Marrying Mr. Right!

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Auzubillahi-Minash shaitwaanir rajeem. Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Marrying Mr. Right!

Your relationship with Mr. Right (or Mrs. Right) should be based on:

  • Forgiveness. No one is perfect, so there will be disagreements from time to time. Both partners will inevitably do or say something that upsets the other. You cannot go crying back to your parents every time something goes wrong.
  • If you really thought carefully before marrying and ensured he or she had all the qualities you need, and you prayed Istikharah (Arabic for: supplication for guidance in making a decision) before making the decision, then you have married the right person. So that's not a question anymore
  • When trouble happens, it is time to make this marriage work and draw on all those positive qualities that you know you both have.
  • Love. This is the quality that most people focus on. Love is something that grows as the relationship develops and deepens. It grows out of honesty, respect, harmony, forgiveness, and excellent communication from both sides.
  • The sparks of love should exist before the couple marry. When they do, be sure that if the behavior from both parties is good, it will grow into tenderness and love. It is this feeling that makes the couple want to be together.
  • Honesty. To bond the relationship between you and your to-be spouse, your dealings with him or her should be based on truthfulness.
  • There should be so much openness between both parties that you can share anything and say anything and be sure you will be respected and understood.
  • Telling lies and twisting the truth puts a wedge between you, and this spells doom to the relationship.
  • Compassion. If a couple are really close, each feels what the other is feeling. One of them would never laugh when the other cries, or go out to have fun when the other is ill.

FiAmaaniAllah


 
i think im going to have a problem with the last one ^o)

i always end up laughing when someone is trying to be serious, :X:D
 
:sl:

this sounds soo easy :hmm:

Thanks for sharing bro :thumbs_up

:w:
 
jazakallah khair

unfortunoutly ...
Warning: This is a negative by truemuslim...again...
this is really hard....unexisting...impossible...to last forever, or even a minute



hmm....:-[ :D
 
Everyone should follow these when they are with someone. This is the foundation of a good relationship without this there is nothing.

A lot of people should think of this before they get married or divorced.
 
JazakAllah but isn't this thread too old to post in it?
 
Najm said:

You cannot go crying back to your parents every time something goes wrong.
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i know someone, who once went back to her parents crying just to see how much her husband loves her. :smile:

May Allah grant all the muslims the "jewel"<< "mr./mrs. right.
ameen

btw. thanks for the thread , jazaka Allahu 5yran
 
What if ı m Miss Wrong for Mr.Right:D?

I dont believe love is not the only thing in this kind of relationships.There must be greenback as well:)

Thanks 4 sharing :P
 
Mr. Right is a myth.
So is Mrs. Right.

I prefer reality, where both people have flaws, and yet they still care for each other and manage to live happily.

But yeah, those are good guidelines for dealing with anyone really, not necessarily your spouse..
 
^^ I agree.

Having flaws = the opportunity to compromise. Isn't that what marriage is all about?
 

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