Problems with western schools and system

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Assalamu-alaikum all,

I think some of us are missing the point here.

Firstly - yes, it would be generalising to say that those who chose not to home-school their kids, are being lazy.
As mentioned - theres many reasons that prevent this.

As Ive mentioned - probably your best bet would be to find a UNISEX, preferably Islamic school (if available in your vicinity).....if not, then a UNISEX non-muslim school.....these would be first prizes in this situation.

The reality is, that many fitnahs that occur behind school walls - occur as a result of free, unlimited intermingling between the sexes.
And considering that kids are maturing at a much younger age today (physically, psychologically, possessing detailed knowledge of sexual-related matters well before their teens in many cases) - this becomes important not just in high school, but also at the juniour levels.

Secondly - brothers and sisters, we need to realise that we are fast approaching the end of times.
Most of the minor sign have already occured - yes?

And so, there will be a time (and some may argue that we are already in this period) where we need to reflect on this hadith:

Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 88 :: Hadith 210


Narrated Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri:
Allah's Apostle said, "There will come a time when the best property of a Muslim will be sheep which he will take to the tops of mountains and the places of rainfall so as to flee with his religion from the afflictions."


Are we not already at this period?
Thats for you to decide......

So, for those who are trying to withdraw step by step out of this society and way of life - there are good reasons behind this.

But, we do realise, the challenges that face us in achieving this.
We do realise that this world is not perfect, that we cant protect ourselves or our kids, completely from the fitnahs that are lashing at us everyday.

All we can do is try.....and place your trust in Allah (subhana wataála).

Salaam
 
As Ive mentioned - probably your best bet would be to find a UNISEX, preferably Islamic school (if available in your vicinity).....if not, then a UNISEX non-muslim school.....these would be first prizes in this situation.

The reality is, that many fitnahs that occur behind school walls - occur as a result of free, unlimited intermingling between the sexes.

A unisex school is a mixed school though :S
 
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Queens girl Alexa Gonzalez hauled out of school in handcuffs after getting caught doodling on desk

BY Rachel Monahan - February 4th 2010

A 12-year-old Queens girl was hauled out of school in handcuffs for an artless offense - doodling her name on her desk in erasable marker, the Daily News has learned.

Alexa Gonzalez was scribbling a few words on her desk Monday while waiting for her Spanish teacher to pass out homework at Junior High School 190 in Forest Hills, she said.

"I love my friends Abby and Faith," the girl wrote, adding the phrases "Lex was here. 2/1/10" and a smiley face.

But instead of simply cleaning off the doodles after class, Alexa landed in some adult-sized trouble for using her lime-green magic marker.

She was led out of school in cuffs and walked to the precinct across the street, where she was detained for several hours, she and her mother said.

"I started crying, like, a lot," said Alexa. "I made two little doodles. ... It could be easily erased. To put handcuffs on me is unnecessary." Alexa, who had a stellar attendance record, hasn't been back to school since, adding, "I just thought I'd get a detention. I thought maybe I would have to clean [the desk]."

"She's been throwing up," said her mom, Moraima Camacho, 49, an accountant, who lives with her daughter in Kew Gardens. "The whole situation has been a nightmare."

City officials acknowledged Alexa's arrest was a mistake.

"We're looking at the facts," said City Education Department spokesmanDavid Cantor. "Based on what we've seen so far, this shouldn't have happened."

"Even when we're asked to make an arrest, common sense should prevail, and discretion used in deciding whether an arrest or handcuffs are really necessary," said police spokesman Paul Browne.

Alexa is the latest in a string of city students who have been cuffed for minor infractions. In 2007, 13-year-old Chelsea Fraser was placed under arrest for writing "okay" on her desk at Intermediate School 201. And in 2008, 5-year-old Dennis Rivera was cuffed and sent to a psych ward after throwing a fit in his kindergarten.

A class action lawsuit was filed by the
New York Civil Liberties Union last month against the city for using "excessive force" in middle school and high schools. A 12-year-old sixth-grader, identified in the lawsuit as M.M., was arrested in March 2009 for doodling on her desk at the Hunts Point School.

Alexa is still suspended from her school, her mother said. She and her mom went to family court on Tuesday, where Alexa was assigned eight hours of community service, a book report and an essay on what she learned from the experience.

"I definitely learned not to ever draw on a desk," said Alexa. "They told me with a pencil this could still happen."


 
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“What’s Wrong With Having Sex With Your Teacher?”

Sex in school and with teachers is a fact of life, say schoolgirls, who happily share the details of their intimate encounters as though they were recalling what happened in class.

