The Marriage Thread

[S<Chowdhury]

In all honesty, the search can be so unhelpful at times. Especially in a somewhat specific (but not so specific) topic like marriage. It might be that every page comes up in the results or irrelevant posts.

^^^ True that Sister, hmm something you could take with the admin perhaps

 

[Italianguy]

^^^ True that Sister, hmm something you could take with the admin perhaps

I thought this was turned into the marriage section by the mods?

 

[S<Chowdhury]

Things that husbands could do to make there wife happy, apart from the obvious of not making a mess of the house and not spending all your time with your car ;D

 

[Italianguy]

Things that husbands could do to make there wife happy, apart from the obvious of not making a mess of the house and not spending all your time with your car ;D

Chowdhury!!! How could you!.....My cars need attention too, they to have feelings.;D I am not aloowed to touch anything in the house anyway, so it's hard for me to make a mess^o) Everything we have is from India or Pakistan, or Saudi Arabia, Egypt...the list goes on and on. So it's all expensive and means Italianguy can't touchhew;D

 

[S<Chowdhury]

Chowdhury!!! How could you!.....My cars need attention too, they to have feelings.;D I am not aloowed to touch anything in the house anyway, so it's hard for me to make a mess^o) Everything we have is from India or Pakistan, or Saudi Arabia, Egypt...the list goes on and on. So it's all expensive and means Italianguy can't touchhew;D

I'm sorry I love my cars tooo but what to do :hmm:, Brother are you seriously not allowed to touch most things or are you just kidding with me, because that'd just feel strange you sort of feel like a stranger in your own house wouldn't you?

 

[Italianguy]

I'm sorry I love my cars tooo but what to do :hmm:, Brother are you seriously not allowed to touch most things or are you just kidding with me, because that'd just feel strange you sort of feel like a stranger in your own house wouldn't you?

lol, i was joking....a littlehew

She just knows I am kind of clumsy, I knock things over sometimes, I am kind of a big dude so,when I play rough with kids in the house she is always waiting for me to knock over a table or something;D

I am far from a stranger in my house...unless Zainab and others are over^o) then I retreat to the kitchen and sit at the counter and watch TV, or read or something.

I am never a stranger to my wife though, she is always waiting behind the curtain at the front door when i get home:statisfie It's a good feeling when I am walking up to the door and see her waiting:statisfie She waits for me alllllll day to tell me about her day....and usualy has something cooked for me...like a fresh samosa or chapatis:statisfie

 

[S<Chowdhury]

lol, i was joking....a littlehew

She just knows I am kind of clumsy, I knock things over sometimes, I am kind of a big dude so,when I play rough with kids in the house she is always waiting for me to knock over a table or something;D

I am far from a stranger in my house...unless Zainab and others are over^o) then I retreat to the kitchen and sit at the counter and watch TV, or read or something.

I am never a stranger to my wife though, she is always waiting behind the curtain at the front door when i get home:statisfie It's a good feeling when I am walking up to the door and see her waiting:statisfie She waits for me alllllll day to tell me about her day....and usualy has something cooked for me...like a fresh samosa or chapatis:statisfie

Hmmm retreat to the kitchen i thought that would be the last place you'd go since your as terrible as me in the kitchen ;D........

Err referring to that question i posted earlier how to make your wife happy, found a a few interesting points:

1) After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you also ways begin with a good greeting, brothers leave the bad news till later such as you forget to get the milk

2) The OBVIOUS spend time together talking about your day (Italianguy you've got it spot on lol)

3) Sorry Bro's thats right assisting her in the household what ever it maybe

4) Aiding in the Obedience to Allah

5) Showing Respect for her Family and Friends

6) Most of all have Patience and Understanding

Anymore to add to the list of things to do to make your wife happy ?

 

[Italianguy]

Hmmm retreat to the kitchen i thought that would be the last place you'd go since your as terrible as me in the kitchen ;D........

