Had my Hijab pulled off in Public by a Guy!

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Güven said:
^this time I agree with you mostly bro.

I think neither of us are wrong.

If im wrong , forgive me though.

I still want to ask one thing, bro :D

How reckless should we be by throwing our lives when seeing injustice? Shall we not care what happens to us? or shall we think for the best and safest solution?
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The sister was very brave and it was her concern for a fellow human being that made her act the way she did. We do not know all the details, and perhaps she had no other option. A cool, diplomatic approach is always the best.


It is always best to try to diffuse the situation diplomatically, whenever possible. If you have a cell phone, call 911. Try to get the others on the bus to co-operate with you.

I number of years ago, I was attacked in a mall. Luckily, several men surrounded me and blocked my attacker from attacking me further. Another man called the police. My attacker fled the scene before the police came, but I knew where he lived and he was arrested for assault.

Once I was in a situation on a commuter train where a fight started up. I called the security people, and they came right away to stop the fight. They separated the two parties, and called the police. The police came and took them to the station.
 
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Sister where do you come from? I'm realy sorry that happened. :astagfiru
But sis, next time travel with a Mahram.

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JazakAllah khayr all, all praise is due to Allah alone. I appreciate all the supportive comments I recieved, May Allah reward u all for sharing this with me.

Bear wit me everyone, I can't reply to every post tho I wud like to.

Light of Heaven said:
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Wow! SubhanAllah sis Yanoorah, that's sooooooooooooo bravee of you mashaAllah. I think what you did was good because as Muslims we always stand for justice no matter WHAT happens and that you did! :) Allah(swt) was with you definitely and why not? You being a girl stood up to those punks mashaAllah. Dont listen to anyone sis, what you did was right, but definitely keep something with you to protect you inshaAllah. Honestly I applaud you. I actually have pepper spray with me :D I'd have used it lol if i was with you.

Btw sis, what happened after they left? The girl, did she say anything?Think of it this way sis, that was a major DAWAH what you did. A Muslim girl in a hijab protecting another by HERSELF against a bunch of lil sissy's. Pshh, thats called guts! :)
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The girl was really shacking when I went up to her. She stood up n hugged me, thanked me. She kept asking me why I risked my life for her? I told her that it was written by God, as he decrees all matters.

More then anything she was concerned about my Hijab, she kept telling me that she will replace it, how sorry she was. I was like, don't worry about that lets jst get out of here. Eventually my bro came, we dropped her off. While we were in the car, she made a funny comment 'u remind me of rose in Titanic The part she spits at the guy when he grabs her.' The best come'back she called it & that it did shatter his ego.

I forgot to mention that I was on the Wrong bus....SubhanaAllah!
 
Yanoorah said:
JazakAllah khayr all, all praise is due to Allah alone. I appreciate all the supportive comments I recieved, May Allah reward u all for sharing this with me.

Bear wit me everyone, I can't reply to every post tho I wud like to.



The girl was really shacking when I went up to her. She stood up n hugged me, thanked me. She kept asking me why I risked my life for her? I told her that it was written by God, as he decrees all matters.

More then anything she was concerned about my Hijab, she kept telling me that she will replace it, how sorry she was. I was like, don't worry about that lets jst get out of here. Eventually my bro came, we dropped her off. While we were in the car, she made a funny comment 'u remind me of rose in Titanic The part she spits at the guy when he grabs her.' The best come'back she called it & that it did shatter his ego.

I forgot to mention that I was on the Wrong bus....SubhanaAllah!
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SubhanAllah sis, may Allah grant you jannat-al-firdaus, ameen. And me as well, haha. Ameen. sum ameeeen
 
insha'Allah one last reminder to everyone (including myself) - we act arrogant and think that we come up with things but that is just not true. The Lord Bestows us wisdom, knowledge, and courage and then we utilize it to best of our abilities, allhamdulillah. As a Muslim, we do not do things to please people because we are here to please Allah Azza wa Jal and because pleasing others will not benefits us in this duniya and in akhira

may Allah Ta'ala grant us jantaul fardous, ameen
 
Güven said:
^this time I agree with you mostly bro.

I think neither of us are wrong.

If im wrong , forgive me though.

I still want to ask one thing, bro :D

How reckless should we be by throwing our lives when seeing injustice? Shall we not care what happens to us? or shall we think for the best and safest solution?
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

SubhaanAllah!! Akhi G your amazing.

On your question, generally speaking we should always look for the best solution possible. It entirely depends on the situation though. Act accordingly to the situation. Sometimes, you may have time to act, and other times you have to make your choice riught then (Such as Yanoorah).

i.e. if your sister comes home upset cause someone is being mean to her. You have sometime to think about it. Maybe speak to the teacherthe next day.

i.e if someone is about to run onto the road to an on rushing car. You should act straight away. Try to alert/stop them from crossing the road.

Somethings just come naturally, maybe you used to doing something and able to act quick etc etc

In Yanoorahs situation at the time she has done the best possible thing MarshaAllah. Next time she may wish to "learn" your list of things to do (even me) :statisfie Alhamdulillah

FiAmaaniAllah
 
Greetings and peace be with you Yanoorah;
I forgot to mention that I was on the Wrong bus....SubhanaAllah
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You were on the right bus, who else would have helped the sister, God works in mysterious ways.