An experienced 14-year-old girl, beguilingly conservative looking with undyed hair and a low hem, is blunt in conversation with an Asahi Weekly reporter:

“What’s wrong with loving your teacher? At the moment, I’m dating mine.”
She speaks proudly of her precocious conquest of a teacher in his thirties, who she describes as “cool”:

“I finally did it with my teacher a while back. On Valentine’s, we met at night, and I told him ‘take me instead of the chocolate’ – we had sex in the car then and there. He was actually my second but I told him he was my first.”

She describes how teachers and students often exchange mails, and that this actually led to her own relationship:

“That evening I got a reply – ‘is it ok to start a relationship we can never tell anyone about?’ Of course I immediately replied ‘OK.’

It seems he had other pupils, but he stopped it with them. He said ‘I liked you from first glance.’ Delightful. Having this secret together really gets my heart racing.”

Daring encounters in school itself were not uncommon; she recalls proudly how after class the couple would kiss in school, and even touch in class itself at times.

“I was breathless and my chest was tight in those wonderful moments.”
One middle-school teacher speaks candidly of his trials in the face of the budding womanhood of his charges:

“Middle school girls these days are really mature. Of course it varies with the individual, but when I was a schoolboy there were 1-2 sexy girls in the whole year. Now there are 10 ‘womanly’ girls in each class. They’ll innocently ask ‘when did sir first do it?’ and ‘when was your first kiss?’ Honestly, it’s hard to maintain control.”

Another girl, 15, speaks of her activities with fellow students, again coordinated by mail:

“My boyfriend asks me so we do it every day at school. Usually in the morning. Last night I had a mail asking ‘shall we do it tomorrow morning?’ I said sure, we went to school early and did it on the classroom veranda. Sometimes I get mails asking to do it after school when I’m still in class.”
She says of all this that:

“H is proof of how much you love each other. He likes me too, so he wants to do it all the time too.”

Such love is common – she estimates a quarter of her classmates are sexually active.

Yet another girl, 14, explains how she is happy to help out her boyfriend:
“He’s in the same school as me. When the chime goes off he seems to get hard, so when he can’t stand it we go off to the toilets at break and I get him off.”

Far from having to put up with this, she happily takes the lead and actively invites to the toilets, she says.

Tales of schoolgirl sex are usually presented as “a sign of the times,” with the insinuation that youthful sex is in some way unnatural or undesirable, but in fact statistics seem to show the proportion of sexually active schoolgirls has been stable for some time.

One official with a sex education foundation does however explain that high rates of mobile phone ownership amongst such schoolgirls are thought to be making it easier for girls to maintain intimate (or indeed, commercial) relationships, due to the ease and privacy of such communication.

Similarly, though middle and elementary schools teach about pregnancy but not sex, where schools are silent the Internet speaks volumes.

Indeed, under such circumstances it is perhaps more surprising that sexual activity amongst the youth of Japan has remained so stable.

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American Teacher rapes over 40 schoolgirls


An American teaching English in Japan has been arrested for sexually assaulting at least 40 schoolgirls, videotaping himself abusing them in over 600 tapes. He admits to raping one elementary school girl because she “pestered” him, and explains his indecent filming as “creating a record of their transition to adulthood for them.”

The 69-year-old English teacher, an American long term resident of Fukuoka prefecture, was reportedly initially arrested in January on suspicion of indecently assaulting an elementary schooler whom he had been teaching in a classroom he operated at his home.

Police launched an investigation in response, soon uncovering evidence that he had assaulted another pupil some years ago, charges he admitted, saying “she was pestering me so I did her.”

Police searched his residence, finding over 600 videotapes. Analysing the contents of the confiscated tapes, they found evidence that the teacher had assaulted at least 40 schoolgirls over a 10 year period, most of whom appeared to be in elementary school.

He explained to police that he was “creating a record of their transition from childhood to adulthood to show to them later.”

His modus operandi was to call the girls to his home on some pretext, such as holding a “study session,” and then contrive to film them there. He secured their silence by telling them “Keep this a secret or your parents and teacher will be arrested.”


Police found no evidence he had been selling the tapes, suggesting they were for personal use.

He faces charges of rape, indecent assault and manufacturing child pornography. Police investigations continue.

English teachers in Japan, generally unqualified and completely unregulated, have a reputation for being scurrilous womanisers who substitute the colour of their skin for actual teaching qualifications, although cases of them actually molesting schoolgirls are rare, especially compared to the blighted state of the Japanese teaching profession.

