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So long as her household comes first, her husband and children are not neglected and the health of her family isn't compromised in any way (i.e running to convenience foods, eating out because work takes up too much time) then by all means.

I do feel women should focus more on doing work where women are involved (ie: midwifery, beautician, women's health), take care of your women folk know what I mean? Women will always prefer to go to women for these things of course so this is what I would encourage my daughter to do In Shaa Allah.

The business Khadijah (r.a) had was passed down to her by her father, not something she started on her own, and men ran it for her. That's how she came to know that prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) was an honest man, he ran a transaction for her and instead of shortchanging her like the rest of the men, he was honest. She survived off of this business when she was widowed. When she married, the care of her children and her husband was priority, she would actually go check on the prophet (s.a.w) personally when he was in his cave to make sure he was doing okay. I am saying this to 1) Show how Khadija's(r.a) business actually started,it is good to know and 2) to show by using her example, that yes women can have a business/careers there's priorities for her and as long as that isn't forgotten or compromised then it's all good.

Just my two pesos :)

- cOsMiC
 
Salam alaykum

sister Khadija is a good example to us all.

Thanks for reminding it to us brother.
 
sister harb said:
Salam alaykum

sister Khadija is a good example to us all.

Thanks for reminding it to us brother.
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Waleikum Asalaam :) Yes her story is one of my favorites...well it is difficult to choose a favorite among the Mothers of the believers, they are all amazing stories!

I'm a sister :embarrass

- cOsMiC
 
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sister harb said:
Oops. Sorry I mess you to br Scimi by similar avatar.
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Clearly Brother Scimitar's one is red and my Sister Cosmicks one is purple, Brother Scimitar's avatar is larger in size than my Cosmicks and there's a sheen on my Cosmick's avatar and not on Brother Scimitar's

How you could confuse the two...

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cOsMiCiNtUiTiOn said:
So long as her household comes first, her husband and children are not neglected and the health of her family isn't compromised in any way (i.e running to convenience foods, eating out because work takes up too much time) then by all means.
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Absolutely.

cOsMiCiNtUiTiOn said:
I do feel women should focus more on doing work where women are involved (ie: midwifery, beautician, women's health), take care of your women folk know what I mean? Women will always prefer to go to women for these things of course so this is what I would encourage my daughter to do In Shaa Allah.
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I see your point, my Cosmicks, but I would still encourage my daugther/s to exceed in everything even career-wise, if they have the potential, then why not? Sky's the limit, as the folks say. But I will always tell them and others to NEVER compromise the Deen, no matter what the achievements or rewards that the career/postion/job allows them to acquire

cOsMiCiNtUiTiOn said:
The business Khadijah (r.a) had was passed down to her by her father, not something she started on her own, and men ran it for her. That's how she came to know that prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) was an honest man, he ran a transaction for her and instead of shortchanging her like the rest of the men, he was honest. She survived off of this business when she was widowed. When she married, the care of her children and her husband was priority, she would actually go check on the prophet (s.a.w) personally when he was in his cave to make sure he was doing okay. I am saying this to 1) Show how Khadija's(r.a) business actually started,it is good to know and 2) to show by using her example, that yes women can have a business/careers there's priorities for her and as long as that isn't forgotten or compromised then it's all good.
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Now she was a superwoman :D It was still her business though... :ia: All of us Sisters shall aspire to her level!

Ma Salama
 
sister harb said:
Oops. Sorry I mess you to br Scimi by similar avatar.

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No worries, it was bound to happen loooooooool!

Qurratul Ayn said:





Clearly Brother Scimitar's one is red and my Sister Cosmicks one is purple, Brother Scimitar's avatar is larger in size than my Cosmicks and there's a sheen on my Cosmick's avatar and not on Brother Scimitar's

How you could confuse the two...

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rofl! you are SOOO detail oriented. masha Allah. :)

- cOsMiC





 
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I was just wondering.....how would you feel if your daughter decides to enter the following fields, e.g:

- An air-hostess
- A civil/ mechanical engineer
- She desires to help out at her dads shop (e.g. managing the tills)


Shukran
 
Salam alaykum

I don´t see any problems with any of those jobs (if I would do them or if I would have a daughter).
 