In the spirit of praying for an inner peace that surpasses all understanding.

Eric
 
militant behaviour
stand tall sister! god is your saviour
a stolen scarf
but nevermind you defended a poor girl from those old farts
an action performed by only those with smart brains and a good heart
 
Yanoorah said:
On a Bus!

I was talking on the fone wen I heard the most shocking things, coming from a group of 5 guys assaulting/verbally/Sexually a girl who looked about my age. They were calling her a Jew w****, B*** get out of our town, let us see how 'virgin u really are'. The girl kept crying, lowering her head. These were GUYS doing that to a GIRL. My mom was on the fone wit me, she kept telling me to get off the bus that she wud send my bro to pick me up (even she could hear it).

I was like mom wait a min I will call u right back. I walked towards the noise. I stood inbetween the girl n those coward of men. I was Like u gonna have to pass me first. I don't know wat gottten into me. They laughed, one of them was like 'don't u have a prayer to attend to lil girl'. They told me to step away, I told them I am not going. One of them was like 'maybe she has a bomb thats why she's so **** confident'. They go B**** move. I was like the only B****'s I see here is u. Ganging upon a GIRL! They kept saying look at her size, we can mow right over her.

They kept asking me do u know her. This isn't ur Business go away, I told them I am a Girl it's my business!

I stood there inbetween them n the girl, the stupid bus driver didnt do anything, nor did everyone else. They just kept going off the buss one by one. I couldn't believe it.

The scariest looking of them walked straight up to me, removed my hijab. Held my head like, I tried to slap him but he held my hand..I stood there helpless. I spat on him. Right into his face.

At that point I was waiting for the worst. One of them was like, lets just go. They all ended up going off the bus, with my Hijab. I don't know why they left, I really thought they were going to harm me. ALhamdulilah!

Wat a Day!
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You're a hero (or heroine, I dunno, whatever term doesn't upset feminists and/or make them want to kill me). You were the only one trying to help and protect that girl.

Those guys were the typical racist idiots who have nothing to show when you stand up to them.

Islamiclife said:
may Allah Ta'ala reward you abundantly for your courage sister, ameen
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Ameen.
 
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well done yanoorah:thumbs_up i am very much impressed of you
love you habibti<3
 
Scents of Jannah said:
SubhanAllah what an awful thing to go through! Your anger obviously provoked that guy to do that. The best way to tackle a situation like this in the future is to talk to them in a way which reminds them of humanity and makes them feel guilty. There really is a way to do this. And I know from experience it works. If you insult people, you will have to face consequences and hamdulillah this time as horrible as it was, it wasn't worse. Please don't put yourself in a situation like that again sis - unless you're a black belt. :)
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I don't need to prove u anything, n I am sure that u hav good intentions sister, So I will try to address ur post.

I just wanted to clarify that my anger didn't provoke the guy. He was close to physically harm the girl (as were his group). All I did was step in between them. I didn't utter a word first (just showed my presence). Thats when I got called every name under the sun. So I told them to stop it. Yes I did say some mean things to them, but they said it to me first. There is a way for every situation, I am not going to kiss up toa group of men who just called me the B word, who were sexually assaulting a girl infront of me.

I wud do it again, ina heartbeat.

Jzk.
 
Sister, im speechless when i read your story, MashaAllah, you have guts to do that a while nobody HELP you, they are selfish! im sure they r regret it later on. What does a girl said when you stood up to her? Ur a brave lady, Allah bless u for your action, bus driver, im not surprise because i heard a lot of stories about it from "Will you help a stranger" tv programmer, lot of bus drivers did not help. MashaAllah, InshaAllah Allah will help you in the future, If it was me, I dont know what to do. But you took it without fears, you are the role model we are looking up to. MashaAllah, might Allah bless u! Love! Hugs, sister!
 
Yanoorah said:
I don't need to prove u anything, n I am sure that u hav good intentions sister, So I will try to address ur post.

I just wanted to clarify that my anger didn't provoke the guy. He was close to physically harm the girl (as were his group). All I did was step in between them. I didn't utter a word first (just showed my presence). Thats when I got called every name under the sun. So I told them to stop it. Yes I did say some mean things to them, but they said it to me first. There is a way for every situation, I am not going to kiss up toa group of men who just called me the B word, who were sexually assaulting a girl infront of me.

I wud do it again, ina heartbeat.

Jzk.
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Don't get me wrong. I commend you for defending the girl. But purely for your sake as a woman, I don't like the way it was done. Allah was protecting you that day. Cuz, those guys couldve got so mad at you for swearing that they followed you when u got off the bus and.......... I don't even want to say what possiblities that could've arisen. All, I'm saying is, you could've defended the girl, without swearing/spitting (can't rem which) back at the guys. That is all.
 
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I have something to share, something unbelievably amazing

My lovely friend informed me today that she wants to become a Muslim..I'm so surprised alhamdulilah.: D

shes shwn some interest in the deen but didnt know to wat extent, after the incident she visited us at home but ive been so busy wit studies I havent seen her for days! Today she told me that she wants to be muslim but wants to keep it secret for the time bein.

I lost a Hijab & in return Allah gave me a SISTER!
 
wow yanoorha masha'Allah..
I had a feeling something amazing would come out of this..

May Allah swt make her our sister and bless you with a new best friend..

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