will someone answer my questions please?

Kiro said:
marriage is only obligatory for you if you fear falling into the haram
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i meant this one:21) is doing illegal stuff that quran or hadith doesn't mention also haram. i mean stuff like underage driving. its not like thats aloud in pakistan, but the traffic/highway police or as they call it here, motorway police doesn't really say anything unless you're in some real trouble. i'm not talking on the behalf of all pakistan, only the very small town i live in.





Hamza :) said:
ask a scholar here, message them
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bhai may ne un se bezati nahi khani:hiding::embarrass
 


If it is a wordly issue then it is halal until proven haram. Like if you said wearing these clothes are haram then you have to prove it.

If it is a Islamic issue then it is haram till proven halal. Like praying 5 rakats because Nabi SAW didn't teach that

@ramen-thelegend
 
Assalamu Alaykum,

Well sis, with worldly matters, anything which doesn't cause spiritual, mental or physical harm for people is permitted.

With underage driving, I think it would fall into a category of Islamic law called 'urf' or social customs. I don't know about the laws in Pakistan, but if it is illegal in the place you live to drive that young then I don't think you should do it. Although if you are driving around on a deserted road, without any chance of harming a person or creature, AND you are supervised by an adult (very important) :D then I don't see any problem.

BTW, I want to know who is teaching you to drive anyway?
 
noraina said:
Assalamu Alaykum,

Well sis, with worldly matters, anything which doesn't cause spiritual, mental or physical harm for people is permitted.

With underage driving, I think it would fall into a category of Islamic law called 'urf' or social customs. I don't know about the laws in Pakistan, but if it is illegal in the place you live to drive that young then I don't think you should do it. Although if you are driving around on a deserted road, without any chance of harming a person or creature, AND you are supervised by an adult (very important) :D then I don't see any problem.

BTW, I want to know who is teaching you to drive anyway?
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well, its not really allowed but again if you're doing that, no ones going to stop you and ask for your license unless you're in some real trouble. sister they dont even have traffic lights in the town i live:giggling: no zebra crossing either:giggling:

my grandparents driver, safu kaka taught me driving! he's really nice and yeah he's islamic. dont worry i'm never alone with him. me and three other friends learned driving together from safu kaka.

i usually drive alone:nervous:. but hey! its only inside the town, no more than the outskirts of the city...ok twice or thrice i did drive a few districts futher but my mom was along at that time.

i cant drive in wales anyway. i have to wait for some time plus we dont have a car in wales. here in pakistan, my grandparents are paying for all our expenses since my mom lost her job a couple of months ago. my mom will sell some of their property(since they are living abroad too), i suppose a cotton jinning/ginning factory and they'll give some money to my mom, enough so we can buy our own home in wales and my mom gets some other degree...or something like that

so i want to take full advantage of being in pakistan! safu kaka rocks!
 
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Kiro said:
It's possible for Jinns and Humans to have interactions but Nabi SAW forbid interactions between Jinns. Don't be scared of Jinns, they're just like me or you. They eat, sleep, marry and probably fart. The things they can do such as flying for example, is something you have seen before such birds flying. You should seek refuge in Allah.
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22) can we smell their farts??? maybe if they we can, i can tell if there is one around? so they have kids too? can we touch or feel them?

23) is it haram if i'm doing something halal my mom forbid me from? until a week back, i was grounded really bad...because of fakerameen( if you dont know about it, then ignore it please). she took my phone, laptop , QURAN etc. i got my phone in two days because we were in a different country and i was usually alone so i needed it. i'm using fakerameen's laptop currently(and i guess she knows that most probably). but she wont allow me to read QURAN or do anything related to religion. and thats why i've started reading QURAN after fajr, so she doesn't know. and i guess if she came to know i'm on IB she wouldn't take a second to kick me out of her life. i'm not scared of what she'll do to me, for i am used to it, but i want to know if thats haram?
 
ramen-thelegend said:
22) can we smell their farts??? maybe if they we can, i can tell if there is one around? so they have kids too? can we touch or feel them?

