The righteous wife

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salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

well alls i know is that the husband is the maintainer and the protector of the wife that is the bottom line people just accept it
stop fooling urselfs

Maa salaama
 
Masha-Allah, long, detailed and precise, just how I like examples to be!
 
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james said:
seems you are well under MAN'S thumb......A WOMAN OR A MAN SHOULD MARRY for love not for religious reasons......and regarding obeying your husband.....DONT YOU HAVE your own thoughts..are you a slave to the male species?.....EQUALITY is a normal thing..but some woman are blinded by religious scholars OBVIOUSLY.......and PLEASE dont quote anything.....thats what bringS these problems about in the first place.....
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What is the love a man compared to the love of God?
 
Djinn said:
What is the love a man compared to the love of God?
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This guy james is living in some sort of dreamland.

What i mean is that when we say ( in west) that women can do what they want and how they want is not true. James tell me that who designs cloths for womens to wear, men do. because we want them to look they way we want, they work in clubs etc for who? for us men and there are so many other things i can go on and on.
Without religion's law (Al-Islam) womens have no rights so wake up kido
 
iqbal_ibn_adam said:
This guy james is living in some sort of dreamland.

What i mean is that when we say ( in west) that women can do what they want and how they want is not true. James tell me that who designs cloths for womens to wear, men do. because we want them to look they way we want, they work in clubs etc for who? for us men and there are so many other things i can go on and on.
Without religion's law (Al-Islam) womens have no rights so wake up kido
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True, I would go even farther to say that women in the west are pressured to wear what men want and that often includes the obscene, which is not the case in Islam. So in the west women's right to choose is really a 'catch-22': wear it and be accepted or don't wear it and be rejected.
 
iqbal_ibn_adam said:
This guy james is living in some sort of dreamland.
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its not his fault, the article was wrong in saying that the wife is like a slave to her husband, yes it did actually say that and that is absolute rubbish, no wonder he got the wrong idea.
 
cheese said:
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its not his fault, the article was wrong in saying that the wife is like a slave to her husband, yes it did actually say that and that is absolute rubbish, no wonder he got the wrong idea.
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I didn't quite understand wat u tryin to say
 
Ameeratul Layl said:
Salam.
I personally think the 'rightous wife' can be mixed up with cultural traditions.

Wasalam.
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When u mix things with religion the outcome is always bad. There are so many examples out there and yet we dnt learn anything from them.

BTW i know where u comin from
 
iqbal_ibn_adam said:
I didn't quite understand wat u tryin to say
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im saying that the author was wrong in saying that the wife is like a slave to her husband! and its articles like this that give people the wrong idea about what marriage in Islam is like.
 
cheese said:
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im saying that the author was wrong in saying that the wife is like a slave to her husband! and its articles like this that give people the wrong idea about what marriage in Islam is like.
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Misinterpreted things sometimes are, even suras and verses. Take heed in consequence, only Allah's (stw) words are unmistakable.

Salam alaikum.
 
M H Kahn said:
How righteous are the women who fight their husbands when they want to have a second wife?
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I would call them humans.

How silly is the husband to go for a second wife when he knows how much it will hurt his first wife and how much head ache and trouble it will bring him? Unless there is some huge over-riding benefit that will only happen if he takes a second wife, hes not using his judgement so well is he?

im not saying polygamy is bad, its allowed and i appreaciate that, but the reality is that you cant just look at the women who dont want their husbands to do it and say they are not rightoues, becuase the guy has some issues too for initiating the action on the 1st place if he knows that its gonna cuase more problem than it will solve.

^but thats just my opinion anyway.
 
salam,

Nobody has gone off-topic. If I have gone off-topic, then so have you.

The thread is titled 'righteous wife', M H Kahn asked about righteousness of wives in polygamy, and now we are addressing this issue.

see, we're all on track and there is no off-topic.


I posted that website to strengthen your argument in your previous post, because I agreed with you :S
 
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oh yeh i guess it isnt off topic.

i thought it was usless to link to that website becuase its only the experience of one person, you cant possibly generalise from that!

i know the children of a polygamous family and they refered to their fathers other wife as their 'second mother', and they treat their siblings from the other marriages like normal brothers and sisters.

so i hope you can see how onesided that link was.
 
As a righteous wife should be rightful in observance of the deen, she cannot fight a with a righteous husband who wishes to have a second wife unless the husband is economically insolvent or dependent on his wife's income partially or fully.
 

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