My hate for Black people

[AhlaamBella]

One filled with such racism and hatred is turning to this forum on how to remove such racism and hatred from his heart, he isn't exactly justifying his feelings he's asking for help to remove them.

I would understand your anger if he was justifying it and promoting it, but he acknowledges there's a problem with in himself and he wants to remove it.

do you dislike a man cos he admits he has a sickness and is seeking a cure?

rather offer him a solution to his problem and make dua to Allah to cure him and guide him.

It isn't his problem I am angered with. It is his way of telling it. The post itself was filled with hatred and annoyance. The was straight up and raw.

He could have said there are some black people he hates because of the way he has been treated by them and that had made him apprehensive and wary of other black people.

It's all about method of delivery not what is being delivered.

EDIT: I have offered advice and have made dua at the same time as saying what needs to be said. This attitude is wrong. I said play surah Al-Baqarah and recite the 3 Quls.

Maybe even go through a Ruqya session.

 

[cat eyes]

around about 4or 5years ago i had extreme hate for pakistani people

due to the stories that i had heard and to the stuff which had happened in U.k

it just made my blood boil when i saw one. i never judged the religion, i judged them.. i know that theres terrorists in most countries including mine and i knew well enough this had nothing to do with religion and the reason why there killing people!

Well after a while when i had reverted and everything, i met pakistani people and i realised they were not all the same and now most of my friends are pakistani.

so all im saying sister is dont judge every black person because to be honest with you thats what you are exactly doing and you know as well as i do, its not right, do you need anybody to tell you that really??

there will be ignorance of every color, do u know i still meet ignorant pakistani's but i know there not all like that.:wa:

 

[noorseeker]

Ok ive been following this thread

First of all have i seen all the things the OP has mentioned, Answer is yes i have
But this by no means they are all like this, Ive Always found my self defending Black people or pakistani people for that instance.

Its more to do with the younger black generation, ive asked black people about this ,
I see a lot of young black men so full of anger , getting in to gangs and what not,
May be because of the oppression they suffered in the past, they have a need to defend them selves, some do get angry very quickly

I white guy at work said he dont want anymore blacks at work , because from his experience they walk around with a chip on their shoulder, some do some dont

Theres a black guy at work, but when he speaks hes soft as a teddy bear.

Black people same as asian people have a lot wrong in their culture, that they need to work on.

So to the OP poster, you need to meet different black people in your life for this hate to disappear. Avoid the ganster type of people

 

[Seeker1066]

Sorry this may seem quite rude and I sincerely apologise if it causes any offense to anyone.

I absolutely loathe black people and their extremely rude and arrogant attitude. I don’t know how to stop hating them so much. They make me so angry, I know hate is a bit strong but I honestly hate their guts, they make me sick!!! :heated:

I work with quite a lot of them and ever since I’ve been here I get b*tching and backstabbing left right and centre. The managers are Asian and they get scared of black people because they are so rude and they feel like they can’t do anything about it.

Even when I am driving they make me so angry, they think the roads belong to their dad and they don’t care if someone dies in the process. They barge past people and don’t even apologise. They give so much attitude and think its ok but when you give a tiny bit back all hell breaks loose.

How do I stop hating them so much? Please help someone. My hate for them is so extreme and I don’t want to be a horrible person. imsad

Malcom Little was a petty criminal when he was exposed to Black Muslim teaching(Nation of Islam). He was taught that White people were Devils created by a mad scientist to torture black people. We all know Malcom X as the Charismatic voice of Black anger in the 60's United States. What saved this man from the hate of the White Devils?? The Hajj saved Malcom. It was in Mecca on the pilgrimage that his hate was softened by walking shoulder to shoulder with Muslims of all Races and all Cultures. True Islam freed Malcom X to become El-Hajj Malik El-Shabazz. He died a Martyr for Islam's teaching that all men were created by Allah.

I suggest you also remember that Allah created all men. Remember that injustice exists because all men remain unreunited in Islam. than you will see hate begin to die and peace reign.