23) is it haram if i'm doing something halal my mom forbid me from? until a week back, i was grounded really bad...because of fakerameen( if you dont know about it, then ignore it please). she took my phone, laptop , QURAN etc. i got my phone in two days because we were in a different country and i was usually alone so i needed it. i'm using fakerameen's laptop currently(and i guess she knows that most probably). but she wont allow me to read QURAN or do anything related to religion. and thats why i've started reading QURAN after fajr, so she doesn't know. and i guess if she came to know i'm on IB she wouldn't take a second to kick me out of her life. i'm not scared of what she'll do to me, for i am used to it, but i want to know if thats haram?
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No. They are of the unseen. The only way it would be possible if there was strong paranormal activity in your home through black magic or possession. It's possible to tell if there's around but you can't know for sure, it just might be the wind. Yes, they are very normal peeps like Humans. You could only touch one if there is not a strong remembrance of Allah or by black magic. Because a Jinn could take a form and might be able to touch you physically.

Is your Mom non-Muslim? You still have to obey your parents but they can't stop you from the worship of Allah and you can't disobey Allah. And whats a fakerman laptop
 
Kiro said:
Is your Mom non-Muslim? You still have to obey your parents but they can't stop you from the worship of Allah and you can't disobey Allah. And whats a fakerman laptop
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my mom is muslim. but not that-type-of-muslim...u get what i'm trying to say? sorry , no matter how bad she is to me, she is my mom so i wouldn't like saying anything more or anything bad about her. she's doesn't have that daughter-mother relation with me or something. we hardly ever talk like humans.

a fakerameen's laptop is the ex-laptop of fakerameen. its mine now!just forget that. thats not important.

so is it wrong of me to do that stuff?
 
ramen-thelegend said:
my mom is muslim. but not that-type-of-muslim...u get what i'm trying to say? sorry , no matter how bad she is to me, she is my mom so i wouldn't like saying anything more or anything bad about her. she's doesn't have that daughter-mother relation with me or something. we hardly ever talk like humans.

a fakerameen's laptop is the ex-laptop of fakerameen. its mine now!just forget that. thats not important.

so is it wrong of me to do that stuff?
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whats a fakerameen
 
Kiro said:
whats a fakerameen
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a stupid two-faced person who stole my diary and used my name on ib!
thats actually how i got here:embarrass. that ................thought i get attention! like yeah the kind of attention where people insult the **** out you! and ....i guess i better shut up.

please forget it.

so where's my answer?
 
ramen-thelegend said:
a stupid two-faced person who stole my diary and used my name on ib!
thats actually how i got here:embarrass. that ................thought i get attention! like yeah the kind of attention where people insult the **** out you! and ....i guess i better shut up.

please forget it.

so where's my answer?
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What do you mean by "so is it wrong of me to do that stuff?"
 
ramen-thelegend said:
is it wrong to disobey my mom?
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I already answered you

"Is your Mom non-Muslim? You still have to obey your parents but they can't stop you from the worship of Allah and you can't disobey Allah. And whats a fakerman laptop"

though your mom can't force you, she can only guide you

 
Kiro said:
I already answered you

"Is your Mom non-Muslim? You still have to obey your parents but they can't stop you from the worship of Allah and you can't disobey Allah. And whats a fakerman laptop"

though your mom can't force you, she can only guide you

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so in this case, i mean that i talked about, i dont have to obey her right?

24) are you tired? could you tell me whenever you are? because if i ask a thousand questions and you answer them all...i'll ask a thousand more. you dont have to waste so much time on me.
 
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ramen-thelegend said:
so in this case, i mean that i talked about, i dont have to obey her right?

24) are you tired? could you tell me whenever you are? because if i ask a thousand questions and you answer them all...i'll ask a thousand more. you dont have to waste so much time on me.
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she can't prevent you from worshiping Allah.

Ask as many questions and I'll try my best.
 
The rule is simple sis, always respect and love your parents. Obey them, but never in matters when they tell you to disobey Allah SWT or do something not pleasing to Him. Parents are not perfect, they can make mistakes sometimes - so obey the One that is perfect, the reward is with Him.
 

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