true! but boy, am I eternally ecstatic that you will not be the one judging me or others come the day of reckoning. "Da'o Alkhalq lilkhaliq"
Best in general to lead by example rather than screaming and warning. Eventually people become the company they keep, if one is a good example, one is bound to rebuff off on others without the verbal whip.
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the prophet lead by example and action.... wanna giv him a verbal lashing 4 not only leading by xample
Allah said such things are a sin and people who do it get sinned, i'm not making the judgement... you are!
yes allah is merciful, but treating allah as if he's something that can be decieved n tricked isn't an easy thing, i don't think you feel sorry for people who will enter hell over sins!! you talk as if you think hell is somethign real easy 2 go thru and ppl should be free to feel the experiecne!!!!!
salam
you know i can honestly say from experience that this is soooo not true, at least not for me anyway, almost everytime i have made a change for the better was because so one told me to, and encouraged me to, not because i just saw them doing it.
you just have to warn ppl and tell them or else they will be clueless and just continue sinning as if nothing is wrong cos its never brought to their attention.
to the thread starter, keep at it, be strong but smart and direct at the same time and never forget the hell fire that God has promised those who do not deserve his mercy
ffended: the prophet is our example!! of course we refer back to him!
Never forget that God's mercy and gentleness superceeds his punishment.
فَذَكِّرْ إِنَّمَا أَنتَ مُذَكِّرٌ {21}
[Pickthal 88:21] Remind them, for thou art but a remembrancer,
لَّسْتَ عَلَيْهِم بِمُصَيْطِرٍ {22}
[Pickthal 88:22] Thou art not at all a warder over them.
with that, I bid you well
.... i think we alllll agree that she should keep it up and encourage her friend to get off her bad habits inshaAllah
ameenI hope that you have or marry a patient good wife inshallah. Because, I personally don't find gentleness nor patience to be in your traits.:rollseyes
take care inshallah
my patience trainin ground ... ill get there eventually...:hiding:
thank u every1 for ur advice, helps a lot. may allah guide us all to the right path n forgive us n make us strong in our ability to advice n see wrong from right
my friend wasnt watching somethin good, it was some kind of horror flick n she watches heaps of movies n tv shows and stuff, listens to cheap western music 2, da otha day she mentioned she wanted 2 watch some romance movie yuk, why would i tell her off for watching a good documentary? dats not even a movie in da 1st place
I guess it depends on what it is you do with the cocaine? Cocaine like lidocaine and benzocaine can be used as an anesthetic for surgeries. it is a poweful vaso-constrictor so can be used in neck and face surgery as it reduces bleeding and numbs the pain! So I hope that puts a dent in lots of theories? you can use a knife to kill someone and again you can use it excise a tumor? You can use TV to watch porn, and you can use it to expand your knowledge. You can use the inernet for evil and you can use it for good! Please try to establish some middle ground.
it would be my pleasure. But I am humbled by all your knowledge and I don't think I can hold a candle to you.
Thank you. How so very kind!
Again! Thank God for your presence. We need you to remind us
...but anyways......you're not being pushy, but trying to help her come out of her darkness
it would be my pleasure. But I am humbled by all your knowledge and I don't think I can hold a candle to you.
Thank you. How so very kind!
Again! Thank God for your presence. We need you to remind us