I'm still hoping my wife will be better

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Muhammad said:
May Allaah (swt) grant her a complete shifaa, leaving no trace of illness, may He (swt) expiate her sins for every suffering, and may He (swt) grant both of you strength and patience and keep you steadfast during this trial, Aameen!
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Aameen,Thumm Aameen

Seriously,Its feeling real bad but perhaps Allah tests more those whom HE loves.Never loose heart my dear brother :)
 
ardianto said:
My wife is in hospital again.

Like I've said, she has a problem with fluid in her lung. Doctor had given her medicine to drain that lung fluid, but need time to drain it. So, I provide oxygen tanks in our home (2 tanks) that she can use when she feel hard to breath normally.

Thursday afternoon, my wife said she was breathing tightness. Friday morning she said, her breathing really congested without oxygen from the tank. So, after salah Jum'ah I brought her to hospital.

Doctor checked her with rontgen and USG, and this noon they removed fluid from her lung again. For the time being, she can breath normally again.

Please remember my wife in your du'a.
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Assalamu-alaikum akhee,

Im really sorry to hear this.
I pray that Allah lightens her load and grants her (and yourself) the strength to bear this trial with patience.
Ameen.

You had mentioned in a previous post that she is receiving chemotherapy - so I assume that she is currently under the care of an oncology team.

Perhaps you can ask her doctor whether she would benefit from a procedure called 'pleurodesis' - which involves a chest drain being inserted, and a substance (usually Bleomycin) is injected (via the drain) into the space between the lung and the chest wall.

Insha Allah, this would ensure that the fluid does not re-accumalate - so that she would not need repeat lung drainage, and it may help with her shortness of breathe as well.

(If you wish to read more about this procedure, before asking her doctor - you can refer here: http://www.cancerresearchuk.org/cancer-help/about-cancer/cancer-questions/pleurodesis-treatment)



Allah (subhanawataála) is the closest, to all His servants who are afflicted by disease.
So, dont lose hope in His mercy.
Let this affliction be the means of you both drawing ever close to Allah......for this is all that He desires when He tests the ummah of Nabi (sallalahu alaihi wasalam).

Our duaas are with you and your wife during this difficult time.


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Jazak Allahu Khayran, for your duas, my brothers and my sisters.
 
~Zaria~ said:
Assalamu-alaikum akhee,

Im really sorry to hear this.
I pray that Allah lightens her load and grants her (and yourself) the strength to bear this trial with patience.
Ameen.

You had mentioned in a previous post that she is receiving chemotherapy - so I assume that she is currently under the care of an oncology team.

Perhaps you can ask her doctor whether she would benefit from a procedure called 'pleurodesis' - which involves a chest drain being inserted, and a substance (usually Bleomycin) is injected (via the drain) into the space between the lung and the chest wall.

Insha Allah, this would ensure that the fluid does not re-accumalate - so that she would not need repeat lung drainage, and it may help with her shortness of breathe as well.

(If you wish to read more about this procedure, before asking her doctor - you can refer here: http://www.cancerresearchuk.org/cancer-help/about-cancer/cancer-questions/pleurodesis-treatment)



Allah (subhanawataála) is the closest, to all His servants who are afflicted by disease.
So, dont lose hope in His mercy.
Let this affliction be the means of you both drawing ever close to Allah......for this is all that He desires when He tests the ummah of Nabi (sallalahu alaihi wasalam).

Our duaas are with you and your wife during this difficult time.


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Assalamu'alaikum, ukhti.

And Jazakillahu khayr for your information. Insha Allah I will talk about it to doctor, and also to my sister in-law (my wife older sister). She was a nurse in govt hospital before she's retired. I get many help from her in take care my wife.
 
~Zaria~ said:
Perhaps you can ask her doctor whether she would benefit from a procedure called 'pleurodesis' - which involves a chest drain being inserted, and a substance (usually Bleomycin) is injected (via the drain) into the space between the lung and the chest wall.
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I wrote my previous post when I back to my home. I've planned to talk about "pleurodesis" with the doctor after I back to the hospital. But I didn't need to talk about it, because one doctor already told my wife about this method.

However, the doctor who takecare my wife since the beginning decide to not use this method due to my wife condition. My wife still in chemotherapy process.
 
My wife got two chemotherapy, one was yesterday, one was this morning. She still need rest before can return to the home.
 
Chemo is horrible , may Allah ease her pain n giver her shifa Ameen
 
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Periwinkle18 said:
VeChemo is horrible , may Allah ease her pain n giver her shots Ameen
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'Usual' medicine is like kill the disease with riffle. If the shot was accurate, the disease would be killed. Chemotherapy is like kill the disease with bomb. Although it kill the disease, the 'explosion' can affect the surrounding.

The common side effect of chemotherapy is lossing hair. Yes, it's happen to my wife. But it's okay, her hair can grow again, Insha Allah, and like I've said, whatever happen to my wife, I will always love her.
 
I know :( my mum used to get chemo, she lost her hair n her nails went black too n she used to throw up so much was horrible.


Awwww thts v sweet inshaAllah she's going to get better inshaAllah.
 
Periwinkle18 said:
I know :( my mum used to get chemo, she lost her hair n her nails went black too n she used to throw up so much was horrible.
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I'm sorry to hear about your mother. Yes, that's effect of chemotherapy. But how is she now?. I hope she is okay.
 
I will go to hospital to pick up my wife. She can back to the home now.
 
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I'm sorry to hear about your mother. Yes, that's effect of chemotherapy. But how is she now?. I hope she is okay.
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Something strange happened with my mum after the first chemo the the thing disappeared Buh still mum got all her chemo done as well as radiation Alhumdulilah she's okay now. Happened in 2003 I think sometime in April or May.
 
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Something strange happened with my mum after the first chemo the the thing disappeared Buh still mum got all her chemo done as well as radiation Alhumdulilah she's okay now. Happened in 2003 I think sometime in April or May.
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2003 ..... that's 9 years ago.

I'm glad to hear your mother now is okay. Alhamdulillah.

:)
 
Alhumdulilah n inshaAllah ur wife is gng to b okay too inshaAllah dun worry just keep praying
 
Assalamu Alaikum

May this post finds you in the best of health and eeman.How is your wife brother ardianto?
 
^ was going to ask the same was thinking abt her
 
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Although very very slowly, my wife condition is going better. Her lung still produce fluid but not so much again. Two days ago she went to hospital to drain her lung fluid. And she is not often feel pain on her legs again like before. And the most important, her mental is going stronger, she is not often sad again, and often smile now.

I know I cannot expect fast recovery, but at least slow progress is better than no progress. I hope this slow progress will always continue. I've promised her, when she has strong enough I will bring to visit park and other beautiful places. I hope I can fulfill this promise soon.

:)
 
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I logged out because my wife wanted to eat, .... in the afternoon. She ate gudeg, Javanese traditional food, that sent by her sister, and mango from my aunt.
 
Alhumdulilah :)

Aww thts so sweet m glad she's getting better n is smiling. Tell her to keep smiling its sunnah :)

M sure she's gng to love it Wen u take her to the park. May Allah give her a speedy recovery ameen
 
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