open the side of Moab from the cities, from his cities which are on his frontiers, the glory of the country, Bethjeshimoth, Baalmeon, and Kiriathaim,
10. Unto the men of the east with the Ammonites, and will give them in possession, that the Ammonites may not be remembered among the nations.
11. And I will execute judgments upon Moab; and they shall know that I am the LORD.
12. Thus saith the Lord GOD; Because that Edom hath dealt against the house of Judah by taking vengeance, and hath greatly offended, and revenged himself upon them;
13. Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD; I will also stretch out mine hand upon Edom, and will cut off man and beast from it; and I will make it desolate from Teman; and they of Dedan shall fall by the sword.
14. And I will lay my vengeance upon Edom by the hand of my people Israel: and they shall do in Edom according to mine anger and according to my fury; and they shall know my vengeance, saith the Lord GOD.
15. Thus saith the Lord GOD; Because the Philistines have dealt by revenge, and have taken vengeance with a despiteful heart, to destroy it for the old hatred;
16. Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD; Behold, I will stretch out mine hand upon the Philistines, and I will cut off the Cherethims, and destroy the remnant of the sea coast.
17. And I will execute great vengeance upon them with furious rebukes; and they shall know that I am the LORD, when I shall lay my vengeance upon them.
Ezekiel 25