Imagine if we Muslims endorsed a Declaration that:
* Pope must be elected by all Catholics people, not by a small group of churchmen.
* Greek government must stop recognizing Greek Orthodox Church's Canon Laws, both within the church and in such areas of civil law as marriage.
This would not be comparable. These people are apostates. In the case of Hirsi Ali, she has to live under permanent protection of body guards. Her life is threatened exactly because she is an outspoken apostate, because she was a Muslim. There are Muslims out there that think Islam allows them to kill her for her apostasy. That makes Islam very relevant to her.
In essence the rules of Islam make Islam relevant for her. This idea that being born a Muslim means that you are always a Muslim and under the jurisdiction of other Muslims, in an Islamic state at least. Thats why she is outspoken against an Islamic state and Islam, because it essentially calls on her to be executed.
Islam has an opinion on her, then why can she not have an opinion on Islam?