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brother, I've been in a similar situation and all I did is ignore them. When they realized that I do not give them any particular attention and that I was not shaken by their presence anymore, they got sick and tired of it and stopped bullying me (although they started picking on someone else). Ignore them and Insha’Allah it will work.

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AsalamuAlaykum,

jeez gimme his address i'll jump him!!

:'(

Dis one upsetting thread bro!

I wud take my lighter and light up the girls hair, And then i wud get my tricycle :rollseyes and run over the guys, one by one, :hiding:then i wud sprinkle salt and pepper on them, and zap them wiv my watergun, which wud be pre loaded wiv cat piss, then i wud sprinkle over some fairy dust (feathers also):D and tada, you have a pile of disgusting bullies, dial 999 (or waheva) and let the coppas deal with the filth, ma Muslim bruvas to pure to touch em, run Home, and pray salah imsad, ask for forgiveness LOL

All the best, make du'a :)

Peace!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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I also reccomend agin my previous advise, stand firm in the face of adversity.

I recommend you listen to Safi Khan's "A Profile of Courage" or something, its about Imam Ahmad and how he was beaten and torchured and all that.
 
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Ergh, chavs!!! Chav scum! Those the little white kids that think they're black. This is why everyone should have to do community service. They need to be taught to show some respect.
Go to the police. If you're assaulted then go to the police after all we are paying them to do their job.

Chavs are nothing but dirt. They're not educated, their future is crap.
 
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England said:
Ergh, chavs!!! Chav scum! Those the little white kids that think they're black. This is why everyone should have to do community service. They need to be taught to show some respect.
Go to the police. If you're assaulted then go to the police after all we are paying them to do their job.

Chavs are nothing but dirt. They're not educated, their future is crap.
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Police will do what?

I think there should be tougher laws, these kids run around shouting the odds, the ones round here are terrible like 8 year olds shouting and doing rubbish, and if I, or any other black/brown or any person says anything to them, they'll cry wolf and their parents and local pub would come after people.

I think the Uk really needs tougher laws, I garantee anyone, that if amuptation or something like that was used. even if only as a thread, then it would stop alot of things, I know these people I was never a chav but similar.
 
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My sister was bullied at school by someone. She went to the police station and the police went round the house of the girl's. I don't know what they said or did but the bullying stopped after that.
 
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You know, back when I was young the first few years in highschool I was bullied to. But then I turned it around and in the end I was one of the most popular kids in school and everybody looked up to me. The way I did it however was very bad, and looking back now it wasn't the smartest thing to do. see what I did I started to pick on teachers. Harass them during class and so on. and eventually the bullies rather then picking on me started looking up at me, the problem was of course by then I had solved my problem by creating a bigger problem, half of the teachers at my school hated me and eventually I got expelled. And Of course I shouldn't even have to tell you this, but that would be a very un-Islamic solution.

However there is a reason why I 'm telling you this. The psychology that lies behind it. The real reason they stopped was not out of admiration. See kids that bully are usually just doing this because they have low social skills and rather then making their selfs accepted into a group by their own characteristics, they try to make their selves look superior by making other people look inferior. Now the best way to avoid them is to profile yourself as tougher then them so they'd be better off looking for an easier victem. I wouldn't go as far as I did in the past nor would I get into a fight if it's not absolutely unavoidable. The best thing you can do is be completely unafraid. Somehow people tend to sense that from other people. Of course that's easier said then done. Just remember how futile the things they can do to you are. Fear only Allah. Now before you try anything remotely like all of this, the first step should be getting an adult involved (teacher, parent, anyone willing to help).
 
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AsIaN_qUeEn said:
u feelin ok ?:?
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Although what I suggested is not so Islamic, but their is a reason behind it.

1. It will catch the off-guard.
2. It's not a reaction they are expecting, it will pre-occupy them in their mind.
3. Second it is playing on the feminine side of the women, a statment that is more suited to their nature and more likely to bring out their feminine side, asnd look deep inside them.
4. It give's them confidence in themself which they are lacking and give's them focus.

