interesting, well as I mentioned above they came round we had our discussion and they went, one of them seemed quite interested in the Quran - don't know if they'll come again in the future
so you're a JW, well tell me then how death (not existing) can be a just punishment for a lifetime of sin?
what leads you to believe that hell does not exist?
A lot of people feel that there can be no justice and proper punishment without a hell of torment. But what you have to consider is that the future stretches on into eternity. And so punishment in hell would literally be
infinite: unending. Now however evil or destructive a person has behaved in their lifetime, whatever wickedness they would have committed would be
limited. It wouldn't be justice to chastise them forever for a limited period of sin.
God's punishment always has a purpose. When he brings suffering and hardship upon someone as a consequence for sin, it is with the view of changing that person's course, making them turn around and repent of their sins. This took place with King Manasseh the king of Judah. He filled Jerusalem with bloodshed, practiced idolatry, the occult and magic and did worse than any king before him. But when God punished him and he was taken into exile by a pagan nation he repented and changed completely.
Obviously though, those ones supposedly burning in hell would have no opportunity to repent and regain God's favour. They would be stuck in hell forever. Their ongoing suffering would serve no purpose.
Hell does, of course, exist and is referred to in the Bible. "Hell" is translated from the Hebrew word: "sheol" and the Greek words: "hades" and "gehenna". But the meanings of these terms does not correspond with a place of eternal fiery torment. Sheol and hades mean the same thing: the grave. Gehenna corresponds to the Hebrew "Gei-Hinnom" (from where the Qur'an's Arabic term "jahannam" is derived) meaning the "Valley of Hinnom". This was the location, not of a place of torture, but of a burning rubbish dump. Hence gehenna fitly represents a place of total and final destruction.
This is a very broad and simplified overview. I could go into much more detail if you wish.
The real starting point to lead into a study of this subject would be to consider what is meant by a "soul". A soul is not some immaterial, immortal part of man. Rather, soul means a living
person and could even mean an animal.
and what leads you to believe that god has a begotten son? and does this make sense to you?
It makes sense to me that God has created living beings and given them life. Mankind and the angels are made in God's image, and since a father is a life-giver, God can be viewed as their Father and they can be called sons of God. We believe that Jesus was the first creation of God and so, in a special sense, his son. The word for "only-begotten" is understood to
literally mean: "unique", "one of a kind". I don't see a problem with saying that Jesus is the first creation, the only one of his kind.