Sense of Gheerah (protectiveness or jealousy)

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Re: Sense of Gheerah (protectiveness or jealous)

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^ lol, if all else fails, gauge his eyes out :p ;D
 
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:sl: Hmmmmmmmmmmmm..........................:blind::blind: Then he wouldn't be able to see me either!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL:):w:
Ramlah said:
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^ lol, if all else fails, gauge his eyes out :p ;D
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Amatul Wadud said:
A woman's gheerah

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Lol!

Nice post too..
 
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I have to say, Jawharah and Ramlah have pretty much summarised my views on the matter. However, I don't think it's permissible to wear kohl in front of non-mahrems unless your eyes are covered, as this is a form of beautification. Not only that, but many people consider the eyes to be the most attractive feature of the face. This isn't a problem for me personally, as I cover my eyes too. I'm not sure if this is what you meant by niqaab? I am used to the full covering being referred to as the 'sittaar'.

My husband's gheerah over me makes me feel both safe, and proud. His gheerah is within the limits of the sharee'ah, and with regards to those matters which are simply his personal preferences, I am careful to guard them even in his absence.

As for my own sense of gheerah, al-Hamdulillaah I never have had to speak to him about it, as he's very sensitive regarding non-mahrem women, and acts with hayaa, wal-Hamdulillaah.
 
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:sl:MashAllah you are a very lucky lady.................. May Allah give ALL men including our sons/brothers etc etc Hayaa..............

Congratulations also with your good news. May Allah Bless you with His Rehmat. Ameen Summ Ameen...................:):w:
Faizah said:
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I have to say, Jawharah and Ramlah have pretty much summarised my views on the matter. However, I don't think it's permissible to wear kohl in front of non-mahrems unless your eyes are covered, as this is a form of beautification. Not only that, but many people consider the eyes to be the most attractive feature of the face. This isn't a problem for me personally, as I cover my eyes too. I'm not sure if this is what you meant by niqaab? I am used to the full covering being referred to as the 'sittaar'.

My husband's gheerah over me makes me feel both safe, and proud. His gheerah is within the limits of the sharee'ah, and with regards to those matters which are simply his personal preferences, I am careful to guard them even in his absence.

As for my own sense of gheerah, al-Hamdulillaah I never have had to speak to him about it, as he's very sensitive regarding non-mahrem women, and acts with hayaa, wal-Hamdulillaah.
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Re: Sense of Gheerah (protectiveness or jealous)

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Yo Faizah, I agree with you on the kohl thing. ;)

MashaAllah @ your husband. May Allah protect you both and increase you both in imaan. Ameen.
 
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Jazaakumaa-Allaahu khayr for the comments sisters, and ameen to all your du'aas sisters. :)
 
Re: Sense of Gheerah (protectiveness or jealous)

:salamext:,

The title came out a bit wrong ;o, "jealous" there should be "jealousy" (obviously :exhausted)

The prophet Muhammad saw said 'A Dayooth will not enter Jannah.' The Sahabah asked, 'Who is a Dayooth?' Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihe wasallam said, 'A man who does not care who visits his wife (i.e. men).'

And on the issue of Ghayrah, Ibn al-Qayyim, rahimahullaah, said,

"And the Dayyouth (the man with no jealousy over the women in his family) is the most vile of Allah's creation, and Jannah is forbidden for him, (because of his lack of Ghayrah - jealousy)."

"Here is a beautiful example...

On this topic, a famous historical incident is mentioned, so that males and females with a sense of honor and enthusiasm may know how the pious predecessors despised a woman unveiling her face before men, although in the following instance it was permissible to unveil the face. During the third century Hijri, the Qaadi (judge) of Rayy and Ahwaaz, Musa bin Ishaaq, sat to adjudicate people's disputes. Among the litigants was a woman who claimed five hundred dinars Mahr from her husband. The husband denied the claim. The Qaadi said to the husband, "Bring your witnesses." The husband said, "I have brought them." The Qaadi said to one of the witnesses, "Look at the wife so you may point her out during testimony." The witness stood up and said to the woman, "Stand." Upon this, the husband said, "What do you want from her?" The husband was told, "It is necessary that the witness sees your wife unveiled so that he may know that it is your wife." The husband detested his wife unveiling her face for the witnesses in public. He screamed, saying, "I make the Qaadi my witness that this Mahr of my wife is an obligation on me, and she must not unveil her face!" When the wife heard this, she thought it was wonderful that her husband disapproved of her unveiling her face before the witnesses, and was protecting her from the sight of people. She too screamed at the Qaadi, "I make you a witness that I have granted my Mahr to him, and have absolved him in this Dunyaa and the Aakhirah!" The Qaadi said to those around him, "Record this as a moral standard." - Taken from Tarbiyat Al-Awlaaad Fil Islaam "

MashaAllah, I really like that story :'), all taken from here: http://www.ummah.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206006 , may Allah reward the sister, Ameen.

Wassalam.
 

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