Err referring to that question i posted earlier how to make your wife happy, found a a few interesting points:

1) After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you also ways begin with a good greeting, brothers leave the bad news till later such as you forget to get the milk

2) The OBVIOUS spend time together talking about your day (Italianguy you've got it spot on lol)

3) Sorry Bro's thats right assisting her in the household what ever it maybe

4) Aiding in the Obedience to Allah

5) Showing Respect for her Family and Friends

6) Most of all have Patience and Understanding

Anymore to add to the list of things to do to make your wife happy ?

7.) Communication, I can't stress that one enough.

 

[S<Chowdhury]

8) Taking interest in her hobbies or interests

 

[-Fallen Angel-]

8) Taking interest in her hobbies or interests

9) Cooking your wife a nice meal once in a while
Something you can't do :hiding:

 

[Italianguy]

8) Taking interest in her hobbies or interests

Good one!

9.) Take time to partiipate in her hobbies and intrest, like Cowdhury said, but participate as well.

10.) Take her out to a nice dinner, maybe even bring home some flowers on your way home from work:embarrass (as a reminder, you don't have to be in trouble to do that);D She will appreciate it.

 

[Italianguy]

9) Cooking your wife a nice meal once in a while
Something you can't do :hiding:

LOL, myself and bro Chowdhury, are lacking skills in the kitchen.:embarrass We want to make them happy....not make them sick with our cooking+o(.. but you have a great point...maybe I should learn to cook? I bet my wife wold appreciate it?

 

[S<Chowdhury]

9) Cooking your wife a nice meal once in a while
Something you can't do :hiding:

For those who can't cook attempt to help your spouse in cooking, that means not eating all the food before its being prepared unless you are the official taste master of the household hehe ;D

 

[Italianguy]

For those who can't cook attempt to help your spouse in cooking, that means not eating all the food before its being prepared unless you are the official taste master of the household hehe ;D

lol, Guilty as charged.hew

 

[-Fallen Angel-]

LOL, myself and bro Chowdhury, are lacking skills in the kitchen.:embarrass We want to make them happy....not make them sick with our cooking+o(.. but you have a great point...maybe I should learn to cook? I bet my wife wold appreciate it?

Yea, maybe find out what meal she likes most (if you don't already know) and then (secretly) learn to cook it and then make it one day and she will be surprised and probably happy :statisfie
I can cook.. but barely i think, and only a few dishes i can make properly imsad

 

[Italianguy]

Yea, maybe find out what meal she likes most (if you don't already know) and then (secretly) learn to cook it and then make it one day and she will be surprised and probably happy :statisfie
I can cook.. but barely i think, and only a few dishes i can make properly imsad

I guess I could learn to make fresh naan and biryani? It takes allot of time...maybe get my Umma (Mother-in-law) to help me? She would be so happy if I even tried

Thanks for the advice! God be with you.

 

[-Fallen Angel-]

I guess I could learn to make fresh naan and biryani? It takes allot of time...maybe get my Umma (Mother-in-law) to help me? She would be so happy if I even tried

Thanks for the advice! God be with you.

Naan... maybe buy from the shop but biryani isn't too hard to make, yea maybe you can ask mother in law to teach you but tell her not to tell your wife

 

[S<Chowdhury]

Good one!

9.) Take time to partiipate in her hobbies and intrest, like Cowdhury said, but participate as well.

10.) Take her out to a nice dinner, maybe even bring home some flowers on your way home from work:embarrass (as a reminder, you don't have to be in trouble to do that);D She will appreciate it.

thats duly noted *bring home flowers*

11) Remember your wife in dua

 

[S<Chowdhury]

12)Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family

 

[S<Chowdhury]

Naan... maybe buy from the shop but biryani isn't too hard to make, yea maybe you can ask mother in law to teach you but tell her not to tell your wife

The shop naans taste awful, if your gonna buy it buy it from a proper Indian restaurant freshly made