~Zaria~ said:
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I was just wondering.....how would you feel if your daughter decides to enter the following fields, e.g:

- An air-hostess
- A civil/ mechanical engineer
- She desires to help out at her dads shop (e.g. managing the tills)


Shukran
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I believe that we should take in consideration what jobs are suitable for both genders from an Islamic and biologic point of view. Men and women are different therefore some jobs are appropriate for men to do and some jobs are suitable for women. Occupations such as soldier and construction workers may be more suitable for men since they are stronger. While language related occupations such as teachers, nurses and receptionist are more suitable for women because they are less aggressive and have more language abilities.

I would not like my daughter working as air hostess. Just goggle the requirements for becoming an airhostess n you will see why It's not appropiate for a Muslimah.
 
The best job for a woman is looking after the household, bringing up the children and being a dutiful wife to their husbands. Anthing else is competing with men.
 
^^ Unfortunately to every women kind of job is not possible. Somebodies have to make work outside to earn they living.
 
Abu Loren said:
The best job for a woman is looking after the household, bringing up the children and being a dutiful wife to their husbands. Anthing else is competing with men.
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Being a teacher in a girls' school isn't competing with men. Being a midwife or a gynaecologist or any doctor who works exclusively with women is not competing with men. Men can't do those jobs (or, at least, it would be much better if they didn't). Societies are in need of women who can provide services for other women and girls.
 
Abu Loren said:
The best job for a woman is looking after the household, bringing up the children and being a dutiful wife to their husbands. Anthing else is competing with men.
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Is there anything inherently problematic about women being in positions where they compete with men? Why would that be inherently different from men competing with other men?
 
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The purpose of the above questions is to, in shaa Allah, highlight the fact that we all will have different opinions and view-points on such matters.

However in matters of fiqh, and when there is any doubt with regards to our deen whatsoever, the best approach would be to consult with those who have more knowledge than us, in shaa Allah.


This is the response provided to a mother who enquired about her daughter working as an air-hostess, from well-respected Hanafi scholars:

My daughter has got an offer of Air-hostage job in Saudi Airline. She is still unmarried. Can I accept this job for her. Can she travel alone thru plane at any destination in the world. She will get good salary package hence we wish to accept this job for some time. Pleas advise me whether her income will be halal if she accept this job. Thank you and Jazakamulla khairun.


In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatoh

Islam is a complete and comprehensive religion. Its teachings, philosophies and instructions are contained in the Quran and Hadith. Both (Quran and Hadith) serve as a guidebook and manual for Muslims. The decision of a Muslim ought to comply with this guidebook and manual. To understand the system of Islam, the example of a judge would be appropriate. The decision of a judge would be acted upon in the court of law as long as it is in conformity with the book of law. If not, his decision would be rejected. Similarly, the decision of Muslim would be accepted in the court of Allah Ta’ala as long as it is in conformity with the Quran and Hadith. If not, his decisions would be incorrect. Therefore, it is of great importance that our decisions conform to the teachings of the Quran and Hadith. Decisions of this nature will surely draw the Barakah (blessings) and Rahmah (mercy) of Allah Ta’ala.

Islam advocates the honour and chastity of women and has never allowed their integrity to be dampened. Allah Ta’ala has prohibited men from casting lustful, filthy glances on women and has instructed men to lower their glances before them. Women are special creations of Allah Ta’ala meant to be concealed, honoured and taken care of and not left as objects of attraction for men. Allowing them to loiter and linger around in public is in reality dishonour to them. Women are not meant to satisfy the passion of strange men, rather they are meant to satisfy their husbands. Allah Ta’ala addresses women in the Quran with the following words:


وَقَرْنَفِيبُيُوتِكُنَّوَلَاتَبَرَّجْنَتَبَرُّجَالْجَاهِلِيَّةِالْأُولَى

“Remain in your homes, and do not display (your) beauty as it used to be displayed in the days of earlier ignorance” (Al-Ahzab, 33)​




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As Rijaal (men)and leaders of families, it is our duty to act on the command of Allah Ta’ala, protect the chastity, respect and honour of our women and not allow them to be victims of filthy glances of men. Muslim mothers and daughters are the pride of this ummah and never should we allow their chastity and honour to be streaked. Rasulullah (Sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) has mentioned:

والرجلراعفيأهلهوهومسؤولعنرعيته

“A man is shepherd of his family and would be questioned regarding his flock” (Sahih Bukhari #853)​




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In view of the above, we reply to your query:

