^^ I hope u didnt take offense with my post...i noticed u didnt answer the questions. I assure u they are genuine.
No, I didn't take offence at all.

I've just been busy, that's all.
You have to realise that I am a working woman with a husband and two children - so time isn't always freely available!

On top of that, people here sometimes ask very difficult questions or make challenging statements, which aren't always easy or even possibly to reply to.
I find that I have to go away to
read things up, or
pray about things, or
ponder questions, or
just put things on the shelf for a while, because I don't know a reply ...
I am not a scholar or theologian, so I tend to give my personal understanding of things, not necessarily the most knowledgeable reply ...
As it happens, your questions are difficult to answer:
so basically u just need to read the bible to be a practicing chrisitian? what about following it?
Of course you have to follow the Bible message.
1) You need to read the Bible to understand about Jesus' life, the purpose of his life and death and his message to mankind.
2) You need to fellowship with other Christians to remain focused in God's word. Otherwise it would be all too easy to drift off into another 'God-told-me-to...thinking'. Furthermore, Jesus told us to gather in his name:
For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them." (Matthew 18:12)
3) You need to be willing to live every day of your life for God, to surrender to his will and purpose. The act of baptism is seen as a symbol of 'dying to yourself (i.e. your own desires and wishes) and starting a 'new life' for God.
4) You should pray and be in communication with God daily.
So what does the bible stipulate for u to be a practicing chrisitan? eg, what does it say about fasting, methods of prayer, gambling, adultry etc.
The Bible has much to say about how people should conduct themselves.
But, seen from a Muslim perspective, it must be said that
the Bible is by no means as clear-cut and directive as the Qu'ran is.
At the most basic level, Jesus condensed all of God's laws into this:
"You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets."(Matthew 22:37-40)
Of course these are not the only commands to Christians, but somehow all others tie into those two
The Bible is quite clear on issues such as gambling, adultery, murder etc ...
In terms of fasting and methods of prayer, it is less prescriptive, and
consequently there are many varietions amongst different denominations, and amongst individuals.
To give you a personal example, I pray daily, usually at least three times (morning, lunch time and night). If I don't manage that or don't find the time, that's fine. I haven't broken any 'law', because there wasn't one in the first place.
The prayer I offer to God, I offer out of joy and gratitude, not because it has been stipulated to me.
If I am praying for specific situations, or I feel God has put a certain issue onto my heart, I may choose to pray on an hourly basis for a certain amount of time. Again, not because there is a rule that says I should, but because I feel the desire to do so.
Now, all that's just me - ask 10 other Christians and they may tell you 10 different things.
Dosent it say what would make u a christian and what would make u a non christian?
Despite all the differences between the different denominations, Christians all have these things in common:
They have
put their faith and trust in the person of Jesus Christ, and
they believe that he died on the cross as payment for sins and
rose again on the third day to obtain victory over death and t
o give eternal life to all who believe in him.
“But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name.” (John 1:12)
They consider themselves to be children of God, a part of God’s true family, those who have been given new life in Christ. The mark of a Christian is love for others and obedience to God’s Word.
I hope this answers some of your questions

Please feel free to ask some more, as long as you are patient with my replies (as explained above!)
Peace
