But my generalizations still stand. It is very true that in this country traditional Muslima facial features and body types are not typically sought by the typical American male. Physically, they do not have the petite, small facial features and soft, smooth textures that detail most non-Muslims. And as one other thread has already stated, most men (regardless of faith) want the best looking women to produce their offspring.
OK, you know what, you have just gone into a whole new topic right there. We were talking about rape, and youre talking about how sought after Muslim Women are to American men. Firstly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so basically your generalisation doesnt work...
Secondly, do you know what rape is? Do you know why people comit rape? SHOCK HORROR, it isnt always because the man finds the woman beautiful. He could find her ugly, and still rape her, do you know why? Men also rape women because they can, the power aspect, some sick individuals who are power freaks, and the feel the need to show others that they can do whatever they want to them. Another reason, simply to relieve their sexual tension, who else are they going to do it with??
Now I'm speaking generally, but I've found that Muslima's bridge this unfair gap by competing for husbands with 'chastity' and 'piousness.' It's a way to remove the genetics aspect in hopes of providing a more favorable outcome for future relationships. And it seems to work well for them. Muslima's have been successful in making the word 'modesty' almost believable.
Dont confuse women and deen. The reason why one should marry a woman, as our Prophet (S) said, was because of her deen, because that will be best for us. Yes certain women with their own agendas exist, but that is true in all cultures, but dont make out as if women act modestly, simply to get a husband, they dont, they do it for Allah's sake, because that is what pleases him..
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