well thanks for a positive response!
but yes i have accepted it all my life pretty much, then got lots of positive attention and it was great.
Oh Allah, please grant me a great match/potential ASAP inshallah.
You seem to gravitate towards doing that so easily <_< But you do have the advantage of asking for marriage...whereas women have to wait to be asked and if they're not good looking and old then 
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interesting - my experience has been the COMPLETE opposite! you have no idea sister!!
as for desperation etc... - not at all. I've been patient, very patient. Then of course someone came which was great...and unfortunately left (or fortunately). Now trying to do things the right way and it's proving so much difficult. For instance easier meeting people (even though I got rejected) who are not Muslim but then even trying to engage in a simple conversation causes rejection to me because I am just not physically attractive.
I am not fat or overweight - I am just right, thankfully. Short hair, no beard or facial hair (I like to keep it clean if possible).
Allah - help me
use your connections and inshallah you will find someone, ask trust worthy ppl (close friends) abt ur appearance maybe you can change something that you don't see about yourself.
Assalamualaikum, brother.The other challenge is that it seems too many people are focused on looks/appearance. I am not the most attractive person and have been pretty much rejected for most of my life
Without going into too much detail - there was one person who thought a lot of me and it felt great but sadly/fortunately that is no more. And that's the struggle these days - finding someone who looks beyond the appearance and also keeping it halal
whereas women have to wait to be asked and if they're not good looking and old then
Assalamualaikum, brother.
There is difference between handsome and good looking. Handsome man indeed, look good. But good looking man is not always handsome. A man who is not handsome can be look good if he has impressive personality that reflected in his attitude, and make people have good impression on him.
I have ever analyzed photo of a brother who always rejected. He is not handsome, indeed. Just average, but he has neatly appearance. However, I saw his expression was very rigid. I noticed this rigidity in his eyes. It shows his personality, which he has low confidence when interact with people. Then I compared his photo with an ustadz who is not handsome, but has friendly personality that reflected in his smile and attitude, and it makes him look good.
Probably the cause why you always rejected is because you looked rigid when you interact with other people, face to face.
My advice for you is build your personality. Always be generous toward the others. Raise up your empathy. Empathy will make you become a person who has good attention toward the others. People can feel it, and it will make them have good impression on you. Raise up your confidence. Do not thinking that you will not accepted by someone. But always believe, if you are willing to accept someone, then there will be someone who will accept you. Learn to understand and accept someone.
If you have personality like this, people will have good impression on you. And In Shaa Allah, someone will accept you.
Don't give up,okay?.
