Why women cry?

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Why Women Cry...

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"

"Because I need to" she said.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will." Later the

Little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," his dad answered carelessly

the little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked

The old wise sheikh. "He surely knows the answer", he thought.

"Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so?

Easily

He answered: "When Allah made the woman she had to be made so
special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight
of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an
inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that come
from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to
keep going when everyone
else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and
fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love
Her children under any and all circumstances, even when her
child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her
husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to
protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never
hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve
to
Stand beside him unfalteringly. And lastly, He gave her a
tear.
This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it

She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."

You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes
she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the
doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

The little boy got the answer and never asked the question
again.
 
Re: Why Women Cry...

oh,,this article is so nice,,,
i'm happy to be a woman,,,:)


You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes
she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the
doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

yes. that's right..
 
Re: Why do women endure so much?

THE WOMAN IS MADE TO STRUGGLE AND ENDURE

Allah has made the woman so enduring that she bears the burden of the world, yet she is gentle and caring enough to give soothing comfort to the whole family. She has an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection of her children. She has a hardness that allows her to keep going even when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. She loves her children under all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly. She has the strength to carry her husband through his faults and she is fashioned to protect his heart. Allah has given her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And lastly, He has given her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, it’s hers."

Yes, these are the special traits of a woman. Sometimes she cries, but never breaks.:hiding:
 
Why Women Cry

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A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"

"Because I need to" she said.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," his dad answered carelessly

The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh. "He surely knows the answer", he thought.

"Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?"

He answered: "When Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He made her strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts is wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."

"You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

The little boy got the answer and never asked the question again

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:) beatiful story. Yeah it's sometimes difficult understand for myself why i want to cry and it's more difficult to understand to my husband, i'll give him to read tshi story inshaallah :)
 
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Experiences have depicted that the more crying a woman is, the more cruel is she in her heart towards others. Generally it is her extreme selfishness and/or excessively ambitious dreams that make her cry so frequently. But this is not one of the general characteristics which include endurance, perseverance and love, too.

:grumbling
 
i never see my sisters/mother cry!
they carry a lot of duties and burdens! They are pious alhamdullilah but ive never seen them cry!
....lol if you ask me both men and women cry... they jus hide it wen they do!
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dat was a nice read n sweet....but i jus dont like it if ma mom cries :grumbling

:w:
 
^^ now why do men cry ?? :brother:




I think men cry far more than any of us know, inshaAllah----But its deep inside them, as they are expected to be head of home...and many things, that crying may show a weakness about---I do think this is harder on the male..to have keep the tears inside him..But haven't a doubt in my mind that most muslims cry..just some show it...many don't..But the tears are there,...:)
 
ASsalamu Alaikum

^^ im pretty sure she was just kidding bro.

this thread is soo :-\

If a guy cries from a girl, its the guys fault similarly if a girl cries from a guy its her fault.

It's not wrong for a man to cry, except when its excessive and over such things like "she doesnt love me :'(" *:rollseyes:*

when he cries to Allah, it shows their strength in their repentance and their weakness as a human being. If Allah created us with no feelings to cry, then we would have cold hearts and feel no shame, and crying doesnt always necessarily mean shedding tears..

The reason women cry is because its genetics. their hormones are all weird and stuff. Sometimes it comes out as an adrenaline rush too.

i say grab a tub of icecream and call it a day :p


fi aman Allah
w'salaam
 

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