Peace to all

 

[MuslimahBlue]

I'm just going to ignore all the ignorant posts on this thread, seems like people are just coming on here to post and cry about all their bad experiences with Black people, get over it, their are "bad" people in every racial group, I could have a lot to say about Pakistanis for example but I won't because that would probably start a riot..

My sincere apologies to you all. I understand how much disgust I have caused by posting this and I am truly sorry. Please forgive me. imsad

I shouldn’t stereotype I know that. I want to stop these feelings because I am stooping to the same level as shaytan and I want to be a good person. That’s why I asked for help. I do have extreme hate for the people who make me feel like this, I can’t help it and I’m so very sorry that it disgusts you.

My hate for them started when I got mugged twice by a bunch of them. I had a child with me (not mine) but they did not care that the child would be traumatized after seeing what they did. Now that child is petrified of black people and holds my hand very tightly everytime they walk past.

I know for a fact that all black people are not like this, but I can’t help thinking like this when I see them. The ones I work with are very very rude and racist towards Asians and it makes me feel worse. Only the other day a black lady at work was reading a newspaper, she forgot that I was sitting nearby and while reading the paper she referred to someone in there as a ‘psycho’ just because he happened to be Muslim. These were her exact words, ‘oh he’s Muslim, he must be a psycho aswell .” :raging:

I am referring to non-muslim black people who have a lot of hatred in them and they do not consider other peoples feelings.

I try to calm myself down because I know other races are not perfect but then I see something else that upsets me. Things on crimewatch and on the news when they report muggings and murder, majority of the time it turns out to be black people. Then my hate starts again.

I don’t know what to do, I manage to calm myself and then it starts. I am disappointed in myself yet can’t help the way I feel. I just want some advice on how to deal with rude and aggressive behaviour.

As hard as it sounds, you need to wipe that hatred out of your heart, just make some serious du'a because its not good to have those kind of racist feelings. Stop refering to black people as "they", their not one entity and when you do face a bad situation look at the person as an individual not just their race.

Maybe the black people at your workplace are being aggressive because you guys will not say anything back, from your posts you say that all the Asians at your workplace are basically scared of their black co-workers and when you know someone is scared of you, you are more likely to try and get away with things. I would suggest for you to set your limits in terms of what behaviours you will accept, when that woman said that Muslims are psyco;s, did you say anything back, or did you just sit there? You should say something shes not just a randomn person on the street but someone you work with everyday and try to let her know that her beliefs about Muslims are wrong,

 

[AnonymousPoster]

I could have a lot to say about Pakistanis for example but I won't because that would probably start a riot..

What's wrong with Pakistani people? Just surious why a few people have mentioned 'pakistani' and not 'bengali' or 'Indian' for instance. (by the way I am not the OP)

 

[happy]

Firstly,It is rude to to say all black people are bad.
Secondly if black people are lacking manner that doesn't mean they are all bad.
Thirdly i'm black and i'm not like what you mention so some people might have something that they are bad at it doesn't mean we are all bad.

 

[happy]

Anyway everyone make mistake and if your intention is ood then Allah will guide you but you have to remember one things and that is not to generalize and this is the only shatan trying to make you bad person. So seek forgiveness.

 

[M.I.A.]

guess we all disgust somebody, but as long as your hating the action rather than the person its all good.
lol easy to say and hard to do i know but thats how you represent.

 

[Periwinkle18]

i guess u should just pray wen eva u see them ask Allah to soften ur heart black ppl arnt tht bad some are really really nice, not everyone is the same if someone has an attitude prob just ignore it think abt ur self first thts wht my mums says wen eva i talk abt someones faults.just pray to ALLAH and remember everyones equal

 

[$tranger]

SubhanAllah...

I find it DISGUSTING how some people have responded to the persons cry for help. The brother/sister is AWARE they have this illness/problem/disease (WHATEVER you want to call it) and is SIMPLYING asking for help. :heated:
Yes, it wasn't the best way to ask for help :hmm:

I am not saying they are correct in what they have said, but common guys ^o)

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As far as advice is concerned. Try spending more time with these people and find some muslim brothers/sister from this reace a spend time with them. and make Dua' (of course)

 

[aamirsaab]

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