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JσℓιєFℓєυя;984022 said:
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.... same member just PM'ed me telling me a bro had been PM'ing her too...
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sis , pl. forward the brother's pm to bro W or other mod & request them to take action .
 
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IbnAbdulHakim said:
lol mashaAllaah.


lol @ muslim woman ;D
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huh...I am serious. Ok , posting links again :statisfie





And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves,



that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between



your hearts. Undoubtedly, in these are signs for those who reflect."



(Quran 30:21)
 
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i wouldnt really promote those sites, dont they encourage men and women to talk without mahrams around? :|


i might be wrong but i heard some of them encourage that wallahu a'lam
 
So what about the sisters who pm brothers not for personal details but to constantly ask for help regarding their I.T issues (we gotta have control on that too)!

Im joking :) if a sister needs help no matter how much they ask ,inshallah we should still help
 
^ pm'ing for help is a completely different issue and im sure the mods are checking to make sure no hanky panky takes place :)
 
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masha Allaah great reminder sis, jazakillaahu khayran :)
 
As Salaam Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu

Well, I do impressed some of members' good advices in here and it is well-worth for it!

Please listen to good advices and Allah is watching. :phew
 
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good thread.

its ok to ask for help, this box called the computer does strange things sometimes and especially when you loose data you want to mutilate someone :raging: ....this will kill me to say it....im choking *coughthebrothers arebetteratcomputerscough* , so thats why we ask for help,


and i agree on keeping it to the point, sisters dont mind when its to the point, but when people think this is shaadi.com :raging: im going to start fowarding my pm's to the admins/mods, but i believe everyone deserves a fair chance the first tym, to correct themselves.

A muslims should be firm but forgiving and patient too. :) We should keep that in mind.

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JazakAllah khayr for replies, lol @ Muslim woman...I was kiddin about matrimonial sites, but it saddens me when brothers use this forum as one. SubhanAllah just DONTTTT! :skeleton: But yeah...lets not promote rubbish like matrimonial sites either.

Ameen to all the du'aas

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JσℓιєFℓєυя;983909 said:
Brothers - For the sake of Allah (swt) please do not PM sisters without reason, ok you may need help (maybe once in a while, its very possible)....but think for a moment, maybe a brother could help you with the same thing? huh...? Just think insha'Allah, and if you really do need to PM a sis, keep it short and to the point.
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You are right sister..I agree 100%

Jazaki Allahu khayran sister

Subhan Allah ! Fitnah happens even in the case of ( with reason )

Fitnah happens even in the public threads and replys

its the nature of man and woman whenever they interact. may Allah guide our hearts and hide them from fitan
 
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salam alaikum,

:skeleton::skeleton::skeleton:really oh gosh sorry but im a bit surprised i didnt know that this sort of stuff would happen here, but sis jolie is right remember that Allah swt is forever watching and fear His wrath, if you make a mistake or fall into error then repent and dont do it again Insha'Allah.

ma salama
 
If its not in any way intimate - I don't see the problem - considering we are distant to eachother. I mean, most things are unlikely to cause zina - the chances are too small to completly call for a hall to PM'ing.
 
^ YEAH you are right,the thread is mashallah a good reminder but the way the sister said "Brothers - For the sake of Allah (swt) please do not PM sisters without reason" its as if theres some sort of intimate pm's epidemic ,for me it might be a bit exaggerated
 
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SixTen said:
- I don't see the problem - . .
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why take unnecessary risk ??? We must always be careful about Satan & must not give him any chance to make us think that there is / will be no problem. How can we be so sure that there will be no problem ??
 
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why take unnecessary risk ??? We must always be careful about Satan & must not give him any chance to make us think that there is / will be no problem. How can we be so sure that there will be no problem ??
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By analyzing the issue. Personally, I think it is exaggeration/over the top to treat PM'ing, to that of a man and woman alone in the same room.
 
i think the intentions is way more important, if it is dne with the intention to flatter the sster and in a flirtatious way then sisters i am sure you can ell, if not then it is being exaggerated.
 
I think wat 2 grown up individuals do in pms is their business n none of ours to be frank.

We shudnt be soo suspicious. We should only worry about our own deeds.

Jzk
 
Yanoorah said:
I think wat 2 grown up individuals do in pms is their business n none of ours to be frank.

We shudnt be soo suspicious. We should only worry about our own deeds.

Jzk
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lol agreed... how else are we gonna have LI weddings! lolllllllllllll!
 
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