In allowing women to take up air hostess jobs, the following unislamic activities are observed:

Travelling without a Mahram

It is not permissible for women to travel without a Mahram. (a male companion with whom marriage is Haram).
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) has mentioned:
لاتسافرالمرأةإلامعذيمحرم

“A Woman should not travel without a Mahram” (Sahih Bukhari #1763)​




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The Fuqahaa (Jurists) have stated:
ولا تسافر المرأة بغير محرم ثلاثة أيام وما فوقها

A woman cannot travel for three days or more (i.e.78km or more) without a Mahram” (Al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, vol 5, pg 366, Rasheediyya / Al Muheet al-Burhani, vol 8, pg 114, Idara Al-Quran)
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Furthermore, it is expected of an air hostess to be appealing to the passengers. That is expressed by them applying makeup, smiling to one and all and obviously the dress code of an air hostess is meant to fulfil such unislamic expectations.


Fear of Fitnah

A young girl that is unmarried and without the company of a Mahram will certainly be tested with temptations and caught up in the snares of Shaytan during her journey. It is the duty of the parents to protect the chastity and honour of their daughter. We have been reliably informed by people in the industry about how they tempt air hostess and air hostess tempt them while being abroad.

In light of the above, it is abundantly clear that it will not be permissible for a woman to take up the job as an air hostess. Surely, at the time of necessity, there are other permissible avenues for women to earn a livelihood. They could possibly work or engage themselves in some occupation from home. It will also not be permissible for the parents to allow their daughter in taking up this job.


And Allah knows best
Wassalam
Ml. Talha Desai,
Student Darul Iftaa

Concured by:
Muhammed Zakariyya Desai,
Assistant Mufti
Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah

http://50-56-29-176.static.cloud-ips.com/fatwa/fatwa.php?askid=3a19e854e1b34cda4281fde479ad305f
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The following may also be of benefit in shaa Allah:


are women allowed to work in this country..

Hanafi Fiqh > Askimam.org
Answer
According to the Shari?ah, the Qur?aan and Ahaadith, the woman?s place is at home. It is the responsibility of the husband to support his wife and fulfil all her needs. If a woman does not have any financial support, then only she may seek employment. In such a situation, she must adhere to the laws of Hijaab.

The concept of females working merely for economic independency has no basis in the Shari?ah. In fact, it is a root of many evils. It is this economic independency in a woman that gives her the courage to break her marital home. Consider the marital breakdown in the US (4-5) due to woman independency. If she was dependant, or her husband, she would exercise restraint and maintain her marriage. That is best in the interest of her family, husband and children. It does not mean that a woman should be dependant on men merely to maintain her marriage.

We have merely expressed the wisdom of a female being dependant. This also does not mean a female cannot be rich. She may earn an income but without violating the laws of the Shari?ah. Firstly, a wife must get the consent of her husband to work. If the husband refuses, she cannot work.

She must adhere to the laws of Hijaab. Any violation of the laws of Hijaab even with the consent of the husband is not permissible. that includes working in an environment of males, females mixing. Not talking to the opposite gender is not sufficient grounds for permissibility. The form and shape of a female must be concealed from a male. Segregation of sexes is an integral part of Deen. That maintains a healthy and pure mind. A mind contaminated with the different forms and shapes of woman is death to spirituality. It leads to funtasising of the opposite gender which is a strong and motivating cause for every form of illicit relationship.


If your wife wants to work, you may consider any form of home industry or alternatively she may have some skills to offer to woman. There are many woman who require services in the form of guidance and counseling. Your wife should consider undertaking a course of studying about a Muslim woman?s role and assist other woman. There is a great need for such counseling and guidance, especially in the US. That will be a great contribution from her side. She may also charge a fee for her time.


and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

http://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/29533
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May Allah (subhanawata'ala) make it easy on our sisters, in this world with so many fitnahs, and may we strive to under-take every action solely for His pleasure.
Ameen


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Abu Loren said:
The best job for a woman is looking after the household, bringing up the children and being a dutiful wife to their husbands. Anthing else is competing with men.
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Not all women can get married.

What's wrong with competition? If you are not competing with others for the same position, you just become lazy and arrogant.
 
Salam alaykum

Actually with competition, the best one will get job - just same which is the gender. Isn´t that the most important?

^o)

If I have to choose a doctor I surely want the best one. Gender is not important, just that the doctor is professional.
 

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