want to tell mum how i feel about islam but scared to

nicegirlaaya13 said:
thank you for helping me. i really do want to tell mum but not my step daddy. i dont know if i can keep it from mum much longer. could i talk to sister dafodil about it. could you ask her for me plz. aaya
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assalaamu alaykum sister,

i have emailed my wife as at work at the moment and asked her if she is able to get in touch with you and will talk to her tonight and ask her to get in touch with you insha'allah.

assalaamu alaykum,
Abu Abdullah
 
Sis_ReNa said:
I didnt say you were going thro a phase ... I said they might. and that is ok they can think what ever they want.. I would tell them all .. and see what happends cus its hard to live life as a lie.. pretending your something your not. and you have people muslims sisters and brothers that will be there for you if you need us
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sorry for not understanding what u meant
 
Dawud_uk said:
assalaamu alaykum sister,

i have emailed my wife as at work at the moment and asked her if she is able to get in touch with you and will talk to her tonight and ask her to get in touch with you insha'allah.

assalaamu alaykum,
Abu Abdullah
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thank you. will try to get online later when mum as gone to bed. aaya!
 
nicegirlaaya13 said:
ashley can we talk more about telling my mum plz
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sis if u tell your mum she won't take it that baad ,usually dad's take it more than mum's do,anywz sis take one day when she is in a good mood and make her sit down and tel her as gently as you can about muslims.. give your mum a book of islam ask her what she things of the religion islam. dont tel her your a muslim yet. try to make her understand you and tel her that muslims arent baad like the media makes them out to be.
then after she knows this tel her about how you feel. and tel her that eveen though your a muslim that doesnt mean you wiil love her less or anything. and she will always be your mother no matter what
sis i doo hope that helped you
you will be in my prayers sis and i will ask allah to make this easy for you
insha allah your parents wont take it that baad:statisfie :) :statisfie
 
Daffodil said:
salaams, breaking it to the parents is the hardest part, its like a plaster/bandaid, just pull it off strate away n ull realise it wasnt so bad.

yes there reaction might not be so gud but leave everything in the hands of allah swt, he bought u to islam n he will make it easy for u inshallah.
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hello sister daffodil

is it ok for me to talk to u plz. about helping me tell my mum how i feel about islam. your husband said it was ok but he would get u to talk to me but i hav not heard from you. it means so much to me. plz try to talk to me if u can.

aaya
 
Asalaamu 'alykum sister aaya.


If you want, i can forward your email address to sister tayyaba but i don't think its a good idea to give it in public. So if you want, i can pass it on through PM [private message] if you give me permission.



Peace.
 
Fi_Sabilillah said:
Asalaamu 'alykum sister aaya.


If you want, i can forward your email address to sister tayyaba but i don't think its a good idea to give it in public. So if you want, i can pass it on through PM [private message] if you give me permission.



Peace.
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yes plz. thank u. ...
 
Okay i will pass them on inshaa'Allaah. Thankyou for your patience.
 
if ur very serious then read the Quran preferably ayatul Kursi make dua to Allah and ask inshaAllah all will go well

ayatul Kursi is verse 255 of al baqarah chapter 1

if u cant read Arabic then read translation
 
Fishman said:
:sl:
I got a teacher to tell them, rather than telling them directly.
:w:
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Congrats...I understand ur situation...and it is very hard to tell ur parents that u want to convert to Islam...so if u are scared find some1 2 help u break down the good news...or actually bad news 4 dem init?! and if they throw u out or sumfin' ur r welcum 2 cum and stay round mine...or if u ask ur frendz I'm sure dey wont mind.
 
skhalid said:
Congrats...I understand ur situation...and it is very hard to tell ur parents that u want to convert to Islam...so if u are scared find some1 2 help u break down the good news...or actually bad news 4 dem init?! and if they throw u out or sumfin' ur r welcum 2 cum and stay round mine...or if u ask ur frendz I'm sure dey wont mind.
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if my parents do throw me out and thaliyahs mum would not let me stay with thaliyah at her house would u really let me stay with u. its daddy im really worried about he does not like muslims. aaya
 
FollowingAlhuda said:
Subhanna Allah,

I live in Holland and their is also a sister of 13 years old that took the Shahada 5 months ago. She named herself Also Ayaa. And she has also not yet tell here mom.

Subhanna Allah this is very beutifull.
The girl has 4 bigger brothers. 3 reverted before her to Islam (the mother knows only about them) one brother conferted to Jahova's withness. The sister is scared to say it to her mom. But her mom begins to know something (we know she feels it!) But she doesn't say it.

MAy Allah ease it for you Insha Allah

Wassalam
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its aaya. can we plz talk about me telling mum about how i feel about islam.
 
Asslamu Alaikum Sister Aaya, welcome to Islam, you are now a sister in our 1.6billion family of brothers and sisters.

As for telling your parents, try to test them to see how they feel about Islam first. You said your dad doesnt like Muslims, but what about your Mum, try saying something like you were studying Islam at school and found it interesting, see her reaction.

I hope all goes well for you and your parents accept you as a Muslimah. Just remember to pray to Allah SWT and make due.
 
Goku said:
Asslamu Alaikum Sister Aaya, welcome to Islam, you are now a sister in our 1.6billion family of brothers and sisters.

As for telling your parents, try to test them to see how they feel about Islam first. You said your dad doesnt like Muslims, but what about your Mum, try saying something like you were studying Islam at school and found it interesting, see her reaction.

I hope all goes well for you and your parents accept you as a Muslimah. Just remember to pray to Allah SWT and make due.
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thank u.
 
skhalid said:
Congrats...I understand ur situation...and it is very hard to tell ur parents that u want to convert to Islam...so if u are scared find some1 2 help u break down the good news...or actually bad news 4 dem init?! and if they throw u out or sumfin' ur r welcum 2 cum and stay round mine...or if u ask ur frendz I'm sure dey wont mind.
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its aaya can i talk 2 u plz.
 
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sis how are you?

have you told your parents yet?

wassallam
 
FollowingAlhuda said:
Subhanna Allah,

I live in Holland and their is also a sister of 13 years old that took the Shahada 5 months ago. She named herself Also Ayaa. And she has also not yet tell here mom.

Subhanna Allah this is very beutifull.
The girl has 4 bigger brothers. 3 reverted before her to Islam (the mother knows only about them) one brother conferted to Jahova's withness. The sister is scared to say it to her mom. But her mom begins to know something (we know she feels it!) But she doesn't say it.

MAy Allah ease it for you Insha Allah

Wassalam
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can we talk about me telling mum how i feel about islam plz. i am thinking of giving my mum a clue at weekend.

do u hav msn messenger chat or yahoo messenger chat.

aaya
 
Curious girl2 said:
As-Salamu Alaykum

Dont worry sis, I can understand how scared you are. Our families hold so much respect and influence for us, and rightly so. If you can make your mum understand how much this means to you and how much this has changed your life then Inshallah she will understand and support you.

I go to a new Muslims class at my masjid and there is a girl there not much older than you. She is 15 and has recently reverted herself. She has had such a hard life, she is in social services care as her mum couldnt look after her. Lots of issues around alcohol and drugs etc. She is going to be fostered and I really hope a good muslim family will take her and guide her.

Peace CG
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can i talk to u about telling mum about how i feel about islam as i want to tell mum on saturday or sunday. do u hav msn messenger chat or yahoo messenger chat. plz try to talk to me. aaya
 

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