the Halal way to get married

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nightstar said:
i need a wife aaaaahhh lol.

theres married people every where i turn , left , right , centre.

then when you get married, you wish you were single, lol.

oh well
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lol akhi why would you wish you were single? i wouldn't :thumbs_up
 
i want a halal girlfriend at the minute, yes ive said it,

meet up whenever, i still havemy freedom lol

we can all dream
 
confused said:
Sallaam everyone

May Family want:
Mendhi - Stage, hall, dress up
Wedding - big stage, loads of guests, loads of food
Walima - again everything to be nice



Jazakallah
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from what i know-wouldnt having these stages include men and women going up to pose for pictures with the bride and groom and women from the girls side feeding the groom and bride different things- all mixed etc?
 
this is what my family want, what i want is the right way, i want 2 seperate places (home, hall, or restuarant) where men in 1 place, and women in another can enjoy food, drink, the company and enjoy the walima. No photos, no stages, no fancy stuff. im a very simple guy, like my simple life, work 6 days a week, try to pray on time, and dont do much in terms of activities or pastimes..just work. lol...but i have found the right person, and its my close friends cousin, now i know she wants her wedding (nikkah) to be a memorable event
 
me and my soon to be wife my mum her mum my dad her dad my sisters her sisters and brothers in the back garden ,with a flaming barbecue thats it! forget the aunty forget the friends...
 
Inshallah when i get married, as Mahr, i will take her to Umrah. I wish i could do a little celebration, but still doesnt answer the question, what is the way of our nabi saw???
 
and i also forgot the mahr will be 10 pound take it or leave it.....there's gas bills to pay...tax and all that crap
 
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Islamic ceremony is quite simple. Everyone invited gathers at the mosque or sometimes at someone's home. The groom and the bride's father (the bride herself can do this, but rarely does, also, if she doesn't have a father her brother, uncle, etc. can fill in) clasp hands and read surah Al-Fatiha, and sign the wedding contract and voila! Married!
 
confused said:
this is what my family want, what i want is the right way, i want 2 seperate places (home, hall, or restuarant) where men in 1 place, and women in another can enjoy food, drink, the company and enjoy the walima. No photos, no stages, no fancy stuff. im a very simple guy, like my simple life, work 6 days a week, try to pray on time, and dont do much in terms of activities or pastimes..just work. lol...but i have found the right person, and its my close friends cousin, now i know she wants her wedding (nikkah) to be a memorable event
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its your weding- youll probably only do it once-so do it the right way and the way u believe is best and rewarding

and i also forgot the mahr will be 10 pound take it or leave it.....there's gas bills to pay...tax and all that crap
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not such a nice approach to mahr... :hiding:
 
Abdullahii said:
me and my soon to be wife my mum her mum my dad her dad my sisters her sisters and brothers in the back garden ,with a flaming barbecue thats it! forget the aunty forget the friends...
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lol :P nice

send me some bro... mmm BBQ!
 
Thanks Amani - now have to try and persuade the bride and her family to keep it simple, and meaningfull. im not a boring sod, so i dont mind if its nicely decorated, as long as its not extrvagant, id rather give that money that we're gonna spend in 1 day to charity? or do something worthwhile.
 
confused said:
it can be anything that you and ur bride agree on, knowledge, money, car, ring, anything, but im sure £10 is taking the pi55??
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Anything more than ten pound is taking the piss!.....this is ridiculous........lol :)
 
Abdullahii said:
Anything more than ten pound is taking the piss!.....this is ridiculous........lol :)
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Hahah, well if your bride and you agree, then alhamdullilah

again its not about the amount, but more about the thought i think? id rather teach my bride or give something meaningfull rather then of any value?
 
brother the sister has told you the way of the nabi.

get two witnesses, do the khutbah,

The way you want it , is bang on.

If people want to talk, then let them,

Allah swt makes things easy, we just make it hard, marriage is a big thing, but we just make it overboard.

I know a few halal marriages, but it only came about because the girl got pregnant,or the girl ran away. So they did it the halal way because they had no other option
 

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