Marriage online

[Re.TiReD]

AsslamauAlaykum

*cue the halal wedding bells*

I dont know. There was a time I couldnt imagine it happening and it disgusting me. But now, being online long enough and having come across several ... erm strange people ... I can see how it would happen and come about.

But keeping it short...As long as it's halal, it's do-able and the barakah can still be there bi'ithnillah

WassalamuAlaykum

 

[Amaanah]

But keeping it short...As long as it's halal, it's do-able and the barakah can still be there bi'ithnillah

:thumbs_up​

 

[Banu_Hashim]

Slightly off topic, but the first thing I thought of when I read the title of this thread was this: http://maniacmuslim.com/2004/12/21/online-nikkah/ ...heh.

lol. That was hil-larious.

 

[Faseeha]

Why do all the sisters not want to get married?

Because, when hearing of all the sad things that are happening in marriages nowadays, it's just discouraging!

 

[Sahabiyaat]

^ ;DLOLLLLLLL i think i got a stich from laughing so much, i need water lol.

3 people want to get married from LI, hey hey, reveal yourselves! lol

me, right now? no, i have enough real life people to deal with!

 

[Abdu-l-Majeed]

Very few brothers replied.

Ummm, if it's like bro islamirama described, then under certain conditions maybe. Internet is just one way of communicating, nothing more. It's the same like sending a SMS or calling someone by phone.

 

[Abdu-l-Majeed]

Because, when hearing of all the sad things that are happening in marriages nowadays, it's just discouraging!

Seems like it's some kind of a global disease; the same problems here in Bosnia.

 

[Olive]

If you do chose to find your partner online, at least you'll know how good their English is!

 

[Abdu-l-Majeed]

If you do chose to find your partner online, at least you'll know how good their English is!

Or my English. ;D

 

[Periwinkle18]

If you do chose to find your partner online, at least you'll know how good their English is!

lolz

 

[Danah]

Oh guys, lets know people in the real life very well, then we will move to the online people to discover their natures

one major disadvantages on the online marriage is that you cant have a really accurate view about the other side, its just a virtual world at the end, and when you shocked by the real personality of them, it will be already too late........* as I think *

 

[islamirama]

I think a few of you guys are thinking that there won't be any offline interaction before the marriage. There are some who meet online, do nikkah online, with witnesses online, and what not. Our community sheikh is against that and said from his experience 99.9999% of those marriages end in failure. That is not the type of marriage i'm talking about.

I"m talking about considering someone from online that you think is a good match for you. Then you go meet the person, he visits your parents or what not and you start the same process you would if offline someone introduced him to you or you met each other at college or what not. I'm saying online is the starting point, not the end.

 

[highway_trekker]

didn't expect those votes

 

[~Taalibah~]

Where i'm concerned, definitely no. I'd be too weary to trust that much what someone says online and my parents would gag.
But considering what conditions islamirama has given, i dont think anything is wrong with it. Allah Ta'aala knows best.

 

[islamirama]

:bump1:

 

[chacha_jalebi]

who voted yes tut tut :embarrass

online marriage lol, that is blind marriage, its even worser then them arranged marriages where you see your spouse on the actual marriage day!

but and a big BUT you can find people anywhere, so maybe a big maybe there is a chance online, but like its just too messy like can it be halaal? is the person really themselfs or some 70 yr old perverted oap is the person actin real or fake? is this how they really are? its just so much dodgy ness and un answerable questions so its best to leave

 

[islamirama]

online marriage lol, that is blind marriage, its even worser then them arranged marriages where you see your spouse on the actual marriage day!

You didn't read the thread first tut tut

just read my posts and u'll see what i mean by "online"

 

[Na7lah]

Would you consider marrying someone you met online or by finding someone online? How about from this forum or any islamic forum for that matter?

no final answer

 

[alcurad]

for all we know, soon all marriage will be online.

 

[Snowflake]

All I know is that if a person fears Allah and doesn't think of wronging someone it doesn't matter if you meet them online or off. Good and bad people are everywhere. It's all in the intentions.