Their already dubious reputation seems unlikely to improve in light of this incident, however.



Old is age is no excuse to believe a man is not dangerous. And you see the "white" skin color being given privilege over qualification by the inferiority complexed races! Modern eastern schools are crawling with westerners, especially whites. Go online and look at any arab schol in middle east, all the teachers are white. Sadly, even in the west the so called "isalmic" schools are crawling with whites and very few minority teachers, hardly any blacks at that!

http://aajooba.webs.com/
 
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Prostitution rampant in Japanese Schools, Prices Below $35

Jul 5, 2009

Prostitution is said to be rampant in Japanese schools, with schoolgirls of ever younger ages selling their bodies for extra spending money, both to adults and amongst themselves.

Prices for girls in elementary school are said to have dropped below $35, leading some to wonder what has and will become of the nation’s public morals…

In many cases the prostitution is conducted through “deai-kei” sites, often relationship focused BBSes designed for use with mobile phones.

In one illustrative case, a middle school boy pimped out a thirteen-year-old girl for over $670 in total using such a site, whilst other schoolgirls used the site to sell their bodies themselves.

With these sites facilitating enjo kousai (“compensated dating”) to an unprecedented degree, a whole culture (or industry) of schoolgirl prostitution has sprung up, with girls being called “JC” in the slang of the sites, and with the large amounts of money involved encouraging involvement in the trade.

In a similar case to the above, a boy in middle school is said to have advertised “Recruiting JC in Kanagawa. You can make a lot so anyone looking for dates come to me,” and to have pimped out a 16-year-old girl for about $450.

Such prices are said to be the exception rather than the rule, and prices drop even further when pupils engage in prostitution amongst themselves, or when they are younger, with high school students selling themselves to one another for a paltry $35, and middle school pupils charging even less.

These sites have been subjected to increased police scrutiny amidst a major police crackdown, but it appears that many sites have no difficulty in operating discretely without police supervision posing a problem.

Nationwide filtering of children’s access to the Internet is touted as a solution, and is now in effect, but it seems this rather underestimates the ingenuity of such children, particularly when large amounts of money are at stake.

The girls selling their bodies in this way have apparently been getting younger and younger, with elementary schoolers now increasingly turning to prostitution as an easy way of accumulating pocket money; an account of which is provided by the clinic:

“The age at which kids are getting into sex is getting lower. Even girls in middle school are becoming very sexually active. A high school boy came in recently with a second year middle school girl recently, and the pair had been sexually active. The boy asked me to tell his friend about STDs, although at least she was with a good boy.”

However, promotion of condoms has apparently kept pregnancies to a minimum. Even so, some girls are blasé about the matter, and are happy to be pregnant. Even teachers are said to turn a blind eye to pregnancies rather than have to get involved.

Additionally, sexually transmitted diseases appear to be making an impact. Disturbing reports from healthcare professionals indicate that in some clinics, up to 30% of patients were in their teens.

One case is described in lurid detail:
“There was a girl in the fifth year of elementary school who was doing enjo kousai (casual prostitution), she was a groupie for talents. Her pantsu (panties) were always soiled [with blood], and she kept coming in with Chlamydia.”

The clinic staff warned her to stop having sex, but she persisted, and kept returning. Eventually she stopped visiting the clinic entirely.

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Amongst university students the practice of such informal prostitution is said to be even more common; Japan’s womanhood has at some point apparently became a mass commodity, and it is difficult to see any reasons why this should be the case, at least ones more helpful than “because they are harlots”.

It does however seem the traditional approach of only blaming the men (and boys) involved, and then subjecting them to criminal sanction, has only created a culture where schoolgirls boldly hawk themselves with impunity.

Possibly it may be time to consider why it is these girls are so ready to sell themselves for additional pocket money, and whether it is indeed appropriate to absolve them of all responsibility for their actions…

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13-Year-Old Prostitutes herself for $30

A man (38) who engaged in indecent acts with a 13-year-old middle-schooler in a department store toilet, for the price of $30, has been arrested.

He is said to have promised the girl the $30, though we do not hear just what level of service he received; whatever it was, it was enough to get him arrested on child prostitution charges.

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Virgins Rare in Japan’s Lusty Schools


Otaku are struggling to come to terms with their enforced celibacy after recent surveys revealed that half of all third year high schoolers were no longer virgins, marking them as even more abnormal than they thought.
The surveys conducted by Japan’s Family Planning Association revealed that 47.3% of boys and 46.5% of girls had some experience of sex by their third year of high school, which coupled with results from other age groups shows a general trend towards sex at earlier ages.