Bear in mind their is no guarantee, but it is quite probable it will with some persistance.

Oyeah I will not suggest it with a guy. Islamically I will not suggest you take it in consideration at all.
 
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why dontyou tell the teachers...although that isnt too sensiblesince they would then start to beat you up after school or something like that...you could try telling your parents and they could move you to a different school or something :?

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Skillganon said:
Although what I suggested is not so Islamic, but their is a reason behind it.

1. It will catch the off-guard.
2. It's not a reaction they are expecting, it will pre-occupy them in their mind.
3. Second it is playing on the feminine side of the women, a statment that is more suited to their nature and more likely to bring out their feminine side, asnd look deep inside them.
4. It give's them confidence in themself which they are lacking and give's them focus.

Bear in mind their is no guarantee, but it is quite probable it will with some persistance.

Oyeah I will not suggest it with a guy. Islamically I will not suggest you take it in consideration at all.
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lol u make me lafffff lol
 
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Skillganon said:
Although what I suggested is not so Islamic, but their is a reason behind it.

1. It will catch the off-guard.
2. It's not a reaction they are expecting, it will pre-occupy them in their mind.
3. Second it is playing on the feminine side of the women, a statment that is more suited to their nature and more likely to bring out their feminine side, asnd look deep inside them.
4. It give's them confidence in themself which they are lacking and give's them focus.

Bear in mind their is no guarantee, but it is quite probable it will with some persistance.

Oyeah I will not suggest it with a guy. Islamically I will not suggest you take it in consideration at all.
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It may also encourage young girls to see this as a sexual come-on ... and lead to the girls coming after the guy all the more ...
Some teenage girls don't need much encouragement in that department, believe me!

I still think this is a very bad idea, which could backfire badly!

Peace
 
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Ah the state of some of the youth disappoints moi.....
Some advice is to tell the teacher, well i dont know how long ago you were in school, but just dont work nowadays......Ok u tell,they go up to the bully say few things, that's it! trust moi....the bullies will just wait after school, so telling teachers and hoping that they can somehow fix the issue is not likely....

Try and make some new friends, just have a little chat with new bro's, slightly 'tougher' ones....soon enough hopefully you'll have allies....
and if you are worried, try some self defence, boxing, kick boxin not just for the bullies, but because u never know when u may need the skills, oh and if they do try something, u still stand a chance to 'get a shot in' ...

Or learn the art of using nunchucks:D im already on the case:D
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thats my 2 cent worth
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Umm..You shouldn't keep this to yourself..tell your teacher...parents etc..tell the police even..get an asbo on them.. :rollseyes just a thought
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H4RUN said:
Or learn the art of using nunchucks:D im already on the case:D
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thats my 2 cent worth
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lol I've used those when I had karate lessons, it's OK I'd say... Yet nothing I recommend to use against those bullies... It's not like we want a blood all over the place.
Martial Arts is something I recommend very much bro Fishman :D , karate, kung fu, aikido, taekwondo etc.

Even though you might not have to use it now, you will surely benefit from your skills in the future, insha'Allah.

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Al-Zaara said:
Martial Arts is something I recommend very much bro Fishman :D , karate, kung fu, aikido, taekwondo etc.
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you nicked my idea...but yeah fishdude...i seriously suggest you do that...learn some cool moves and show them :)

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in all honesty a few karate lessons, few roundhouses are not for the 'street' unless u are VERY accomplished.....how often will you get a chance to 'twist the hip' when kicking?...on the streets it's a different ball game:D but martial arts does help to some extent...
In reality if you were to get into a a fight...fists will be flying, maybe be over within seconds.....u just have to adapt the skills that you learn from kick boxin, karate, thai boxin, tae kwondo or jeet kundo [bruce lee's:p] etc
man 'everybody is kung fu fighting':p:D
fi amanAllah
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