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Now that you've mentioned it, I don't remember mine either. Only the photographs show where we went and what we did. I miss my chilhood =(
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I miss very few things about my childhood and am glad I don't remember too much...I only wish I could remember more of my gymnastics days...and preschool days when it was only my mother and me.
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My mum (hafidhahAAllah) does kinda spoil us, although we do contribute to the house, me and my sis amira give a good deal of our earnings, actually my mums quite funny she's like "oooooh my whole life, this is what i was waiting for...alhamdulillah" and takes our money lol..
My mum however knows the limits...some stuff we don't even dare ask her lol...
we cook in the house clean etc, mum don't do diddly squat and i wouldn't want it any other way...
What i love about my mum was that all our lives she took us to madrasas after school, every time we moved house she'd find one for us to go too...or tried to get a teacher at home for us...(my brother in law, when we were small of course) didn't work cos he was too soft mashaAllah...
But i don't like to see people my age acting like they're physically incapable of doing anythings for themselves, its very annoying.. and not a pretty sight, a grown guy saying "mum, i want milk" and being hand fed...and i've seen this....*shakes head*
I think mums like that feel guilty or something, that guy i mentioned his mum if shes away from her kids for a while shes like ya Allah i left my kids , i have to rush back and gets all worried and stuff...miskeena.
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My mum however knows the limits...some stuff we don't even dare ask her lol...
we cook in the house clean etc, mum don't do diddly squat and i wouldn't want it any other way...
What i love about my mum was that all our lives she took us to madrasas after school, every time we moved house she'd find one for us to go too...or tried to get a teacher at home for us...(my brother in law, when we were small of course) didn't work cos he was too soft mashaAllah...
But i don't like to see people my age acting like they're physically incapable of doing anythings for themselves, its very annoying.. and not a pretty sight, a grown guy saying "mum, i want milk" and being hand fed...and i've seen this....*shakes head*
I think mums like that feel guilty or something, that guy i mentioned his mum if shes away from her kids for a while shes like ya Allah i left my kids , i have to rush back and gets all worried and stuff...miskeena.
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annoying innit
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yes, very annoying! although i think annoying is an understatement lol.........its depressing!!
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my family too...and i know some ppl kind of jealous with my family...
eventhough i'm the only child...but i consider my cousins ( i have 50+ cousins) are closed family...
we're very closed... we always call each other...and we know everyones', secret.
our family love to help each other financially or emotionally...any kind of help.
is not that they don't want to do part time jobs during their studies...its just that the parents worried and wants their children to concentrate in their studies. For my family, money should not be a priority to be worried about. Study first then...money later...
Maybe we're spoilt...but we love each other...and always be there to help each other. We cannot see anyone of us in any kind of problems...
even me myself gives some money to the one that still in uni...(and i know in islam is good to give sadaqah to the students)
but we know money is not the main problem...so we're not worried if everyone doesn't have any money...Allah s.w.t will protect us if we always remember and follow Him.
thats all i'm going to say for now....
eventhough i'm the only child...but i consider my cousins ( i have 50+ cousins) are closed family...
we're very closed... we always call each other...and we know everyones', secret.
our family love to help each other financially or emotionally...any kind of help.
is not that they don't want to do part time jobs during their studies...its just that the parents worried and wants their children to concentrate in their studies. For my family, money should not be a priority to be worried about. Study first then...money later...
Maybe we're spoilt...but we love each other...and always be there to help each other. We cannot see anyone of us in any kind of problems...
even me myself gives some money to the one that still in uni...(and i know in islam is good to give sadaqah to the students)
but we know money is not the main problem...so we're not worried if everyone doesn't have any money...Allah s.w.t will protect us if we always remember and follow Him.
thats all i'm going to say for now....
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TabarakaAllah ukhtee you have a lovely family, i understand what you mean about your parents wanting you to focus on studies, my mum is the same she prefers us to study hard and do good in studies and theeen help her, but of course we help where ever helps needed...
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whats the big fuss! i mean parents want to help out their kids, and i think if they can why not! what are families for?
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Parents have money - They may aswell spend it on there loved ones 
. Anyway I think you exaggerate the maturity - If you have to pay yourself - It just stresses study, BIG TIME. Getting study over with is better.
Paying for yourself - Anyone can do it, its nothing to brag about, maybe you give money a bit more value -but its not worth jeapordising studies.
. Anyway I think you exaggerate the maturity - If you have to pay yourself - It just stresses study, BIG TIME. Getting study over with is better.Paying for yourself - Anyone can do it, its nothing to brag about, maybe you give money a bit more value -but its not worth jeapordising studies.