However, observers were puzzled by the 40% decrease in sexual aspirations amongst younger children since the last time the survey was conducted in 1999; now it seems 31% of boys and 14% of girls in their third year of middle school “would like to try” sex, which could either mean their sexual ambitions have decreased, or possibly that they have already tried…
In spite of all this, a disturbing 15% of boys and 18% of girls agreed with the propositions that “it’s best not to have sex” (which bodes ill for the Japanese race) and “sex is best left until marriage” (which in Japan will usually mean waiting until their thirties).

Online reactions range from “I won’t accept it!” to “It seems healthy that there is no great gap between the sexes here”, and of course the blustering “We should be proud that we made it this far as virgins!”

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Pedophile videotapes himself having sex with a 9 year old

A man (21), arrested for his amorous antics with a twelve-year-old girl, had an interesting defense for his actions – he thought she was nine.

Police investigations revealed the man to have been introduced to the girl, in her first year of middle school, by a male acquaintance who knew her.
They met at a hotel, and there the man filmed himself having sex with girl, and saved the movie to his computer.

Police received an anonymous tipoff that the girl student had been involved in this, and on conducting searches of the contents of her phone, found it contained incriminating images, at which point they arrested their man.

As a result of all this, he was charged with both obscene acts and making child pornography. His admission was enlightening: “I thought the girl was a 9-year-old.”

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Pedophile arrested in $50 3-way teen Car Sex

A man who paid two 14-year-old schoolgirls to have a threesome with him in his car for $55 has been arrested.

The 22-year-old unemployed man, a resident of Fukuoka prefecture, apparently got in touch with the two middle schoolers after they began looking to hawk their bodies on a mobile phone dating site.

With the girls apparently seeking some easy money through enjo kousai (casual prostitution), and he looking for underage sex, he offered them a ride, and the trio later had sex together, with the main paying $55 for both girls.

However, the father of one of the girls began to suspect she was engaged in prostitution and approached police, who investigated and soon pressed charges against the man for violating anti-child prostitution laws.

Japanese schoolgirls are increasingly selling their virtue as a way of easily making extra cash, but rarely does one of their suitors secure them so cheaply, with $28 each being a great bargain compared to some, and one of the cheapest prices yet seen for a youthful Yamato maiden.


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University Defends Gang Rapists, Ignores Victim

Jun 4, 2009

A university has attracted almost universal criticism for defending at least six men who gang raped a fellow student, refusing to report them to police on the grounds that “they might commit suicide”.

The crime in question was perpetrated by six students of a Kyoto university, in their early to mid twenties, all of whom have been identified as sports specialists (including football).


The men took turns raping a highly inebriated 19-year-old girl at a drinking party, who had apparently passed out after drinking a large amount of beer. Reportedly, they held the door to the room into which they took the girl shut when a staff member attempted entry, and this aroused suspicions.

The victim reported the rape to the university, which investigated and suspended the perpetrators. It did not bother informing police though.

Police later acted to arrest the six, and all but one denied the crimes, claiming “she wasn’t drunk” and “she consented”. One however admits to the rape and confirms the details established by police.

In addition to the six, several other students are thought to have been present who might have intervened, but did nothing, and police are investigating this.

Whilst the crime itself has been given much coverage by the media, the astonishingly lenient response of the university has attracted equal attention, virtually all condemnatory.

The university first conducted an internal investigation, which concluded that “indecent acts” had indeed taken place. However, they did not report the matter to police, instead opting to merely suspend the rapists.

The university head explained that, had the case been made public, “the perpetrators might be in danger of committing suicide,” and due to these “educational considerations” they were not even expelled, and excused itself further by saying that it was not sure whether a rape had actually taken place, although it did not reveal details of its “investigations”.

He later defended his leniency further to students: “It was a heinous act which trampled on her rights. I wish to raise awareness of human rights, and for you all to reflect on this case. Maybe I’ll be called soft, but we also have a duty to allow these offenders to reform and go out into society at large,” referring to their suspension rather than expulsion.

It seems their victim will be expected to continue attending the same university as her rapists, assuming any of them manage to return to university in timely fashion after serving any ensuing sentences.
The reaction to the case, in particular the handling of the rapists by the university, has been one of outrage, with most observers concerned that the university is more concerned about protecting the perpetrators than it is about what appears to be a very clear example of a crime.


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University Let Gang Rapist Teach at School

Jun 5, 2009
The controversy over the recent mishandling of a case of gang rape amongst its students by a Kyoto university has intensified with the news that one of the rapists had just started working as a middle school teacher, and the university apparently deliberately refrained from reporting that they investigated him (which they did not report to police) so he could continue working as a teacher.

