Who's this Safiya. I have seen her previous posts in this thread. Or she is an old member :?
Aaj mera likhne ka mann kar raha hai. Mujhe bas jo likhne ka mann kar raha hai mein likh rahi ho. Isliye is ka koi unwaan nahi hai. Mein ne kuch kahawate bhi yaha par pesh ki hai. Thoda zyada lecture ki tarah hoaya hai :X.
Itehaad ki ma3ni hai mil jul kar rehna. Aksar mein ne dekha hai ke logon ka khayaal hai ki itehaad ka matlab sirf apne mulk ya phir apne mazhab ke logon ke saath achi tarah pesh aana hai. Lekin itehaad ka asal matlab mere khayal se har insan chahe wo kisi bhi mulk ya shehar ya mazhab ka ho ek dosri ki akhtelafaat ko bhol kar ek dosre se acha sulook karna.
You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.
Dunya mein kuch log hai jo dosro ke bare mein nahi sochte lekin ye zarori to nahi ke hum ache kaam tabhi kare agar koi hamari taareef kare ya hum se wesa hi sulook kare. Insan ki ye ek sift hoti hai ki wo aksar dosro ke baare mein kuch na kuch sochta rehta hai chahe wo bura ho ya acha. Har insaan ko apne dunya mein aane ke maqsad mein ye bhi shamil karna chahiye ke wo dosro ki madad kare. Agar kuch logon ko dekhkar us ke dimag mein khayal aata hai ki ye kitna bure hai dosro ko takleef pohonchate hai to usse ya to usse sudharne ki koshish karni chahiye lekin phir bhi wo apne aap ko nahi badalna chahta hai to ham me ye khobol kar lena chahiye ke Allah Taa'la ne usse aesa banaya hai.
Keep yourself busy in remembering your faults, so that you have no time left to remember the faults of others.
Insan ke dil me kabhi kisi ke liye koi shikayat nahi honi chahiye hame dosro ke liye nahi wahi sochna chahiye jo hum apne liye sochte hai. Agar hum sirf apne bari mein sochenge to kya hoga hum neki ya burai karenge hume us ka ajar milega. Neki karna mushkil nahi hai insan ko Allah par bharoosa hona chahiye ke mein ye jo kar raha aap is ka ajar mujhe dene wale dunya wale humari nekiyon ko bhol jayenge. Allah ka khouf hi insan ko gunaho se bacha sakta hai.
Change your thoughts from, "what's in it for me?" to "how can I help?" - this is one of the keys to success.
Only those people live who live for others.
It is arrested on the authority of Anas b. Malik that the Prophet (may peace and blessings be upon him) observed:
one amongst you believes (truly) till one likes for his brother or for his neighbor that which he loves for himself.
(Sahih Muslim: Book #001, Hadith #0072)
Dosro mein sirf achai par khaur karna chahiye aur burai ko bhol jana chahiye. Agar insan Allah ke siwa kisi bhi insaan ko dekhega use usme koi na koi kami zaror dikhegi.
. Ye hi to problem hai roman english mein likhne se. Is se acha to English mein likhna hi hota hai.
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