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Muslimah explain to me what motivates a person from a poorer country want to marry someone from a richer western country. Why would a person leave their country, family, friends and marry a stranger from a far away richer country? Why would they not marry a local person instead with whom they have a lot more in common with? Please explain the driving force behind the reason for marrying someone from a western country?
In Pakistan I think there are 300 million people, why would someone from Pakistan reject so many people in order to marry a foreigner?
You are right Birmingham is full of asian women but sadly most of these women are not religious and have excessive love of money/material. I have met many women but pretty much most of them with the exception of a few are only after a guy with loads of money. They are not interested in a non materialistic man like me. These women were raised in a materialistic capitalistic society and in which money is the god which people worship, even their families are not all that religious. Most asian families have no shame in dealing in riba based mortgages just to buy a house.
When non religious, materialistic families raise children in the capitalist western secular societies, the children for the most part don't end up with good values and principles.
When it comes to standards, it's women in general who have much higher standards than men. If you would like to know the reason why, then please study female hypergamy.
This is a big reason why marriage is dead in the west because women will reject most men because they earn less money than her. This is why a lot of men tend to marry from a poorer country like Pakistan because women are attracted to the higher wealth status of a western man. Women tend to in general marry up the wealth status ladder.
Women in the west are financially well off and independent, therefore they don't need a man to provide for them, and so don't value a man as much as a woman who lives in a poorer country and doesn't have a lot going for her. Women in the west tend to have better paid jobs then most men, therefore they will reject most men who earn less than them.
One of the first questions a woman will always ask a guy, is what he does for a living? She does this to ascertain his wealth status.
The reason why I'm still single is not because I have high standards, it's because sadly most women don't find me financially attractive, I just don't have a big enough bank balance to fund their luxurious lifestyle.
Western feminism and female empowerment has destroyed the value of a man and the family unit. This is one of the biggest reasons that marriage is dead in the west. When gender roles are reversed, then marriage and family dies.
The other reason why it's hard to marry an asian woman in the UK is because most are secular and prefer haram relationships rather than taking on the responsibilities of marriage. Unfortunately are lot of asian women tend to have fun in the best years of their lives, late teens and 20's and then once they have wasted their youth, they tend to look for a nice guy to marry, when she has little to offer a man. We men marry women who are young, youthful and fertile to build families and we don't like women who have slept around. Unfortunately a lot of women will have fun with the badboys during their best years of their life and then once they are middle aged will tend to look for a nice guy to settle down with who can pay for a comfy life.
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Imraan truth has to be told that for most people, there is no hope. Let's be honest, you really think that most people are intelligent and rightly guided? Most people who I have come across, to put it politely are not all that bright and can think for themselves.
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