Marrying Mr. Right!

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:w: I think it's really stupid how some people spend their whole lives looking for ''Mr.Right'' when ''Mr.Right Now'' is right there in front of them and they had an opportunity to just fulfill a sunnah practise. :rolleyes:
 
I'm not even going to bother looking for "Mr. Right", I'm going to look for "Mr. Right For Me"..:statisfie
 
Fighting4Iman said:
....WAT? :|


WAAAT? :|



i hope we're saved from wives who would test us like this

AMEEN YA RAB
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lol, you didn't see anything, not yet :smile: this is the cutest thing u can handle with
women r clever creatures don't u think!:peace:
 
Ameena* said:
:w: I think it's really stupid how some people spend their whole lives looking for ''Mr.Right'' when ''Mr.Right Now'' is right there in front of them and they had an opportunity to just fulfill a sunnah practise. :rolleyes:
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nah forget mr right or "mr right" now, just find that "mr sunnah" n get the job done


also people need to learn the dunya aint got perfect people, u gotta live with the flaws


remember the hadith, if you find something you dislike, then find something you like to cover it !
 
crayon said:
I'm not even going to bother looking for "Mr. Right", I'm going to look for "Mr. Right For Me"..:statisfie
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Exactly!! I wish more people would think like this. There isn't a Mr. or Mrs. Perfect out there, nor is there an ideally 'best' person. The person who's right for you is the best person for you.
 
The words "don't straighten the bent rib" come to mind. . .

I suppose the same goes for the flaws of the man
 
Muezzin said:
Is that smiley ironic?

I bloody well hope I don't end up with someone like that.
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no, not ironic, because i'm finding the situation funny
i don't know why are you bloody though

by the way, the woman i'm talking about got married based in love, and she & her husband have beautiful life , Mashaa' Allah, but it's a cool test from my view of point.

what the wrong in that?
i'm not saying i'll test my husband, but don't you think it's not a big deal if that happend?!
 
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Sis, a stunt like that may cause disruption in the marriage. It is stressful and upsetting for the husband, the parents, children if there are any. It seems to me the only one laughing is the wife.
 
^^ the test was in there first months of marriage
you are right ,but i don't see that there is any thing wrong if it was in the right place and time

sidenote: she wasn't testing the "trust issue"..
 
I have to disagree. If it was the right place and time, was the husband then aware of his wife's intentions? If he was then it completely defeats the object anyway.

Also, first months of marriage are a very delicate time. The seed of the love and care between them is just beginning to grow. Therefore could have had drastic consequences should that delicacy have been jeopardised

Finally, I didn't question the issue at hand, be it trust or anything else. It still isn't right
 
^^ u convinced me

ma coming..husband(In shaa' Allah) will make for u du'aa although i didn't think in testing him anyway, thank u for twisting ma thinking in da whole issue:rollseyes
 
AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

I hope sisters dont test like that, it will always lead to bigger problems. Theres so many other ways of showing ones love!!

Regarding the article, its clear that not no-one is perfect yet with all the flaws within a person, makes them more real, more MR/S Right.

MR/S Right, is the person you want. People have different personalities, so MR/S Right, is the one that is right for you, the one that is close-to-perfectly compatible with you! :statisfie

Theses are some of the bases that people should have give or take, no-one is perfect hence we must learn to forgive. Some people prefer to be more compassion than be complete honesty:rollseyes

All in all, see your own personality and make it compatible to you, and thats MR/S Right!!!

Lets not all go looking for an Angel, they are all in heaven....

FiAmaaniAllah
 
where is da sarcasm sis ?!

all wht i said, is that u convinced me in the issue , indeeeeed
and about ma comin husband ,i was just kiddin wid u , that he'll make duaa' for u cause u twist ma thinking so i'll never think in testin him!

soo?

anyway, am sorry if it sounds something else
 
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I was only being playful sis :) I am not used to people changing their opinion so drastically :)

No harm intended :)
 
^^ i'm young :) ,i can change ma thoughts easily :)
excluding changing ma religion In Shaa' Allah .. May Allah guide us always for the right path Ameen
 
*Yasmin* said:
^^ i'm young :) ,i can change ma thoughts easily :)
excluding changing ma religion In Shaa' Allah .. May Allah guide us always for the right path Ameen
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Ameen.!

Alhamdulillah, change for the better...:statisfie

FiAmaaniAllah
 
*Yasmin* said:
no, not ironic, because i'm finding the situation funny
i don't know why are you bloody though

by the way, the woman i'm talking about got married based in love, and she & her husband have beautiful life , Mashaa' Allah, but it's a cool test from my view of point.
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From my point of view, it's sadistic passive aggression.

But, different strokes for different folks.

what the wrong in that?
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It can cause the man emotional harm, for no particular reason, other than his wife, his dearly beloved partner and bestest friend in the whole wide world, wanted to 'test' his love by tricking him into thinking he's in trouble with the in-laws.

However, I don't know the full details of your friend's marriage, so I can't comment on that. I can comment on the way this 'test' business appeared to me from your message.

i'm not saying i'll test my husband, but don't you think it's not a big deal if that happend?!
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I'm saying if that happened to me, we wouldn't be husband and wife for very long.
 
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