The university, the Kyoto University of Education, trains teachers, and amongst those arrested recently for gang raping a fellow student at the university recently was a fresh graduate who had just started working at a local middle school.

He had apparently just started working as an assistant teacher at the school after receiving his licence, but after the details of his participation in the crime emerged the university not only did not report him to police, it did not even inform the local educational board about him.

Considering the remarks of the university head, it seems likely this was done to protect his career, and most likely also the reputation of the university. Whether the university took this into account in refraining from bringing in police at all is an open question.

With the media storm which ensued, the university finally decided to report that he had been suspended (although it seems he managed to graduate and start work despite being suspended months ago all the same) to the educational board. The teacher then immediately resigned, “for personal reasons.”

It seems the number one target for reducing sex crimes in Japan should be the teaching profession, as it looks to be packed with rapists, voyeurs and pedophiles…


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Professor Groped Thousands of Breasts Using Logic

Jan 14, 2009

A university professor (62), who taught logic, over a twenty year period called over a thousand of his female students to his office, where he would beguile them with logic into allowing him to fondle their breasts.

He used the same argument each time, and only recently did a student manage to see through it, resulting in his arrest.

His technique was bizarre, but highly logical:
First the professor would call his chosen students to his office, for a lesson in logic:

“I can touch you without laying so much as a finger on you” he would say.
The perplexed students would naturally tend to respond “Impossible.”
If they did, he would follow through with “If I can’t do it, I’ll give you ¥1,000. (US $11)”

If the student agreed to the “wager”, he would immediately pull out his wallet, hand them a ¥1,000 note, and then begin brazenly fondling their breasts.

Those students who complained of sexual harassment or worse, he would silence with the following line of argument: “As you in fact gave verbal assent to the contract and accepted the ¥1,000 fee, the contract is complete. It’s meaningless to try to take this to court.”

He continued this same tactic for some 20 years without issue, and his victims are thought to number over a thousand. None it seems could overcome his logical arguments, or possessed knowledge of the fact that illegal contracts are unenforceable.

Only recently it seems did a student actually bring this to the attention of the proper authorities; he was soon arrested on charges of indecent assault.

Police are scathing, and are look at adding as many charges as they possibly can: “He abused his knowledge of logic to undertake this dastardly scheme.”
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This unfortunate career of minor infamy certainly place the professor’s reputation in the gutter, but we must also wonder at either the intelligence, or the virtues of his student victims.

Buying his line says little about their wits, whilst settling for a bargain basement groper’s fee of 1,000 also says even less about them…
 
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Sex of any kind can harm teens emotionally

By Amy Norton

Teenagers often suffer emotional consequences from having sex, even when it's "only" oral sex, a study published Monday suggests.

Researchers at the University of California San Francisco found that up to one-half of the sexually active teenagers in their study said they'd ever felt "used," guilty or regretful after having sex.

Though such feelings were less common among teens who'd only had oral sex, about one-third reported some type of negative consequence.

Dr. Sonya S. Brady and Bonnie L. Halpern-Felsher report the findings in the journal Pediatrics.

The study, according to the researchers, suggests that parents should be sure to talk with their kids about the potential negative effects of having oral sex, not only intercourse.

"When parents and teens talk about the consequences of having 'sex,' they may not take the time to define what sex is," Brady and Halpern-Felsher noted in comments to Reuters Health.

"It is important for parents to help teens understand that having oral sex may result in social, emotional and physical health consequences -- just as having vaginal sex may result in these consequences."

In particular, the study found, girls were twice as likely as boys to say they'd ever "felt bad about themselves" after having sex, and three times more likely to say they'd felt used.

Though the study could not look at the reasons for this difference, other studies have noted that there's pressure on girls to at once be sexually attractive yet resist having sex.

"In contrast, boys' sexuality and sexual behavior is generally accepted," Brady and Halpern-Felsher pointed out. "Parents can play an important role in helping to eliminate this double standard by encouraging respect for women and discouraging the use of derogatory sexual terms."

The findings are based on a series of surveys given to 618 students at two public high schools, beginning in ninth grade when they were 14 years old. Of these, 275 reported having oral sex, vaginal sex or both by the spring of tenth grade.

Among the sexually active teens, those who said they'd had only oral sex were generally less likely to report negative consequences, whether physical -- pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections -- or emotional.

SOURCE: Pediatrics, February 2007.
 
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