didn't seem like that to me, rather it's natural she would say that given so few meeting....
Would you be be willing to stay with a woman after she admits to you that she's in love with another man and doesn't have any feelings for you? And that she's only with you because her parents forced her into marriage and she fears being 'disowned' by them if she didn't marry you?
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I do agree with you, though, about being with her and talking to her face-to-face...
All the best, bro.
her parents decision aside, it's up to her to accept the brother or not, and obviously she does accept him to an extent at least.