the idea of shmexz and shmomance and love....me hating it!

Keep yourself busy, you're growing up so its normal for you to question things at your age, explore if you want too but don't get too fixated on an idea, don't waste too much time thinking about it so much that it affects you and your studies otherwise you'll go a bit cuckoo.
 
Meentajir said:
how do i ....not think about something i am thinking about, or the whole world around me is thinking about?:embarrass^o):heated:
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You got better things to do. Figure out when to use 'hain' and 'hai'. You don't have to worry about it at the moment. You're not getting married or anything so don't drain your brain ;)
 
ConcealedGem said:
Keep yourself busy, you're growing up so its normal for you to question things at your age, explore if you want too but don't get too fixated on an idea, don't waste too much time thinking about it so much that it affects you and your studies otherwise you'll go a bit cuckoo.
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Hamza :) said:
You got better things to do. Figure out when to use 'hain' and 'hai'. You don't have to worry about it at the moment. You're not getting married or anything so don't drain your brain
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ok...
 
sorry i might be annoying you all but..only one more answer please and then i'll ask no more questions related to this.
how do i explain it to my class mates?
if you're interested in answering i'll tell you why: i just did a very big mistakeimsad
i always do mistakes
and then i regret those mistakes
now help me please!
 
ramen-thelegend said:
sorry i might be annoying you all but..only one more answer please and then i'll ask no more questions related to this.
how do i explain it to my class mates?
if you're interested in answering i'll tell you why: i just did a very big mistakeimsad
i always do mistakes
and then i regret those mistakes
now help me please!
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just be like youre too young to think about it right now, or better still tell them u don't know what any of that is, be like mummy jii brought me up innocent and I will stay innocent now leave me alone. :D
 
14 too young...i dont think so
you guys seem to all talk about marriage; marriage is not what i'm talking about




ok i've had enough, i'm going to tell you what i just did there !
we had finished our work before time so i asked my computer teacher if i can go back to class and revise for exams. he said yes. now i did not know this other dude who took computer sciences with me will also be coming along( there's another guy too but he was absent that day). anyways i dont say anything, me avoiding drama.

as we peek into our class we see the business studies teacher seems really mad and we both look at each other and be like you go in first but none of us do and just wait for the bell; yeah standing in the corridor; right outside of our class!


now out of nowhere he randomnly utters: i like you. me: thank you. him: no; you know what i mean! me: o please... him: what please??? me: *tells him about how i feel about all this disgusting stuff* him: why dont you try; your mind might change. me:*feels like punching him in the face but i control and explain how islam thinks of it* him: are you sure? stop putting islam into this! me:*really mad but * dont you see i just started wearing hijab? and no music? how could u?... him:*interrupts* i bet you dont know one hadith or ayah to support what you just said about how islam thinks of it! me: ok i dont but that doesn't change anything! lets go to the library and i'll show it to you in quran or bukhari!him: you know bukhari is a seven volume book right?me: lets just go to the back to the computer lab and we'll google it?!?! him : just stop..*blah bhah blah*!!!me: a second before you just said you liked me? man how could you??? man you dont even know me! him: yes i do! me : no you dont *starts up with all the bad stuff and stories of mine*
him: ok stop! just stop! this is sooo weird! me: i told ya !*bell rings in a minute* him: just dont tell anyone ok? this never happened! me: dont.. him: just shut up! me : ....ok...i'll try


and after this, he does what all the other guys back in wales did, i.e tell others about all the bad stuff i said about myself.what's worse is he gets islam into it too! like how i was before islam really evolved my life! and thats really annoying! i honestly wouldn't have cared anyless but my mom and my brother are really fed up of me and they keep begging me to let them live in peace for some time in pakistan.


i've already tried to ask him indirectly to stop but he ended up asking me" are you sure you thinking of shmex and shmotance this way is halal?" me has no answer. me asks three senior boys at school( i play basketball with them...) and they start lecturing me! me keeps asking for answer in yes or no but like you guys they too be like you're immature and growing up and you'll change and blah blah..


now you get it?
ok so now tell me what to do? how do i explain it to him? or anyother way i get him to stop except for asking teachers or someone and without me getting shirty! because that's going to get me in trouble...


ps. i know every single reply shouldn't have been the way it was and it was really bad of me i asked senoir boys about it but....it's done. now what am i going to do??? i regret every single thing i just did...i dont want to ignore it either
 
You are too young right now. I was not thinking about marriage or what comes implied with marriage until by the end of my bachelors in Uni lol. At 14, tell the guy you are TOO YOUNG and BOYS HAVE COOTIES and you don't want anything to do with a guy because there are seriously more interesting and less dramatically filled events. Are you able to switch schools? This sounds more like bullying and rude boys just being rude boys.
 
Bhabha said:
You are too young right now. I was not thinking about marriage or what comes implied with marriage until by the end of my bachelors in Uni lol. At 14, tell the guy you are TOO YOUNG and BOYS HAVE COOTIES and you don't want anything to do with a guy because there are seriously more interesting and less dramatically filled events. Are you able to switch schools? This sounds more like bullying and rude boys just being rude boys.
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someone bullying me;D...nahhhhhh;Di would have tried my kung fu skills on him already if he tried that;D
i'll try working on the other stuff you said though
 

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