Marrying Mr. Right!

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From my point of view, it's sadistic passive aggression.
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oh my God , pls don't call the police << (just kiddin)

i got ur point Brother
and i've already changed my thinking .. if u notice my posts in the thread

However, I don't know the full details of your friend's marriage, so I can't comment on that. I can comment on the way this 'test' business appeared to me from your message.
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got ur point

noteside: aunt of ma friend , not ma friend
 
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Masha Allah good topic.

I cant stand people who moan and cry to their parents about their marriage problems,
all you doing is causing conflict between your family and your spouse.

No marriage is perfect there are always some problems, Allah swt does indeed test us so the best thing is to resolve them and behave like an adult.

Plus...I wouldnt personally want to reveal to my family my husband bad points, I wouldnt want him to do it to me.
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*Yasmin* said:
oh my God , pls don't call the police << (just kiddin)

i got ur point Brother
and i've already changed my thinking .. if u notice my posts in the thread
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That's a-ok. :thumbs_up

got ur point

noteside: aunt of ma friend , not ma friend
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Okay. I can get pretty judgmental, so I apologise if I offended you or insulted your friend's aunt with my ranting.
 
Yanal said:
JazakAllah but isn't this thread too old to post in it?
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Old is gold buddy *Following my threads*

I love Abu Sayad's comment "The person who's right for you is the best person for you." MarshaAllah!!

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FiAmaaniAllah
 
Najm said:


AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

I love Abu Sayad's comment "The person who's right for you is the best person for you." MarshaAllah!!
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The origin of that statement is from Sh. Yaser Birjas. :)
 
Najm said:


I love Abu Sayad's comment "The person who's right for you is the best person for you." MarshaAllah!!
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...I thought that was common sense? Hmm...

Marriage is marriage. The more you think about it, the less special it becomes.

Tawakkul and patience. There's a recipe for finding the right person.

Instead of focusing on finding or allocating our Mr. and Mrs. Rights, why don't we focus on becoming Mr. and Mrs. Right...?

If you are preoccupied with yourself and focused on becoming the best you that you can be in every possible field, it is highly unlikely that bad people will be drawn to you. You will attract those who are like minded...you will be surrounded by positive people who, by chance of six degrees of separation, just might know or be your Mr. or Mrs. Right.

Yes. Indeed.

ws.
 
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sevgi said:
Instead of focusing on finding or allocating our Mr. and Mrs. Rights, why don't we focus on becoming Mr. and Mrs. Right...?

If you are preoccupied with yourself and focused on becoming the best you that you can be in every possible field, it is highly unlikely that bad people will be drawn to you. You will attract those who are like minded...you will be surrounded by positive people who, by chance of six degrees of separation, just might know or be your Mr. or Mrs. Right.
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good point! :thumbs_up:thumbs_up:thumbs_up
 
If you are at university and want to bring the problem of finding a partner to the attention of the community, then maybe you and few friends together can arrange an event on your campus.

I work with www.campusalam.org, we are looking to help Muslim students who have great ideas for events to put them on at their university.

ws.
 
MO783 said:
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Yes nice, now that hard bit finding the person

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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Tie the camel, AND place your faith in Allah Subhaana WaTaala.

FiAmaaniAllah
 
J.U.N.I.O.R said:
there is no mr right!
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Of course there is!!!! There always is. Its ones perspective.

Im going to look for Miss Right, until then, im going to try my best to make myself Mr. Right. :-[

If you want the best, you got be the best!! :rollseyes

FiAmaaniAllah
 
Najm said:
AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Of course there is!!!! There always is. Its ones perspective.

Im going to look for Miss Right, until then, im going to try my best to make myself Mr. Right. :-[

If you want the best, you got be the best!! :rollseyes

FiAmaaniAllah
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Is your name pronounced 'Naym'? Like bosnian style?
 
Najm said:
AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Of course there is!!!! There always is. Its ones perspective.

Im going to look for Miss Right, until then, im going to try my best to make myself Mr. Right. :-[

If you want the best, you got be the best!! :rollseyes

FiAmaaniAllah
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be warned akhee, she doesn't exsist...
 
Pomak said:
Don't be such a pessimist.
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It's not pessimism, it's realism!
No one is absolutely perfect, the sooner both men and women accept that, the better.
As for having someone "perfect for you", then that's a completely different issue..
 
Umm ul-Shaheed said:
be warned akhee, she doesn't exsist...
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Mr/Miss Right is ones perception uhkti. Everyone looks for different characters in a person. Some want strongman, or a practicing muslim, so look for people with high status. Some like certain habits then others.

Perfection is what one believes to be perfect.

Have a read what i wrote at Post #34 uhkti.

FiAmaaniAllah
 

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