Marriage Difficulties

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^ one more thing... i dont know if your oppressed or not doesnt sound like it


but the oppressed ones dua's RACE to Allah and are answered at speed as though there is no veil in between the dua' and Allah.

so make dua'... lots of it...
 
Lonely Gal said:
guys - I want to become more Islam focused.. where do I start??
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1st thing do ya salaah, next salaah is asr, make sure you doo it and do it like its your last prayer and straight after the prayer your gona die!! lol just keep that thought in your head and you will pray with so much khushoo,

alsooo get yourself or go on the net and read

Quran, hadiths and a Tafsir of Quraan, and biography of some companions!! especially Hadhrat Abu Bakr (ra) and Hadhrat Umar (ra) :D
 
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Start with the basics of Islaam inshaaAllaah. Go to your Local Mosque and try and make religious friends there, who can help you on a day to day basis. How old r u sis?
 
why dont you start right here sis?

the best way to start is to read about the beautiful sahabi's and tabieen etc (companions of the prophet) because that puts love for them in your heart and makes you want to be like them.


here check this out:

http://www.islamicboard.com/companions-prophet/352-hudhayfah-ibn-al-yaman.html


also check out the biogrophy of the prophet... it makes our problems seem like NOTHING...
 
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Seen. Start with basics inshaaAllaah, e.g. prayer 5 times. When you feel you can do that, then do more inshaaAllaah :)
 
fair few to go yet!!
am at wrk.. will have to catch up on Monday when am back at work
 
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Ok InshaaAllaah...remember - prayer 5 times a day...for starters.... :)

Assalamu Alaykum
 
sis the best thing to do is be patient and pray for allah..and not only you encourge him to pray aswell to wish both of ya to come together wid sucess.inshallah
 
Lonely Gal said:
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DATS HOW OLD I AM!! O ma gunis.! I can never imagine bein in dat position, jus thinkin of marriage alone scares the livin daylights outta me. I really feel for ya sis, I reali do. Ya so young sis, n sounds like u given up hope after such a short tym of bein wit the guy. Y didnt you get to know the guy before you got married to him? Maybe then you could have come to a decision about whether you wanted to be with him. BUT no point ponderin over the whys and whats, what you gta do sis is try and make it work. Im a paki n I assume you are 2. So belieev you me, I KNOW how paki familys work (wel the majority of them). Dont even THINK about divorce cos sounds to me like you aint even given the guy a chance. I know LOADS of ppl hu get married bak home, are not happy 2 begin wid n then mashaAllah there cums a point when they are so happyyyyyy. Think about it from his perspective- how he must be feelin. He left his WHOLE FAMILY, HIS LIFE bak home 2 cum 2 england and be wit you. now DAT is not easy i tel ya. Looks aint everythin hun, tho me too likes a hunk n dat ;). But seriously, try and make this relationship work hun cos sounds to me you aint even tryin, no offence. i hope things get better 4 u sis Xx
 
salam sis. if you dont mind me askin did you do istikhara beore you got married. personally i think you and your husband should go away for a few days, where there is no family. in that way you wont know anyone else and will be forced to speak to one another and inshallah you never know find out so much that will help both of you understand each other. i think divorce nowaadays is considered to quickly, giv it 100% because no offence from what i have read you dont seem to be trying to hard. inshallah sis your in my duas and may allah help you!
 

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