exactly its like fasting... you do something for the sake of Allah alone not because you want people to know about it.. that will be shirk then. its just a small sacrifice you do for the sake of Allah. doesnt hurt much. not listening to music infact makes you feel more peaceful and healthy. you feel frustrated after you listen to music.
Yeah.....Exactly.
But, now for the paracetamol for getting rid of your love of music.
Try and find alternatives to music, such as Quraanic recitaions by your favourite imam(s) (This worked for me)!!!!
Or, you could try and listen to nasheeds(islamic songs)....Allah did not forbid music completely, it all.....just have be careful about the lyrics and what instruments are used.